Episodes

  • Religious Abuse in Marriage is REAL - with Beatrice Weber

    Religious Abuse in Marriage is REAL - with Beatrice Weber
    Feb 11 2025
    Leaving the Hasidic World: Beatrice Weber's Journey of Self-Discovery In this episode, Beatrice Weber shares her compelling journey from her upbringing in a Chasidish Jewish community to her eventual exit after facing an abusive marriage and fighting for better education for Chasidish children. A mother of 10 and a grandmother of 13, Beatrice discusses her struggles with the patriarchal structure of her community, her fight in family court, and her role as the executive director of YAFED, an organization advocating for improved education in Chasidish schools. She highlights the challenges faced by women in the community, the marginalization and silencing of voices of dissent, and her personal path to healing and self-discovery. 00:00 Introduction and Event Recap 01:15 Welcoming Beatrice Weber 01:23 Beatrice's Background and Family 03:11 Growing Up Chasidish in Toronto 07:12 Marriage and Early Adulthood 14:05 Life in Israel and Challenges 25:36 Realizations and Seeking Therapy 31:21 Struggles and Support Systems 34:16 Leaving the Community 36:40 Double Lifers and Final Thoughts 38:04 Navigating Community Expectations 38:15 Discovering the Underworld 40:17 Struggles with Custody and Family Court 41:42 Challenges of Leaving a Marriage 44:22 Children's Perception and Family Dynamics 47:56 The Wedding Experience 53:42 Patriarchy in Chasidish Life 01:04:05 Advocating for Education 01:11:32 Addressing Criticism and Community Dynamics 01:15:24 Future Aspirations and Final Thoughts https://beatriceweber.com/about/ www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com
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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Eat Well, Move Well, Be Well: Integrating Tradition with Wellness - with Shmuel Chaim Naiman

    Eat Well, Move Well, Be Well: Integrating Tradition with Wellness - with Shmuel Chaim Naiman
    Feb 4 2025
    In this engaging episode of the Franciska Show, guest Shmuel Chaim Naiman shares his unique journey from Baltimore to Israel, emphasizing the importance of personal health and wellness intertwined with Jewish values. Naiman discusses his new book 'Land of Health: Israel's War for Wellness,' the significance of personal stories of conflict, and the importance of real food, mindful movement, and overall well-being. His discussions cover topics from the cultural implications of physical activity in Jewish communities to the spiritual nexus of the Land of Israel. Naiman also introduces his initiative, Healthy Jew, and details his experiences as a foraging guide and educator. Tune in to explore the intersection of health, spirituality, and Jewish identity with Shmuel Chaim Naiman's profound insights. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Setup 00:57 Guest Introduction: Shmuel Chaim Naiman 01:15 Shmuel's Background and Life in Israel 02:04 Publishing Journey and Professional Background 02:55 Healthy Lifestyle and Personal Transformation 05:47 Integrating Health with Jewish Values 07:15 Promoting Physical Activity in Religious Communities 08:24 The Importance of Walking and Running 11:03 Balancing Tradition and Modern Health Practices 17:20 Healthy Eating: Real Food vs. Food-like Substances 19:08 Creating a Healthy Home Environment 21:33 Defining Real Food and Its Importance 25:17 Conclusion: Embracing a Holistic Healthy Lifestyle 26:53 Exploring the Core of Life and Purpose 27:27 The Difference Between Humans and Animals 28:05 Purposeful Living and Spiritual Growth 28:17 Integrating Wellness Practices with Judaism 30:57 The Value of Silence and Inner Peace 33:03 Jewish Wellness on a National Level 34:50 The Importance of the Land of Israel 37:41 Foraging and Connecting with Nature 39:07 Reflections on Writing and Personal Growth 41:36 Challenges and Successes in Promoting Jewish Wellness 50:02 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks About Our Guest: Rabbi Shmuel Chaim Naiman is a Torah student, certified health counselor, and foraging guide in Ramat Bet Shemesh, Israel, where he is Mashgiach Ruchani of Yeshivas Lev HaTorah. Check out healthyjew.org to order his new book, Land of Health; subscribe to his weekly email newsletter, The Healthy Jew; and to book your foraging walk in Israel. He can be reached directly at scnaiman@healthyjew.org. www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com
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    55 mins
  • Behind the Scenes of the “Let’s Stay Safe” Book- with Bracha Goetz

