The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

By: Ryan Hawk
  • Summary

  • As Kobe Bryant once said, “There is power in understanding the journey of others to help create your own.” That’s why the Learning Leader Show exists—to understand the journeys of other leaders so that we can better understand our own. This show is full of learnings taught by world-class leaders—personal stories of successes, failures, and lessons learned along the way. Our guests come from diverse backgrounds—CEOs of multi-billion dollar companies, best-selling authors, Navy SEALs, and professional athletes. My role in this endeavor is to talk to the most thoughtful, accomplished, and intentional leaders in the world so that we can learn from them as we each create our own journeys.
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  • 607: Dr. Meg Meeker - How to Raise Tough, Resilient, Hard-Working, & Kind Children (Author of Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters)
    Nov 4 2024

    Full show notes at www.LearningLeader.com

    The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

    Read our book, The Score That Matters https://amzn.to/48nSff1

    Dr. Meg Meeker has spent more than thirty years practicing pediatric and adolescent medicine and counseling teens and parents. Dr. Meeker is a popular speaker and bestselling author of several books, including the national bestseller, STRONG FATHERS, STRONG DAUGHTERS; THE 10 HABITS OF HAPPY MOTHERS; and BOYS SHOULD BE BOYS.

    Notes:

    • One of the best things fathers can do is raise their daughters’ expectations of life. That will directly affect how your daughter talks, how she dresses, how well she does in school, and even what sports or musical instruments she chooses to play. You can help her set goals, help her define a higher purpose for her life, and as a result, her self-esteem will skyrocket. And it will bring you closer, because she’ll recognize you as a leader and an ally, helping her to chart a better course.
    • Don’t post anything about your kids on social media. It makes them think they are your trophy to show off. And be mindful of how you talk about them to others. Do you only focus on their accomplishments? They are listening to what you say about them…
    • Be the man you want her to marry – See it, do it, teach it. What are the 5 strongest character qualities you want your children to have? How are you showing that to them every day? You are setting the standard. They are watching carefully. You will create what is quote, “normal,” in their life. Are you living with integrity, working hard, not speaking poorly behind others backs? You are showing them how they should behave. If you were watching yourself from outside your body, would you like what you see? We have to live it every day.
    • Your daughter sees you (her dad) as her hero. The smartest, strongest, best person in the world.
    • Kids want their dad's approval. "I want attention just for being me, not for performing a sport." "You don't just love them. You love their company."
    • Always do good work, but don't boast about it.
    • "He believed in me." -- The power of the belief that Meg's dad had in her.
    • Teach her Humility - Genuine humility is the starting point for every other virtue. But teaching it is tricky. Your daughter needs to feel unique and important in your eyes. Humility doesn’t make sense unless it’s modeled. To fulfill her potential, your daughter needs to understand who she is, where she comes from, and where she’s going. Humility is seeing ourselves honestly… Self-centeredness is a problem if we base our entire lives around our kids wants and desires.
    • Clarify your morals (without apology) – If you want her to live by a code or set of values, you must first live by them. If you don’t want her to lie, then you should never lie. If you don’t want her to use cuss/swear words, then you should not use them. If you don’t want to her to drink, then don’t normalize it in your house. She wants to see conviction and leadership in her father.
    • Teach your kids to serve in a soup kitchen. Be in service of others. Gain perspective by seeing how others who are less fortunate than you live.
    • Embrace them when they fail.
    • The dad plants the default in the minds of their children. What do you want that default behavior to be?
    • How to approach your daughter's boyfriends?
      • Shake their hands
      • Be curious, ask questions
      • Invite them over for dinner
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • 606: Jack Carr - Writing Thrillers (The Terminal List), Working with Chris Pratt, Fighting Wars as a Navy SEAL, Putting In The Work, & Never Missing an Opportunity To Make Someone's Day
    Oct 27 2024

    Full show notes at www.LearningLeader.com

    Read our book, The Score That Matters https://amzn.to/3NszPAg

    Jack Carr is a former Navy SEAL who for 20 years led special operations teams as a Team Leader, Platoon Commander, Troop Commander, and Task Unit Commander. Jack is also the #1 New York Times Best Selling author of 8 books and his debut novel, The Terminal List, was adapted into the #1 Amazon Prime Video series starring Chris Pratt.

