What does healing look like when you're still stuck co-parenting with your abuser? In this raw and honest conversation, Toni sits down with Vickie Lynn — survivor, coach, and fierce advocate for mums navigating high-conflict co-parenting with narcissistic exes.

Together, they explore the emotional roller coaster of trying to raise emotionally healthy children while protecting them from manipulation, smear campaigns, and trauma — all while being accused of being the “high-conflict” parent. Toni shares parts of her own story too, including the complex dynamics of raising a child who looks like your abuser, parenting as a survivor, and navigating a stepfamily full of tension and judgement.

If you're a mum trying to break generational cycles, protect your kids, and still hold space for yourself — this episode is a must-listen.

And for stepmums caught in the crossfire or unsure where they fit, this chat brings clarity, validation, and a fresh perspective on building bridges and setting boundaries.

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In this episode, Kassandra opens up about the challenges she faces as a military wife in a blended family. From managing a household alone while her husband is deployed, to navigating the complexities of parenting and step-parenting, Kassandra shares her raw and honest feelings about trying to balance it all. Tune in for a candid conversation about who really gets the final say in blended families when you're juggling multiple roles and responsibilities.

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This week, Jyl and I dive deep into the complexities of blended family life, mental health, and health struggles. I open up about my ongoing battle with chronic pain and the decision to undergo a hysterectomy, as well as how my journey with health impacts my family dynamics. I also share a raw and honest update on where things currently stand in my relationship with lil J.

We explore how life often throws unexpected curveballs and how we adjust, even when things don’t go to plan. From the highs and lows of motherhood and stepmotherhood to the importance of knowing your limits, this episode is packed with personal stories, reflection, and a whole lot of real talk.

Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that will leave you reflecting on your own experiences and the chaos that is life.

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