Selective Ignorance with Mandii B Podcast By Mandii B cover art

Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

By: Mandii B
Listen for free

About this listen

 Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public’s beliefs by unpacking trending topics with comedic education and outlandish hot takes.

Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.2025 Politics & Government Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Ep. 17 | Can Women Be Held Accountable For Picking Sh***y Partners feat. Carla Wilmaris

    Ep. 17 | Can Women Be Held Accountable For Picking Sh***y Partners feat. Carla Wilmaris
    Jun 3 2025
    In this introspective and candid episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B turns the spotlight on the often uncomfortable—but necessary—conversation around accountability in relationships. Specifically, she explores the ways women sometimes overlook glaring red flags in pursuit of love, security, or validation, and how societal expectations can blur the lines between empathy and accountability.

    The episode begins with [00:00] an overview of accountability and relationship choices, inviting listeners to reflect on how early influences and personal history shape who we love—and why. [02:51] Mandii breaks down what red flags actually look like, why they're often ignored, and how our desire for connection can cloud our judgment. [06:02] The conversation shifts to how men and women pursue love differently, highlighting the pressures women face to “make it work,” even when the odds are against them.

    Then, at [09:06] Mandii unpacks manipulation in dating, particularly the subtle financial and emotional tactics that can create long-term harm. Using [12:00] current events involving Skai Jackson and Halle Bailey, Mandii examines how the public reacts to young women in the spotlight choosing partners who may not be ideal—and how those reactions often lack the nuance and compassion real healing requires.

    [15:02] The complexity of young love is laid bare, alongside [17:57] the challenge of balancing empathy for someone’s circumstances with accountability for their choices. Mandii explores [20:48] how age and experience change our perspective, making it easier to spot patterns and avoid repeating mistakes. In a refreshing turn, [23:53] the show takes a moment to celebrate healthy and unexpected love stories, like those of Cardi B and Stefon Diggs, before returning to [27:09] the individual journey of healing, therapy, and growth that precedes real connection.

    By [34:51] the episode dives into emotional triggers, self-awareness, and the role of past traumas in how we show up in relationships. Mandii reflects deeply on [37:53] the societal narratives placed on women, especially around responsibility for making relationships work, and the burden of emotional labor. [40:38] Financial manipulation and power dynamics are explored next, emphasizing how money can be used as both bait and weapon in modern dating. That leads into [43:54] an honest discussion about the consequences of ignoring warning signs, even when they’re flashing bright red.

    [50:53] Mandii shares personal experiences and stories of growth, laying out the uncomfortable but necessary truth: healing often requires accountability—not just for others, but for ourselves. Finally, [01:04:52] the episode closes on a hopeful note, reflecting on the human desire to be loved and how true fulfillment starts with self-completion, not partnership.

    “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
    Pre Sale Link

    Follow the Guests:
    IG:@carlawilmaris

    Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignorance

    Follow the host on Social Media
    Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps

    Follow the show on Social Media
    Instagram @selectiveignorancepod
    Tiktok @selective.ignorance
    X/Twitter @selectiveigpod
    Show more Show less
    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Ep. 16 | Diddy aka Did He or Did She feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

    Ep. 16 | Diddy aka Did He or Did She feat. Jason "Jah" Lee
    May 27 2025
    In this powerful and necessary conversation on Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by special guest Jason "Jah" Lee (Bossip, CNN) alongside A-King and Jayson Rodriguez take a close look at the ongoing Diddy trial and the broader conversations it has sparked around consent, abuse, and accountability—especially when wealth and celebrity are involved.

    The episode opens with a personal [00:00] introduction and book announcement, a quick recap of the Joey Bada$$ vs. The West Coast rap battle before diving into [02:48] the public perception surrounding the allegations against Diddy. Mandii explores how narratives are shaped by media coverage, and the often unfair scrutiny survivors face compared to their abusers. From there, the conversation moves into [05:53] the role of consent in relationships, with a clear and honest discussion on how power dynamics complicate the idea of choice. [08:55] Cassie’s testimony becomes a central focus, prompting a larger reflection on the emotional toll of sharing traumatic experiences in the public eye.

    The episode continues with a critical look at [12:08] how wealth and status can insulate abusers from accountability, and [15:04] the difficult conversations around victimhood, responsibility, and survival. Mandii also delves into [17:58] the gray areas of kink, coercion, and consent misunderstandings, pushing back on society’s tendency to oversimplify complex situations.

    The discussion takes a cultural turn with [20:45] a look at the broader repercussions of abuse in our communities, including [24:01] how gender plays a major role in how victims are viewed and treated. Mandii reflects on [27:13] how society must do more to protect survivors, not silence them. As the conversation deepens, the episode explores [29:58] the need for self-reflection, compassion, and cultural change. It then transitions to [39:19] how apologies and accountability are often performative, especially in the spotlight, and [42:07] how misogyny continues to shape the perception of women in these narratives.

    Mandii and the team unpack [45:08] the toxic impact of celebrity culture, [52:51] how jealousy plays into relationships, and [59:15] the public’s ongoing obsession with fame, asking how it distorts our values and responses to harm. The episode closes with [01:03:25] a forward-looking discussion on what real justice and accountability could look like, both in the court of law and in our everyday lives.

    “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
    Pre Sale Link

    Follow the Guests:
    IG:@mrhiphopobama

    Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignorance

    Follow the host on Social Media
    Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps

    Follow the show on Social Media
    Instagram @selectiveignorancepod
    Tiktok @selective.ignorance
    X/Twitter @selectiveigpod
    Show more Show less
    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Ep. 15 | Black Conspiracies & Public Secrets (Allegedly)

    Ep. 15 | Black Conspiracies & Public Secrets (Allegedly)
    May 20 2025
    In this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with her producers A-King and Jayson Rodriguez for a thought-provoking and often humorous conversation that ventures into the world of conspiracy theories, cultural mistrust, and the broader impact of cancel culture. Kicking things off with reflections from the audience and personal anecdotes (00:00, 08:06), the discussion quickly takes a deeper turn as they explore how conspiracy theories have historically — and often deliberately — targeted Black communities (09:04). From the trauma of the Tuskegee experiment to the controversial response to Hurricane Katrina and the narratives around 9/11 (17:10), Mandii and the crew unpack why many remain skeptical of mainstream narratives. They take a closer look at the role of the alleged secret societies in shaping political power and influence (28:26), and examine how alleged rituals, sacrifices, and elite memberships have fueled pop culture paranoia (29:04). Drawing connections between sci-fi themes and real-world suspicion, the group explores whether what we’ve accepted as fact — from space travel to artificial intelligence — may have layers yet to be uncovered (32:21, 35:18, 38:13). The episode also delves into modern theories around COVID-19, population control, and how the internet has amplified conspiratorial thinking (42:13, 45:36). With pop culture increasingly blurring the lines between speculation and reality, Mandii questions how much of what we consume is designed to inform—and how much is meant to manipulate (48:21). As the conversation closes, they examine the intersection of wealth, power, and scandal (52:07), asking whether today's public figures are truly victims of cancel culture or architects of their own downfall. With curiosity, humor, and a healthy dose of skepticism, this episode invites listeners to explore not just what they believe—but why they believe it.

    “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
    Pre Sale Link


    Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignorance

    Follow the host on Social Media
    Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps

    Follow the show on Social Media
    Instagram @selectiveignorancepod
    Tiktok @selective.ignorance
    X/Twitter @selectiveigpod
    Show more Show less
    58 mins
adbl_web_global_use_to_activate_T1_webcro805_stickypopup
No reviews yet