    Behind the Scenes of the “Let’s Stay Safe” Book- with Bracha Goetz
    Jan 28 2025
    In this episode of the Franciska Show, author Bracha Goetz discusses her journey of personal transformation and her impactful work as a children's book author. Goetz, who wrote 43 children's books and one memoir, shares how her books aim to instill gratitude in children and help their souls shine. She recounts her dramatic shift to becoming Torah observant during a trip to Israel and details her educational background, including studying psychology at Harvard with aspirations to become a psychiatrist. Goetz also delves into her work in combating child abuse within the Orthodox community, leading to the creation of the acclaimed 'Let's Stay Safe' book. She highlights the challenges she faced, such as her name being removed from the book due to fears of backlash. Additionally, Goetz introduces recent works focused on promoting healthy lifestyles and combating entitlement among children, and explains her new venture of self-publishing with her family's help. The episode underscores Goetz's commitment to empowering children through meaningful literature. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:43 Bracha Goetz's Background and Journey 02:52 Discovering Spirituality and Judaism 04:58 Challenges and Changes in Life 09:23 The Let's Stay Safe Book 14:18 Impact and Reception of the Book 19:59 Empowering Children Through Literature 22:53 Backlash and Personal Reflections 23:39 The Decision to Publish Without Legal Counsel 24:10 Coping with Unrecognized Authorship 24:40 Embracing Pain and Healing 26:04 Promoting Healthy Living in the Orthodox Community 28:17 Addressing the Entitlement Epidemic 29:36 The Power of Gratitude 32:32 Personal Reflections and Future Projects 40:10 The Creative Process of Publishing Children's Books 41:47 Fun Facts and Family Connections 42:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts https://www.growingimpactpublications.com www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com
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    43 mins
  • Postpartum Unraveled: The Hidden Trauma That Forced Me to Heal (NO MORE SILENCE) - with Fradel Neuman

    Postpartum Unraveled: The Hidden Trauma That Forced Me to Heal (NO MORE SILENCE) - with Fradel Neuman
    Jan 21 2025

    Throwback Episode:

    https://thefranciskashow.libsyn.com/a-gaslighting-case-in-the-literal-sense-with-shulim-leifer

    Do Diaspora Jews Care (Orthodox Conundrum)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdIh-tnFszE

    In this episode of The Franciska Show, host Francisca interviews Fradel Neuman, an ultra-Orthodox Hasidic woman from Monroe, about her personal journey through child sexual abuse, depression, and her ongoing healing process. Fradel reveals the impact of her upbringing on her mental health and spiritual life, her struggles with trust and emotional intimacy, and the steps she took toward recovery. Despite the challenges, she has found support in her husband and professional therapy. Fradel also discusses the importance of addressing shame, the need for supportive environments, and shares her aspirations of becoming a professional singer. This powerful episode highlights Fradel's resilience and offers hope and understanding to survivors and those supporting them. 00:00 Introduction and Warm Wishes 01:12 Reflecting on the Hostage Situation 01:49 Revco Fox's Blind Date Initiative 02:27 Throwback Episode and No More Silence Series 03:02 Interview with Freidel Newman Begins 03:15 Freidel's Background and Family Life 03:50 Discussing Child Sexual Abuse 07:48 Therapy and Healing Journey 17:35 Confronting the Abusers 26:11 Witnessing Abuse and Emotional Neglect 28:17 Therapy and Healing Journey 30:33 Impact on Marriage and Trust Issues 33:21 Struggles with Depression 39:32 Religious Life and Personal Changes 44:28 Emotional Intimacy and Family Relationships 47:56 Message to Survivors and Mothers 56:10 Hopes and Dreams for the Future

    Fradel Neuman is a mental health advocate, survivor of sexual abuse and photographer sharing her mental health journey.

    www.instagram.com/Fradelneuman

    Check out www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com

    To contact Franciska: email franciskakay@gmail.com
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    57 mins
  • East Ramapo's Funding Crisis & Taxation Trap with Rivkie Feiner