    Notes

    • When Jack was little, he hoped to grow up and do two things. Be a Navy SEAL and become an author.
    • Jack's grandfather died at war. "It's in my blood."
      • "You have to prove that you can add value to your tribe."
    • "Great warriors run to the sound of the guns to be with their fellow service members."
    • Commonality of the best SEAL Leaders:
      • Trust, up and down the chain of command
      • High character
      • Good decision-maker: The decisions you’ve made in the past are your currency.
      • Do things you don’t have to do. Run with the squad, put rounds down range. You don’t have to be the best at it, but you should be very good at all of the things the people you’re leading are doing.
    • Reading novels: "When I was young, I was reading for the magic in those pages."
    • PUT IN THE WORK… Jack has been putting in the work since he was little. He read books for the magic in those pages. All of that reading has helped inform him of what great storytelling looks like. And then he PUT IN THE WORK. If you want to be a published author, you need to WRITE. It’s that simple. Do the work, and get the manuscript done. And then take the next step. A lot of people want to be published authors. Not everyone wants to write. Like Ronnie Coleman said, “A lot of people want to be a bodybuilder, but nobody wants to lift these heavy weights every day.”
    • Mentor, Brad Thor: “Brad told me that the only difference between a published and unpublished author is that the published author doesn’t quit.”
    • Writers Block – One thing I’ll share from Steven Pressfield is that he said “Hey, you never hear of a trucker getting trucker’s block”. Writer’s block does not exist - you just have to go do it.
    • Books to recommend: ONCE AN EAGLE by Anton Myrer.
      • It is advice that a wise Sam Damon shares: “You can’t help what you were born and you may not have much to say about where you die, but you can and you should try to pass the days in between as a good man.” In the end that really says it all.
    • Advice:
      • Never miss an opportunity to make someone’s day… Make that your default setting. Work to add value to others' lives. Make their day. Help them. Make introductions, LISTEN to them, offer ideas to help solve their issues
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    51 mins
  • 605: Seth Godin - How To Be Remarkable, Create a Strategy, Build a Tribe, Develop Taste, Lead Others, & Leave a Dent in The World
    Oct 20 2024

    The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

    Full show notes at www.LearningLeader.com

    My books:

    Welcome to Management - https://amzn.to/3XWyZAH

    The Pursuit of Excellence - https://amzn.to/4eX9vtP

    The Score That Matters - https://amzn.to/3zPub7Z

    Seth Godin is the author of 21 international bestsellers that have changed the way people think about work and art. They have been translated into 38 languages. His breakthrough books include Purple Cow, Tribes, The Dip, Linchpin, and his latest book is called This is Strategy. He writes one of the most popular daily blogs in the world and has given 5 TED talks. He is the founder of the altMBA, and the former VP of Direct Marketing at Yahoo!

    Notes:

    • "If you want word of mouth, you have to create something remarkable, and that means it’s worthy of remark."
    • The elegant path is the most useful way forward. “My neighbor is a barefoot runner. He glides without apparent effort.” Elegance is simplicity, efficiency, and effectiveness.
    • Dorothy and Her Crew. How did Dorothy persuade the Lion, Tin Man, and Scarecrow to join her on the trip to see the Wizard? Did she make a case about how much she missed home? No. She created the conditions where the others could get what they wanted by joining her.
    • Seeing Strategy Clearly. Strategy is a flexible plan that guides us as we seek to create a change. It helps us make decisions over time while working within a system.
    • Low-Hanging Fruit Isn’t. It’s all been picked. The easy, direct, obvious paths are unlikely to get you the results you’re working so hard to obtain. In fact, these paths are probably a trap.
    • Seth, at one point, got 800 rejection letters. Have to keep going...
    • "I wouldn't call Steve Ballmer a good leader."
    • An example of Seth making a difference... He went to Kenya and talked with 60 people who started a book club based on his book Linchpin. "They decided to be leaders."
    • Make decisions in the moment:
      • Examine the issue
      • Get feedback
      • Look for patterns
    • "Taste is knowing what the market wants before it knows it."
    • Rick Rubin
      • Reality distortion field
      • Johnny Cash
      • "What do you think?"
    • "Objections are your friends."
    • What are the commonalities among leaders with whom Seth has worked and who have sustained excellence? They are all different, but the one thing they have in common is they all have chosen to be leaders. And that means that they are here to make a change happen.
    • Management doesn’t just exist. It was invented. When you race to the bottom, You see people as resources, not as people.
    • Questions That Lead To Strategies. 84 questions. They’ll force you to think through your strategy. By answering them, you’ll be better prepared to make a difference… And make a ruckus. Some of them: Who is this project for? What is my timeline? What systems would need to change for my project to succeed? Where will I cause tension? What resistance should I anticipate? Where is the empathy? What asset would transform my project? What can I learn from comparable projects? Is the change I’m making contagious? Can I make it easier for others to decide? How can I design for network effects? What are common objections I expect to encounter?
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    54 mins

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This is the best podcast. Regardless of who you are or where you’re at in life, you’ll absolutely find incredible value. Literally every episode shared ways to just be a better person overall. And Ryan asks meaningful, impactful questions that drive to tactical approaches that we can actually use. Very grateful for him and this show.

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