• Break Down Bonus: Finding out your partner is cheating from a website?! w/ the Personality Hires
    Mar 13 2025

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    12 mins
  • When she became 'the other woman' after she was cheated on.... - S7E9
    Mar 11 2025

    After her divorce, she falls for a charming, attentive man, believing she’s finally found a fresh start. But when she learns he’s married, she’s forced to face the painful irony of becoming what once shattered her. Why did she stay even after finding out about his other relationship? We'll dig into the details when we break down this week's break up.

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    23 mins
  • Break Down Bonus: Do men deprioritize friends more or less than women in new relationships?
    Mar 6 2025

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    16 mins
  • When she said he sued her when their relationship ended.... - S7E8
    Mar 4 2025

    She says she endured a breakup so intense that she suffered cardiac arrest twice, barely surviving the emotional and physical toll. As she fights to recover, her ex sues her, completely blindsiding her. What happened within the nearly five years of their relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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    32 mins
  • Break Down Bonus: Childhood sexual trauma's impact on relationships w/ Claire Horner LPC, LPCC
    Feb 27 2025

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    Tune into Claire's podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/claire-and-sadohl/episodes/The-Trauma-Therapy-Network-A-Resource-for-Survivors-and-Therapists-e2k26c6/a-aba0t9h

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    [CW: Mention of rape, sexual assault, incest, molestation]


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    22 mins
  • When she said her ex cheated with his COUSIN.... - S7E7
    Feb 25 2025

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    [CW: Incest, mention of molestation, mention of sexual abuse, mention of rape]


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    29 mins
  • Break Down Bonus: The Trashy Divorces Podcast Reacts to S2E5 [Replay]
    Feb 20 2025

    Stacie and Alicia from the Trashy Divorces podcast join Abby to talk about ethical polyamory, healthy relationship dynamics, and expecting more from your love life. Check out their podcast below and tune in to hear them break down this week's break up!

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    18 mins
  • When it was the "throuple" from hell.... - S2Replay
    Feb 18 2025

    When her husband abruptly announced he wanted a polyamorous marriage, she tried to be open-minded by welcoming a third into their relationship. She tried her best to make it work until it became clear what he really wanted out of this relationship...we'll hear the story when we break down this week's break up.

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    This episode originally aired in August of 2021.

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    Timestamps:

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    (00:00-03:45): Episode Intro

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    (03:45-04:50): How they met

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    (06:50-08:56): When she was blindsided

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    (08:56-11:34): When they became a "throuple"

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    (11:34-13:43): The worst part of this "three person relationship" (for her)

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    (13:43)-18:09): When she started to think about leaving....

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    (18:09-21:11): What led to the marriage ending

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    (21:11-25:17): She decides to leave the marriage/the divorce

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    (25:17-31:34): Moving on after marrying your high school sweetheart

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    (31:34:33:15): Advice for leaving a toxic relationship

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    (33:15-33:34): Teaser Clip


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    32 mins