The Gently Used Human with Dr. Scott Lyons

By: Dr. Scott Lyons
  • Summary

  • Dr. Scott Lyons and his world renowned guests take us into the delightfully depthful and often hilarious exploration of what it is to be human, to have lived life, and come out gently used. From passion to pain, glory to defeat, comedy to drama to trauma, we’ve all been through it. This show unpacks the psychology and humor needed to keep you thriving on the roller coaster of being human.
    Copyright 2025 Dr. Scott Lyons
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Episodes
  • The Reinvention Era with Tamsen Fadal
    Apr 2 2025

    Ever felt like you should have it all figured out by now? Like life handed you a script you didn’t exactly sign up for? Well, Tamsen Fadal is here to throw that script out the window.

    An Emmy-winning journalist, author, and advocate for midlife reinvention, Tamsen has built a career on telling powerful stories—and now, she’s telling her own. From walking away from a decades-long journalism career to becoming a voice for midlife women, she’s proving that there is no expiration date on reinvention.

    Together, Tamsen and Dr. Scott dive into: why milestones don’t define us, the radical shift that happens when we stop asking ‘why me?’ and start saying ‘what’s next?’—and how menopause, career changes, and unexpected pivots are all part of the bigger picture.

    Topics We Break Down:
    • Midlife Myths & Why We’re Doing This All Wrong – Forget ‘aging gracefully’—let’s talk about thriving on our own terms.
    • The ‘Now What?’ Moment – Why so many of us hit a point where we question everything—and how to navigate it.
    • Reinvention is a Muscle – Why starting over isn’t a setback—it’s a superpower.
    • The Unspoken Power of Menopause – Breaking the silence around midlife health and why it’s finally getting the attention it deserves.
    • The ‘I Get To’ Mindset – Shifting from obligation to opportunity in work, health, and relationships.

    ✨ This episode is a love letter to second (and third, and fourth) chances. Tune in and get inspired!

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • No, Thank You: Rejecting Labels & Finding Yourself with Dr Rae Johnson
    Mar 26 2025

    Have you ever felt misunderstood? Like the world keeps trying to put you in a box that just doesn’t fit? Then this episode is for you.

    Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Dr. Rae Johnson, a leading researcher, professor, and author exploring the intersections of somatics, social justice, and identity. Rae’s work challenges us to reconnect with our bodies, question the systems that shape us, and embrace our full, unfiltered selves.

    Together, Scott and Rae explore why we brace ourselves against misunderstanding, how validation changes our nervous system, and what it really means to be witnessed. Plus, they unpack how a simple shift in perspective—or the right words from a total stranger—can change everything.

    Topics We Break Down:
    • Why we over-explain & brace for misunderstanding – The social conditioning that keeps us apologizing for who we are.
    • The ‘Validation Reflex’ – How being truly seen creates a physical release in the body.
    • Why strangers can sometimes know us better than our friends – The science behind why an outside perspective can feel so powerful.
    • The cost of authenticity – What we sacrifice to be fully ourselves—and why it’s worth it.
    • Witnessing & being witnessed – How deep presence can transform our relationships and sense of self.

    ✨ This is a conversation about freedom, embodiment, and breaking free from outdated stories—don’t miss it!


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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Rewiring Your Love Life (Without the Drama) with Nicole Vignola
    Mar 19 2025

    Heartbreak isn’t just emotional—it’s chemical. That’s right, breakups trigger withdrawal symptoms in your brain just like a drug, and if you’ve ever felt literally addicted to your ex, there’s a reason why.

    In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with neuroscientist Nicole Vignola to unpack the science of breakups, love addiction, and how to rewire your brain for healing. Together, they explore why we can’t stop thinking about certain people, the dopamine loops that keep us stuck, and the fastest ways to break free from the past.

    Plus, they get real about their own breakups, the neuroscience-backed hacks that actually help, and why blocking your ex might just be the most scientifically sound decision you’ll ever make.

    Topics We Break Down:
    • Why Breakups Feel Like an Actual Addiction – The neuroscience behind heartbreak withdrawal.
    • Checking Your Ex’s Social Media? Here’s Why You Can’t Stop – How dopamine fuels obsessive behaviors post-breakup.
    • The Power of ‘Cold Turkey’ – Why cutting off contact is the fastest way to rewire your brain.
    • Re-Scaffolding Your Life – How to rebuild your identity after a relationship ends.
    • Why You Keep Dating the Same Type – Breaking free from unconscious relationship patterns.

    ✨ Whether you’re freshly single, healing from an old breakup, or just fascinated by the brain’s wild ways—this episode is packed with insights to help you move forward.

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    1 hr and 6 mins

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