    East Ramapo's Funding Crisis & Taxation Trap with Rivkie Feiner
    Jan 14 2025
    In this episode of The Franciska Show, Rivkie Feiner, CEO and owner of a consulting firm specializing in nonprofit funding, shares her unique experiences as an Orthodox Jewish woman balancing religious beliefs with professional demands. Rivkie discusses her journey from a secretary to owner of a firm that helps clients secure millions in government grants. She also elaborates on her advocacy work, especially in the East Ramapo Central School District, and the challenges posed by systemic funding inequities. Rivkie provides insights into the media's portrayal of the Orthodox community and her efforts to correct stereotypes. Additionally, she addresses issues of education, voting rights, and the impact of bureaucratic decisions on her community. Through her efforts, Rivkie emphasizes the importance of giving back, speaking up, and fostering growth within her community. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:45 Rivkie Feiner's Background and Professional Journey 03:00 Grant Writing and Advocacy Work 08:04 Challenges in East Ramapo Central School District 17:58 Media Representation and Community Advocacy 24:06 Supporting Nonprofits and Future Goals 30:02 Introduction to the World Zionist Organization 30:13 Joining Eretz HaKodesh 31:23 Experiences and Challenges in the Organization 33:01 Family Legacy and Personal Reflections 34:29 Addressing Corruption and Bureaucracy 37:42 Community Advocacy and Political Engagement 39:53 Fighting for Fair Education Funding 49:09 Advocacy for Abuse and Community Support 50:50 Balancing Family and Community Work 55:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts About Our Guest:

    My bio:

    Rivkie Feiner is a community activist and the CEO of Feiner Grant Strategies (FGS), a consulting firm that has raised hundreds of millions in funding for nonprofits. Her efforts have significantly advanced Jewish fundraising and supported the growth of numerous nonprofits globally. Rivkie's commitment to community service is evident through her roles as Program Director at Agudath Israel of America, a Fellow in JCRCNY’s Community Connections Fellowship, and board member positions at Rockland Federation and JCC Rockland County. A skilled motivational speaker, Rivkie has participated in various forums on funding and community issues. Recently, she mobilized 1,000 people for a pro-Israel rally in response to a pro-Palestinian demonstration in Rockland County, showcasing her leadership and communication skills. Rivkie continues to foster collaboration among diverse populations, seeking common ground in her advocacy work.

    Follow Rivkie on X: https://x.com/feinerrivkie?lang=en Check out www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com
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    56 mins
  • Understanding Perinatal Grief with ATIME

    Understanding Perinatal Grief with ATIME
    Jan 7 2025
    In this episode of the Franciska Show, host Franciska speaks with Chumi Friedman and Yonina Kaufman from ATIME's HUG program, which provides support to Jewish couples experiencing perinatal and infant loss. They discuss the complexities of emotional and physical grief, common misconceptions around pregnancy loss, and the importance of community and cultural sensitivity. The conversation also includes insights into how HUG offers medical, emotional, and spiritual support, along with details on personalized care packages and training doulas and medical staff to help families through these challenging experiences. The episode aims to raise awareness and offer practical advice for listeners who might be supporting someone undergoing a similar journey. 00:00 Welcome Back to the Franciska Show 00:40 Updates on Personal Projects 01:59 Introducing Today's Guests 02:21 Meet Chumi Friedman 03:37 Meet Yonina Kaufman 04:50 Personal Stories of Loss 12:12 Halakhic and Cultural Considerations 16:54 Day-to-Day Operations of ATIME Hug 25:54 Impact on Marriages and Personal Stories 32:16 Emotional Turmoil and Grief 32:44 Communicating Needs and Self-Care 33:20 Navigating Trauma and Community Support 34:25 Coping with Loss in a Baby-Filled World 35:29 The Struggle with Faith and Internal Conflict 36:42 Seeking Therapy and Understanding Grief 40:30 Physical Aspects of Loss 41:50 Navigating Mikvah and Physical Triggers 56:47 Training and Support for Doulas 01:04:29 Closing Remarks and Organizational Support About Chumi Friedman: Chumi Friedman is the Director of HUG, a program of ATIME supporting couples who have experienced perinatal and infant loss. She is a trained peer support counselor, doula and chaplain. @atimehug About Yonina Kaufman: Yonina is a specialist in Perinatal and Reproductive Mental Health which includes infertility, perinatal loss, and Postpartum Depression and / or Anxiety. Yonina is clinically trained in maternal mental health, grief and bereavement, trauma, child development and parent training. Yonina presents nationally on compassionate bereavement support, on issues facing women post perinatal death and on other women's health matters. While using evidenced based approaches, Yonina helps clients untangle their thoughts and feelings, while they go through their grieving, mourning, and/or parenting journey. As the Clinical Coordinator for ATIME HUG, Yonina supports women and couples experiencing perinatal and infant loss. In Yonina’s private practice, she provides tele-mental health services by phone or online. Additionally, Yonina provides clinical supervision for therapists and social work interns, as well as conduct parenting classes for parents with children of all ages and stages. @yoninakaufman
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Guest Host Episode with Mark Trencher and David Sheril (The Orthonomics Podcast) - "The First-Ever Community Middot Report Card"

