• Julia Malakiman: Constructing Love — How Society Shapes Our Romantic Preferences | Reloscope #65
    Nov 7 2024

    Ever wondered why you find yourself more drawn to certain ‘types’ of partners? This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by dating coach and expert Julia Malakiman to investigate the culprits behind this phenomenon.

    Based in San Jose, California, Julia Malakiman works with individuals who struggle with forming relationships and having confidence in their romantic life. Working primarily with men who are hoping to overcome anxiety and their people-pleasing perfectionist tendencies, Julia Malakiman’s coaching program has amassed a plethora of glowing reviews.

    In this episode, Julia Malakiman addresses the misconception that people in the dating market are seeking high looks, good income, and occupation, asserting that most people look for something much deeper in healthy long-term relationships: communication.

    Together, Marie and Julia Malakiman examine the media's depiction of romance, and deconstruct the factors that construct our perceptions of romantic relationships. So, whether you’re looking for expert advice on wading through the dating world, or simply an avenue for self-reflection, tune in this week for a thought-provoking episode!

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    Connect with Julia through the following platforms: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliamalakiman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliamalakiman/ Email: julia@svdatingcoach.com

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  • Minh Trần: Navigating Dating Apps | Reloscope #64
    Oct 24 2024

    In the age of swipes and likes, the mobile phone is very much a viable option for finding love and connection, yet there is a shame attached to it that persists. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by psychotherapist Minh Trần to deconstruct the stigma and unravel the mystery behind digital dating.

    As a digital nomad, Minh Trần sees clients from around the globe, his approaches largely comprising Jungian depth psychotherapy, relational psychoanalysis, and psychedelics integration counseling. But outside the digital clinic, Minh Trần has been satiating his passion for musicals through his ‘musical lectures’ at national and international conferences.

    In this episode, Minh Trần offers his perspective on the difference in experiences between meeting people online versus offline, and addresses common misconceptions about finding love online. That aside, he shares his thoughts on dating app decorum. Together, Marie and Minh Trần trade personal anecdotes and discuss the makings of a ‘good’ dating profile.

    So, whether you’re looking to expand your horizons with some dating app guidance, or simply looking for personal stories, tune in for an entertaining and nuance-filled episode.

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  • Anisa Varasteh: The Psychology of Seduction | Reloscope #63
    Oct 10 2024

    Dancing in the murky waters of seduction—where desire meets deception—often goes far beyond a couple of amusing lines. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by sexologist Anisa Varasteh for psychological insights and expert advice on how to speak the language of seduction.

    As a sexologist, Anisa Varasteh works with her clients to discover and re-discover what is fulfilling, meaningful and pleasurable for them. Offering services in both English and Persian, she supports her clients with their relationships, sense of identity, sex life, and everything in between.

    In this grappling episode, Anisa breaks down the process of seduction into six digestible steps, expertly elaborating on the psychological factors that come into play. While highlighting the effectiveness of body language, she stresses on the importance—and attractiveness—of verbal consent. Together, Marie and Anisa discuss preemptive ways to build confidence before flirting.

    From subtle cues to power plays, this episode promises to be enlightening for natural charmers and awkward communicators alike.

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    Website: https://www.relatesexology.com/

    Society of Australian Sexologists: https://societyaustraliansexologists.org.au/Sys/PublicProfile/52912646/5948828

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  • Nicole Koelewijn: Commitment and Long-term Planning in Relationships| Reloscope #62
    Sep 26 2024
    You've found someone special, and the spark is undeniable. But as the novelty fades, what truly sustains a romantic relationship? It's not just love; it's commitment. Dive into this week on Reloscope The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by relationship coach Nicole Koelewijn where we unpack the critical role of commitment in long-term relationship planning and discover the keys to forging a bond that stands the test of time. With over a decade of experience in coaching, mediation, and consulting and her insights from motherhood, Nicole Koelewijn offers a comprehensive perspective on relationships. She believes relationships are the cornerstone of a fulfilling life, driving her dedication to empowering individuals with the tools to nurture healthy connections. In this episode, Nicole Koelewijn dissects the essence of commitment within relationships and sheds light on its profound impact on long-term planning with a partner. She advocates for proactive measures such as open discussions on personal values, life aspirations, and decision-making processes, emphasizing their role in fostering understanding and strengthening bonds. Furthermore, Nicole dispels common misconceptions surrounding relationship commitment and provides valuable insights into the delicate balance between dedication and overcommitment. Join Marie and Nicole Koelewijn this illuminating dialogue that promises to redefine your perspective on commitment and long-term relationship planning. Subscribe to our podcast for more thought-provoking conversations and unveil the blueprint to nurturing enduring connections. Resources as recommended by Nicole Koelewijn this episode: The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com Fair Play Card Game: https://www.fairplaylife.com/the-cards Follow Nicole Koelewijn’s work here: https://www.nicolekoelewijncoach.com/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationships.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent
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  • Shira Etzion, LMFT: Shared Responsibilities for Personal Growth| Reloscope #61
    Sep 12 2024

    Join the conversation this week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast! Hosted by Marie Stella, this episode features the incredible Shira Etzion, LMFT.

