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Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast

Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast

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 Smart Dating Academy helps busy, successful professionals to jump start their dating lives. We have a results-oriented, fun 8 step process - which transforms you into a better dater - helping you find "the one". This podcast is meant to help you put more love in to your life, and more life in to your love Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
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  • 161: First Date Magic: How to Get the Conversation Flowing Like a Pro 🗣️

    161: First Date Magic: How to Get the Conversation Flowing Like a Pro 🗣️
    May 19 2025
    Let’s face it—first dates can be awkward. You’re sitting across from someone new, trying to figure out if there’s a spark… while also wondering what the heck to say next. Sound familiar?

    In this juicy episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Dr. Jess Carbino—often dubbed “the Dr. Ruth of the Swipe Right generation.” With a resume that includes time as the in-house sociologist at Tinder and Bumble (yes, really!), and now on her second doctorate in clinical psychology, Jess brings savvy to the world of modern dating.


    Together, we dig into the art of creating real conversation on first dates—the kind that moves beyond surface-level chit-chat and into connection territory. 💡

    You’ll learn:

    • Why small talk isn’t actually small (and how to make it meaningful)

    • How to avoid the dreaded interview-date vibe

    • Easy, go-to questions that open hearts and spark chemistry ❤️

    • What people really want to talk about—and how to listen with intention

    • The surprising power of self-disclosure and emotional availability (without oversharing)

    Whether you're getting ready for date #1, date #100, or just starting to dip your toe back in the dating pool, this episode is your conversational compass. Trust me—after hearing this, you’ll walk into your next first date feeling confident, curious, and totally in your element.

    👉 Tune in now and let’s get the convo going!



    Ready to redefine your dating life or need guidance on your journey to love? Visit Smart Dating Academy to learn more about our transformative programs.

    For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/
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    34 mins
  • 160: Part 2 - The BEST Questions and How to be the BEST Date

    160: Part 2 - The BEST Questions and How to be the BEST Date
    May 5 2025
    Let’s be real—dating at any phase can feel like walking a conversational tightrope. How much is too much? What’s not enough? When should I ask? What do I say if they ask me about something that I don't want to talk about? And how do you strike that magical balance between showing up as your radiant, authentic self and still being curious, fun, and engaging?

    In Part 2 of our juicy conversation, I’m back with the brilliant Lindsay Anderson, one of Smart Dating Academy’s most beloved coaches, and we’re continuing our deep dive into how to absolutely crush it on a first date.

    We cover:

    💥 Why “go-to” questions matter—and the one thing they must do if you want real connection
    🧠 How to prepare (mentally and emotionally) so you don’t blank out or get stuck in small talk
    🤔 The difference between curious and interrogating—and how to make your date feel seen, not screened
    🙋 The right questions to ask to delve deeper into this person's background that are CRITICAL to know!
    ✨ How to keep the vibe light, flirty, and fun, even when you’re diving into deeper topics
    🚫 The “date derailers” that can unintentionally kill the spark (and what to do instead!)
    💬 How to gracefully redirect a convo that’s gone off course
    🧭 Why self-awareness is your dating superpower—and how to tap into it

    This episode is about more than just asking the right questions. It’s about showing up in a way that makes your date want to get to know you - and YOU get to know them by asking and listening for the RIGHT things. It’s about enjoying the moment, being present, and creating space for genuine connection.

    Because here’s the truth: The best dates don’t feel like interviews. They feel like magic. ✨

    So, whether you're just getting back out there or want to elevate your dating game, press play now. You’re going to love this one. 💕

    Ready to redefine your dating life or need guidance on your journey to love? Visit Smart Dating Academy to learn more about our transformative programs.

    For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/
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    1 hr
  • 159: The BEST Questions and How to be the BEST Date - Part 1!

    159: The BEST Questions and How to be the BEST Date - Part 1!
    Apr 21 2025
    Ever wonder what makes a truly great date, and what are the best questions to ask (and how)? In this must-listen episode (part 1 of 2), the brilliant and longstanding Smart Dating Academy coach Lindsay Anderson and I sit down to break down the art of dating with confidence, ease, and authenticity. If you’ve ever felt awkward on a date, struggled with what to say or what to ask, or worried about making a lasting impression, this episode is for you! ✨


    We dive into:

    • The key traits of a great date 💡—and how to show up as your best, most authentic self.

    • How to spark meaningful conversations 🗣️—and avoid awkward silences.

    • The most important questions to ask on a date ❓—and how to ask them in a way that feels natural and engaging.

    • The biggest dating conversation mistakes 🚫—and how to turn them into connection-building moments.

    If dating feels more stressful than fun, don’t worry—we’ve got you covered. Tune in to learn practical, expert-backed strategies to help you date with confidence and enjoy the process. ❤️

    🎧 Listen now and transform your dating experience!



    Ready to redefine your dating life or need guidance on your journey to love? Visit Smart Dating Academy to learn more about our transformative programs.

    For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/
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    1 hr and 7 mins
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