    Guest Host Episode with Mark Trencher and David Sheril (The Orthonomics Podcast) - "The First-Ever Community Middot Report Card"
    Dec 24 2024

    Women in Tanach SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/album/01QmPoPVFrdXoxsli21of5?si=G39hZX17QV6qxzdS4I73zw

    Mark Trencher offered to have a conversation with a Franciska Show podcast listener David Sheril about his latest survey on the topic of Midos/Midot in the Jewish Orthodox Community as an interem episode while Franciska is on podcast Hiatus.

    Enjoy the podcast and here is a link to the Orthonomics Podcast itself: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-orthonomics-podcast/id1607753307

    About David Sheril:

    David Sheril grew up in Chigwell, a suburb of London. His family became baalei teshuvah when he was nine years old. When David was eleven, his family moved to the Bayit Vagan in Jerusalem. He moved to the U.S. at age 22, in 2005. David’s yeshivah education includes Mir Yerushalayim and Ner Yisroel. He served as a rebbe at a Russian-American Jewish high school in Brooklyn for several years before going to law school. He is currently General Counsel for a privately-held real estate transactional, management, and lending company. David resides in Clifton, New Jersey, with his wife Miriam (formerly an officer at the Federal Reserve Bank and now Head of Product at an international fintech startup) and their three children
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    38 mins
  • [RERUN] "When I Worked in Juvie" - With CP Handler,MSW, LISW-S

    [RERUN] "When I Worked in Juvie" - With CP Handler,MSW, LISW-S
    Nov 26 2024

    Thanks for tuning in for a RERUN episode.

    To join the discussion group: email: franciskakay@gmail.com

    About Our Guest:

    CP is a client-centered, humanistic therapist who believes that it’s the human within the therapist that creates the space for recovery and self-actualization. CP’s holistic approach to treatment was born out of a deep appreciation for the mind-body connection. After working in vastly different populations, CP discovered early in her career that trauma and mental illness do not discriminate.

    CP has worked in juvenile prison, methadone maintenance, inner-city homes and schools, residential treatment, foster care and private practice. CP is the co-founder of Atideinu, a non-profit organization that fosters social and emotional development in children.

    After years of working as a therapist, clinical supervisor, consultant and trainer, CP created Resonant Therapies to help streamline all of these services and more.

    https://resonanttherapies.com/

    https://www.facebook.com/cp.handler/

    Episode with Randy: https://www.franciskakosman.com/podcast/episode/1d765ce3/part-2-randys-story-with-juvie-transformation-and-cp

    Episode 1 with Emilio: https://www.franciskakosman.com/podcast/episode/3af9d486/emilios-story-with-juvie-transformation-and-cp-p1?fbclid=IwAR18DRT-yVQ6SfnLyCsQQR_V0uLHT7gbvTlzABh1hsMigq21cBaHyruCOP0

    Episode 2 with Emilio: https://www.franciskakosman.com/podcast/episode/1b866122/emilios-story-with-juvie-transformation-and-cp-p2?fbclid=IwAR1-X4hdCK0y4WMyXlNicE4nPQuLRn-B2kG0A0qZOZaB3WKt-rT75T4ZsrY

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    If you'd like to book a consult session with Franciska, email: franciskakay@gmail.com

    If you'd like to sponsor an episode, email: franciskakay@gmail.com

    Check out www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network.
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    56 mins