In this podcast, anaesthetist and breathwork expert James Brunning shared the story of his journey away from alcohol and towards a life of emotional clarity, mindfulness, and gentle peace. From using breathwork as a way to manage anxiety and support his relationships, James now brings his expertise into the wellness space, helping others find calm through simple yet powerful techniques.

The Impact of Alcohol on Presence and Connection

James’s relationship with alcohol began like many of ours—woven into social events and family traditions. However, he noticed over time that drinking wasn’t just impacting his mornings; it was pulling him away from being present for those he loved.

Reflecting on a relationship crunch point, James realised that alcohol was taking a toll on his mental energy and emotional availability. This revelation prompted him to make a change, finding support through Club Soda’s mindful drinking community.

“I wasn’t my whole self, and I wasn’t able to give emotional clarity to myself or my wife.”

James Brunning

Embracing Breathwork and the Science of Calm

Jame’s Next Round saw his immersion in breathwork. As a trained anesthetist, James was already familiar with the physiological impacts of breath on anxiety reduction and heart rate control. His studies in hypnosis further deepened his understanding, leading him to see breathwork as “meditation without the effort and twice the effect.”

Breathwork leverages the vagus nerve, one of the largest nerves in the body, which regulates heart rate and stress levels. By practicing controlled breathing—such as extending exhales—James found he could manage his anxiety effectively. This practice became especially valuable in his professional life, where he helped patients calm down before surgery by guiding them in breathing exercises.

The Power of Mindfulness and Finding “Gentle Peace”

Removing alcohol from his life, James noticed a reduction in what he calls “background anxiety,” a heightened state of alertness and tension he’d previously taken for granted. Breathwork allowed him to tap into a sense of calm and clarity he’d never experienced before. This transformation was both personal and powerful, giving him what he describes as a “gentle peace” that replaced the anxious energy alcohol once fueled.

James’s approach to breathwork now goes beyond self-care; he’s dedicated to sharing this knowledge with others, helping them find clarity and calm through accessible techniques. His mantra is simple: “A few minutes of breathwork can make a massive difference.”

Bringing Breathwork to Others
James’s journey now involves spreading awareness about the impact of mindful breathing on mental and physical well-being. He has started wellness workshops and courses for Doctors, sharing techniques that benefit everyone—from those seeking anxiety management to individuals interested in boosting their mitochondrial fitness and overall oxygen utilisation.

For those looking to begin, James recommends starting with extended exhales and brief breath holds, practices that activate the body’s natural relaxation response. He gave Laura a demonstration on the podcast!

“There’s good science behind it,. Eveen a few minutes of daily breath work can have on one’s mood, energy, and outlook on life."

James Brunning

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It was great to have this conversation with Shaun Reany, a performance poet, advocate for mindful living and founder of the Sober Af Poetry Night. He opened up about his journey through sobriety, creativity, and self-acceptance. He has used his experiences with mental health struggles and personal growth as a foundation for creating safe, non-judgmental spaces for self-expression. His story reflects the power of poetry and public speaking to help navigate complex emotions and foster a supportive community.

From Self-Investigation to Sobriety
Shaun’s journey toward sobriety started with a deep introspection after an incident that shocked him, and nearly got him into big trouble. He wanted to reconcile his true self with his actions. Therapy played a crucial role, allowing him to unpack years of cognitive dissonance—feeling disconnected from his values while under the influence of alcohol. After a long process, Shaun found clarity: to achieve the life he truly desired, he had to let go of alcohol. This decision marked the final piece of his puzzle, setting him on a path of self-discovery and acceptance.

Creativity Unleashed: Poetry as a Healing Tool
Through writing and performing, Shaun found an outlet for expressing the emotions he previously struggled to confront. His poetry, initially inspired by song lyrics and personal reflections, became a therapeutic vehicle for self-understanding. Contrary to the myth that creativity thrives on substances, Shaun’s sober reflections have brought newfound depth and honesty to his work, proving that authenticity can drive powerful artistic expression.

Building a Judgment-Free Community
In January, Shaun launched *Sober AF Poetry Club*, an open mic event that offers a judgment-free environment for people to share their stories. Here, individuals from all walks of life present works that range from lighthearted humor to profound self-reflection, often touching on personal experiences with mental health, family dynamics, and sobriety. The club’s inclusive nature fosters a community where vulnerability is met with support, offering attendees a rare chance to connect over shared challenges.

Looking Ahead: The Unscripted Journey
Shaun’s future remains open, driven by a commitment to personal growth and creative exploration. While he acknowledges the value of planning, he emphasises staying true to what feels right, allowing each step to shape his path organically. For Shaun, the journey is about doing what brings him joy, from writing to creating safe spaces for others to express themselves authentically.

As Shaun continues to explore his creative potential, his story reminds us that embracing change and supporting one another can lead to unexpected and meaningful transformations.

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Victoria Vanstone is best known for the Sober Awkward Podcast. A candid and humorous podcast co-hosted with Hamish Adams-Cairns. The duo dives into the ups and downs of living an alcohol-free life, sharing personal stories, practical advice, and the awkward moments that come with sobriety. It won Best Wellbeing Podcast award at the British Podcast Awards, cementing its place as a valuable resource and support for the sober-curious community.

Victoria has been a mate of Club Soda for a long time. You can read and hear her prevous contribution to our Online Mindful Drinking Festival held in lockdown in 2020. She recently visited the Club Soda tasting Room with her co-host Hamis, and we had a chance to catch up and disucss her book – A Thousand Wasted Sundays.

In this chat, Victoria shares how she transformed her life by quitting drinking, reclaiming her Sundays, and finding joy in the simple things. Her story is both inspiring and relatable, as she talks about the ups and downs of ditching alcohol and how she’s building a life she loves, one sober day at a time. Here’s how she did it and why it mattered so much.

Breaking the Binge-Drinking Cycle: “I Knew I Needed Help”

Victoria’s journey started with the familiar cycle of binge drinking on weekends and the inevitable anxiety-filled Sundays. Despite trying countless ways to cut back, she found herself stuck in the same pattern.

“I tried every trick in the book—water between wines, everything—but nothing ever worked.”

The turning point came after the birth of her second child. She woke up with what she called the “anxiety monster” at the foot of her bed. This moment of clarity made her realise she needed a different approach.

“I remember walking out and seeing my husband, and I said, ‘I think I need help. I need someone else to intervene because what I’m doing isn’t working.”

That realisation led her to seek therapy, and it changed everything. She learned that the root of her drinking went much deeper than she thought.

“It’s About Finding Out Who You Were Before Alcohol”

For Victoria, quitting drinking wasn’t just about giving up booze; it was about rediscovering who she truly was. Therapy helped her connect the dots between her past and her drinking habits, including childhood experiences of rejection that shaped her into a “people pleaser” and the life of the party.

“I was always the mad one, the entertainer, because I wanted to keep people close. It all stems back to childhood stuff,”

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