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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast: Mindful Wisdom and Relationship Insights on How to Find Your Life Partner and Soulmate

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast: Mindful Wisdom and Relationship Insights on How to Find Your Life Partner and Soulmate

By: Roy Biancalana
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If you're single and seeking a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship, yet frustrated with today’s dating scene, you’ve found the right podcast. After going through a divorce, a soul-crushing break-up with his fiancée and a bunch of online drama, Roy Biancalana, our host, went on a journey to learn how to “attract lasting love.” His journey resulted in him becoming a certified relationship coach, the author of three #1 best-selling books, and the creator of this unique podcast. This podcast skips all the games, gimmicks, and goofiness that you’re probably sick of, and instead offers mindful, conscious wisdom on how to create a meaningful, lasting relationship. Here you’ll learn about limiting beliefs, relationship personas, cognitive-emotional patterns, personality blind spots, childhood conditioning—in other words, the REAL issues that sabotage your love life and keep you single. If you're interested in personal growth, putting an end to disappointing patterns, and learning how to attract and create a healthy, sustainable, intimate connection, then a great place to start is to listen to one of our most popular episodes, Episode #138, “Relationship Basic Training: The Basics of Getting Connected.” Enjoy!© 2023 Personal Development Personal Success Spirituality
Episodes
  • 225 Music: Madness or Magnificence? 3 More Songs You Should Love but NOT Listen to, Pt. 2
    Jun 30 2025

    Music is an incredibly powerful and enjoyable artform. Not only does it make us want to sing along and dance, but it can move us to tears, open our hearts and inspire our souls.

    Yet, as amazing as many songs are, the message they contain can be magnificent or their message can be complete madness. This 4-part series explores around a dozen amazing and famous songs—half with messages that are complete madness, and therefore, should be ignored, and half with messages that are magnificent and should be adopted.

    In part two of the series, Roy, our host, explores three amazing songs that contain messages that are unhealthy, dysfunctional and dangerous, and therefore, they are songs you can love but shouldn’t listen to.

    In this episode, you’ll hear songs that promote…

    · Violence and revenge as coping mechanisms;

    · Blame and self-righteousness;

    · Dishonesty and manipulation as relationship strategies;

    · Entitlement & Narcissism as positive traits;

    · And much, much more.

    Don’t miss the playful but poignant episode.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    55 mins
  • 224 Music: Madness or Magnificence? 3 Songs You Should Love but NOT Listen to, Pt. 1
    Jun 23 2025

    Music is an incredibly powerful and enjoyable artform. Not only does it make us want to sing along and dance, but it can move us to tears, open our hearts and inspire our souls.

    Yet, as amazing as many songs are, the message they contain can be magnificent or their message can be complete madness.

    This 4-part series explores a dozen amazing and famous songs—half with messages that are complete madness, and therefore, should be ignored, and half with messages that are magnificent and should be adopted.

    In this first installment of the series, Roy, our host, explores three amazing songs that contain messages that are unhealthy, dysfunctional and dangerous, and therefore, they are songs you can love but shouldn’t listen to.

    In this episode, you’ll hear songs that promote…

    · Co-dependence and drama;

    · The Soulmate Syndrome;

    · The “You Complete Me” mindset;

    · Rescuing as an expression of love;

    · And much, much more.

    Don’t miss this playful but poignant episode.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    44 mins
  • 223 A Few Good Men: Fathers & the Necessity of the Masculine
    Jun 16 2025

    As we celebrate Father’s Day, it’s important to know that 70% of American children grow up without their father living in the home with them—and it’s been that way since the early ‘90’s. This has had a catastrophic impact on children, leading to poverty, violence, poor performance in school and a host of other tragic consequences.

    Fathers, and the masculine energy in general, are critically important to the family and the culture at large. So, in this episode, Roy discusses how and why fatherhood and masculinity have taken such a beating in our cultural discourse, and how to rebuild and restore the healthy masculine in men today.

    In this episode, you will learn…

    · Why men, and the masculine, are seen as unnecessary and even toxic;

    · How TV and movies have played a central role in diminishing men and fathers;

    · What women can do to help men grow and be their best;

    · What men can do for other men to change the negative narrative;

    · And much, much more.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    Show more Show less
    52 mins
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There are so many facets to this podcasts - understanding yourself, your mind, your attachment styles, the enneagram, and more and how they all apply to your relationships. Some episodes may not apply but I've found this podcast to be very beneficial in working through the whats and whys of how I show up in relationships. I've been listening for over a year and still do.
Some of my favorite episodes:
Episodes 45-47 The Dating Manifesto. The traits in yourself that guide healthy successful relationship: like integrity (doing what you say you're going to, and not doing what you won't), cander (being honest and speaking your truth, etc
Episode 123 - Sexual Polarity. Discussion on feminine and masculine energies and how we show up in relationships. This episode literally had me say wow.

Self reflection, understanding yourself

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