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The Manspace

The Manspace

By: Dr. Matt Brown
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A podcast for men who want to understand and improve themselves and their relationships, hosted by Dr. Matt Brown and Dr. Rob Porter and clinical therapist Mike Porter.

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  • Ep. 188 Work/Life Balance? What's That?
    May 14 2025

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    SpaceEmployees! Gather for a space-wide mandatory meeting as we discuss office politics and how you are balancing your work life with your personal life. Keep in mind, balance doesn't always mean equal time. So, you should probably be giving MORE time to The Manspace.

    I might be off about that. I can't remember what I said in the episode, but it was probably something like that. But, I do know that Mike and Rob break down the sometimes messed up ways we view work and the balance we strike with it. So if you feel like you are being controlled by your work, then blow it off for an hour and venture into The Manspace.


    Keywords
    identity, work-life balance, cultural perspectives, success, personal fulfillment, mental health, productivity, self-care, societal expectations, relationships


    Takeaways

    • Men find their identity through work, but so do women.
    • Work-life balance is often seen as a personal responsibility.
    • Cultural perspectives on work vary significantly, especially between the U.S. and Europe.
    • The four-day work week has shown positive results in productivity.
    • Many people neglect relationships in favor of work or hobbies.
    • Success is often measured by income and job title, leading to burnout.
    • Comparison can undermine personal enjoyment and fulfillment.
    • Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining work-life balance.
    • Phases of life affect how we manage our time and responsibilities.
    • Reassessing priorities can help improve work-life balance.


    Sound Bites

    • "Men find their identity through work."
    • "Work-life balance is your problem."
    • "Most of us will never be the owner or CEO."


    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to Work and Identity

    01:59
    The Role of Work-Life Balance

    04:55
    Cultural Perspectives on Work-Life Balance

    07:57
    The Impact of Work on Personal Life

    11:00
    The Responsibility of Work-Life Balance

    13:57
    Concluding Thoughts on Work and Life

    16:05
    Navigating Work-Life Balance

    18:07
    Cultural Expectations and Work Identity

    20:23
    The Pressure of Productivity

    22:59
    Defining Success and Work Ethic

    27:09
    The Role of Employers in Work-Life Balance

    31:37
    Redefining Personal Success

    38:26
    Finding Balance in Life's Phases

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    44 mins
  • Ep. 187 How Do I Talk to My Partner about Sex?
    May 7 2025

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    Spacemen, go light some candles. Maybe put on some soft Sade and then sit down and listen in as Matt, Mike, and Rob walk you through how to talk about sex with your lady.

    It's not that there's a perfect way to do this, but there are ways to make sure it's healthy and effective. We've got lots of tips. The biggest one, you ask? Don't have the conversation with your lady expecting to have sex immediately afterwards. Just good, healthy, verbal intercourse. Buckle up!


    Keywords
    authority, protection, vulnerability, relationships, AI, sexual desire, communication, intimacy, expectations, honesty


    Takeaways

    • Vulnerability is essential in relationships.
    • AI can help facilitate difficult conversations.
    • Sexual desire is often a complex issue.
    • Open communication is key to intimacy.
    • Expectations about sex change over time.
    • Honesty about feelings fosters connection.
    • Resistance in conversations is not rejection.
    • Understanding each other's perspectives is crucial.


    Sound Bites

    • "I've been missing our physical connection."
    • "How do I talk to my wife about sex?"
    • "You always bring this up."


    Chapters

    00:00
    The Importance of Communication in Relationships

    02:10
    AI and Modern Conversations

    05:10
    Sexual Desire and Stoic Principles

    07:11
    AI vs. Human Therapists: A New Era

    11:05
    Navigating Awkward Conversations in Relationships

    13:16
    Discussing Sexual Desire: Breaking the Silence

    19:01
    Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations

    25:20
    Understanding and Accepting Each Other's Needs

    28:56
    Navigating Sexual Communication in Relationships

    31:14
    Understanding the Evolution of Sexual Dynamics

    33:09
    The Impact of Life Stages on Sexual Relationships

    36:07
    Addressing Sexual Health and Vulnerability

    41:12
    Strategies for Honest Conversations about Sex

    48:08
    Normalizing Sexual Struggles in Relationships

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    51 mins
  • Ep. 186 Anxious-ADHD Couple, Part 2
    Apr 30 2025

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    Sup SpaceDistracted men. Today on the Space, Mike and Matt answer your questions about ADHD-Anxious couples. We get a little more specific and give a little more direction. Just like SpaceAdmirals should. Listen in. We'll steer you right.


    Keywords

    ADHD, anxiety, relationships, mindfulness, coping strategies, mental health, personal growth, communication, societal expectations, emotional intelligence


    Takeaways

    • Understanding and change are crucial in relationships.
    • Viewing partners as growth opportunities fosters better dynamics.
    • Anxiety often leads to miscommunication and misunderstandings.
    • Recognizing strengths in each other can enhance relationships.
    • Mindfulness practices can significantly alleviate anxiety.
    • It's important to challenge societal expectations of masculinity.
    • Seeking help and using tools is a sign of strength, not weakness.
    • Communication about mental health is essential for growth.
    • Accepting where you are is the first step to change.
    • Relationships highlight our rough edges, prompting personal growth.


    Sound Bites

    • "Happy me, happy we!"
    • "It's okay to seek help and tools."
    • "Anxiety can feel catastrophic."


    Chapters

    00:00
    Understanding Anxiety and ADHD in Relationships

    09:54
    The Role of Growth in Relationships

    12:36
    Navigating Strengths and Weaknesses

    16:31
    The Impact of Sensitivity and Feedback

    17:56
    Understanding ADHD and Anxiety: The Positive Side

    20:40
    Communication and Vulnerability in Relationships

    24:34
    Shifting Perspectives: Anxiety and ADHD Dynamics

    29:54
    Mindfulness and Self-Acceptance

    35:21
    The Role of Gender in Anxiety and ADHD

    40:58
    Sharing Stories: The Importance of Community

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    45 mins
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Appreciated the discussion on spiritual beliefs forming a support system, submission to something outside of yourself, choosing to do things as opposed to being pulled into things. choosing to have a good day.

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