On this episode, Caroline, Jordan, and Kevin sit with Ryan Klinghammer, reigning Mr. Trans Midwest, as they discuss gender identity, creative expression, and what it means to build community in the face of systemic adversity. Ryan walks us through his journey, from growing up in St. Louis and discovering his love of theater, to coming out as trans in high school and stepping into his power through the world of drag king performance.

Ryan speaks candidly about the challenges of navigating transmasculinity, especially as someone who didn’t see himself reflected in mainstream narratives. He describes how drag became a transformative outlet that allowed him to explore queer masculinity in liberating and joyful ways.

The episode closes with Ryan’s reflections on organizing large-scale community events, from trans prom to disability marches, and his goals as a leader within the Trans U.S.A. Pageantry system. He shares insights on balancing protest and celebration within Pride spaces, and emphasizes the importance of financial sustainability and access.

“Ryan Klinghammer is a transmasc drag king, advocate, and community builder based in St. Louis, Missouri. He currently holds the title of Mr. Trans Midwest 2025 and performs under the name Mars. His work spans the stage and the streets, from leading drag king showcases and workshops, to organizing queer proms, disability marches, and fashion shows that center trans joy. A former theater kid turned cultural worker, Ryan uses pageantry and performance as platforms for visibility, mentorship, and systemic change. His mission is to create sustainable, affirming spaces for trans people to thrive, connect, and reclaim their power.”

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