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Why is a man more willing to commit to a 30-year mortgage than a one-year relationship? In this episode of Uncharted, we dig into the uncomfortable truth about commitment, vulnerability, and emotional risk. We explore what Brené Brown has to say about why love scares us more than debt, break down the Scarface Paradox (money, power, women), and uncover how men and women emotionally invest so differently when it comes to love vs. money.

You’ll also hear why trading and relationships are more alike than you think—and what “effort” in love really looks like. If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why won’t he just commit?”—this one’s for you.

Press play, and prepare to rethink everything you thought you knew about love and loyalty.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode of Uncharted

1. Why people commit to a 30-year mortgage but struggle with a one-year relationship

• The psychology behind emotional risk vs. financial risk

• Why love feels unsafe—even when it’s what we want most

2. The role of vulnerability in modern relationships

• How Brené Brown defines vulnerability and why it’s the key to real connection

• Why most people avoid it at all costs—and how that impacts commitment

3. The Scarface Paradox: Money, Power, and Love

• What Tony Montana got right about the male mindset

• Why success can actually make emotional connection harder for men

4. Men vs. Women: How we emotionally invest differently

• Why men are emotional about money, and women about love

• What each gender needs to feel safe enough to commit

5. Relationships vs. Trading: The surprising parallels

• How emotional discipline in trading mirrors emotional discipline in love

• Why women often outperform men in both markets—and relationships

6. What effort in love really looks like

• Why it’s not about grand gestures, but the daily emotional choices

• The difference between “saying you love someone” and actually showing up for them

7. How to stop avoiding love like it’s a liability

• The truth about commitment, control, and connection

• How to reframe your mindset to invest in relationships the way you invest in stability

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