    Prone to laughter, silliness, and (when it's called for) seriousness, Shira Etzion, LMFT has a natural ability to connect deeply with her clients: her style vacillates between an assertive coach and a celebratory champion. She wholeheartedly believes that whatever brings a person into therapy can be a powerful catalyst, ultimately helping them create a more enriched and honest life experience for themselves and those around them.

    In this episode, Shira Etzion, LMFT dispels common misconceptions about sharing responsibilities in relationships, challenging the idea of merely dividing housework equally. Through her insights, you will discover the positive impact shared responsibilities can have on a couple and gain practical suggestions on supporting each other.

    Join Marie and Shira Etzion, LMFT as they unravel daily habits and practices that empower romantic partners on the journey of sharing responsibilities. Take advantage of this insightful conversation that promises to redefine your perspective on bearing responsibilities in a relationship! Hit play now and enrich your relationship experience.

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  • Dr. Claudia Six: Sex Positivity — Fostering Healthy Attitude Towards Desire | Reloscope #60
    Aug 29 2024

    This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by Dr. Claudia Six to discuss what it takes to foster healthy attitudes towards desire.

    Born and bred in France, Dr. Six grew up in a culture that is comfortable with sexuality. She moved to the United States at the ripe age of 19 for college, and subsequently pursued a Master of Arts in Psychology, along with a PhD in Clinical Sexology. Ever since, Dr. Six has served as an adjunct professor at the University of San Francisco, presented a TEDx talk on sexual performance anxiety in women, and even written a book ‘Erotic Integrity’.

    In this episode, Dr. Six posits that one’s attitude towards sexual desire can have a major effect on their relationships. She further addresses common misconceptions surrounding sexual desire, and shares recommendations on bonding exercises that may help with sexual stimulation. Together, Marie and Dr. Six discuss various obstacles that may arise when attempting to adjust perspectives on sex, and how those challenges can be navigated.

    So, tune into this episode for a riveting and liberating sex-positive conversation!

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  • Hui Wen Tong: The Path from Conflict to Violence in Intimate Relationships | Reloscope #59
    Aug 15 2024

    This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by relationships counselor, Hui Wen Tong, to discuss the path from verbal conflict to physical violence and when to take an exit.

    Drawing on various person-centered modalities, Hui Wen Tong empowers clients by helping them address their internal struggles and self-belief systems. Outside the counseling clinic, she is a martial arts instructor with a fourth degree black belt in Ninjutsu, as well as a second degree black belt in Taekwondo.

    In this episode, Hui Wen Tong addresses the importance of creating a safe and non-judgemental therapeutic space for individuals who are dealing with relationship violence, be it the victim or perpetrator. That aside, she highlights triggers and stressors that might increase the likelihood of violence in intimate relationships. Together, Marie and Hui Wen discuss the various challenges that may arise in attempting to leave violent relationships, as well as how to overcome them.

    So, tune in today for an incredibly insightful conversation about the journey from words to wounds.

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  • Tessa Sinclair, LMFT: Navigating the Realities of Daily Life Together | Reloscope #58
    Aug 1 2024
    This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist, Tessa Sinclair, LMFT, to uncover what lies beyond the honeymoon phase in the daily lives of a couple. Drawing from an eclectic background of therapy modalities, Tessa Sinclair, LMFT tailors every session to the needs of each client at her own holistic private practice operating in San Francisco since 2016. She specializes in helping high-achievers who've been suffering from burnout, overwhelm, and self-sabotage find connection and relief. In this episode, Tessa Sinclair, LMFT begins by offering her definition and perspective on the honeymoon phase. She further elucidates the reasons why couples might choose to live together, and outlines some realistic expectations for a daily life together. Together, Marie and Tessa Sinclair, LMFT address the trend of couples living together, debating benefits and drawbacks. So, tune in for an expert’s opinion on couple life beyond the honeymoon period! Visit the resources and tools mentioned by Tessa Sinclair, LMFT below. Fair Play: https://www.fairplaylife.com/the-cards Terrence Real’s Feedback Wheel: https://www.facebook.com/TerryRealRLI/photos/20-using-the-feedback-wheela-contract-with-your-partner-to-do-the-process-dont-j/2060336067326918/ Esther Perel’s Where Should We Begin: https://game.estherperel.com Connect with Tessa Sinclair, LMFT via the following platforms. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/talkwithtessa/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkwithtessa/ Website: http://www.talkwithtessa.com/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Wardrobe sponsored by AEGENDA. Experience the fusion of art, science, and technology in fashion with AEGENDA. Elevate your wardrobe to new heights of luxury and functionality. Visit https://www.aegenda.com today Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationships.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent
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