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The Nice Guy Show

The Nice Guy Show

By: Faisal Khokhar Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman
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The podcast that answers the question, "how do I break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome, so that I never come in last again?" - with hosts Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff, and Chuck ChapmanFaisal Khokhar Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman Personal Development Personal Success
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  • Why Every Man Needs a Retreat
    Jun 24 2025

    What happens when men unplug, step away from their routines, and connect deeply—with themselves and each other?

    In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Gronich dive into the transformative power of men’s retreats. From adventures in the Mojave Desert to solo days in state parks, we explore why retreats are more than just time away—they're essential pit stops for growth, connection, and refueling the soul.

    🔹 Why men struggle to invest in themselves
    🔹 The surprising benefits of solitude and brotherhood
    🔹 Real stories of life-changing moments from retreats
    🔹 How retreats can help you build confidence, courage, and connection
    🔹 And yes—what to do when someone keeps giving you socks 😅

    If you're a man who's been stuck, isolated, or too busy caring for others to care for yourself, this one's for you.

    Subscribe to the Nice Guy Show newsletter to get tips and insights on how to lead a high-value life
    https://niceguyshow.com/

    Connect with Faisal Khokhar:
    https://masculine.co/
    https://instagram.com/coachfaisalk
    https://youtube.com/@coachfaisalk

    Connect with Chuck Chapman:
    https://chuckchapman.com/
    https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/

    Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
    https://drarigraff.com/
    https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]
    https://youtube.com/@AriGraff

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    42 mins
  • How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard To Set A Date
    Jun 24 2025

    NGS 105 – How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard to Set a Date 🔥

    Ever found yourself trying to set up a simple date… and suddenly it turns into a negotiation or a rejection minefield? In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari break down how charismatic, high-value men navigate situations where women make it difficult to lock in plans.

    ✅ Discover why some women resist setting a date
    ✅ Learn how to lead with confidence—without being controlling
    ✅ Hear real stories from our own lives and coaching sessions
    ✅ Understand the difference between being accommodating vs. being a doormat
    ✅ Get practical scripts and mindset tips to hold your frame like a true high-value man

    Whether you're new to dating or tired of the “back-and-forth” game, this episode shows you how to handle flakey behavior with calm, clarity, and charisma.

    📺 Watch now and start dating like a charismatic man, not an average one.

    🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell to stay updated on our weekly episodes!

    🎧 Prefer audio? Subscribe on your favorite podcast app or visit TheNiceGuyShow.com to join the mailing list and get exclusive insights.

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    Episode 021: 6 Reasons Why Nice Guys Suck at Dating

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    31 mins
  • A Men's Coach Gets Friendzoned: How to Handle It & Avoid It Next Time
    Jun 9 2025

    It happened again! Ari got friend-zoned, and he's bringing his dating dilemma to the Nice Guy Show for a raw, real, and incredibly helpful discussion for all men. In this episode, we dive deep into the painful experience of being friend-zoned and, more importantly, how to avoid it and ignite genuine attraction.

    What you'll learn in this episode:

    💔 The Friend Zone Revealed: Understand why the friend zone happens, and why it's a common experience for many men.

    📝 Post-Date Assessment: Faisal shares his exclusive post-date checklist to analyze what went wrong and how to improve for next time.

    🚫 The "Average Man Response" Trap: Discover how common dating behaviors can unintentionally land you in the friend zone. Learn how to avoid predictable responses and create genuine intrigue.

    🔥 The Power of Masculine Restraint: Learn why holding back sexually and creating tension can be incredibly attractive to women.

    🗣️ The Importance of "Telling" (Masculine Language): Understand how decisive communication and leadership on a date can evoke erotic emotions subconsciously in a woman.

    💪 Why Experience Matters: Faisal emphasizes the crucial role of consistent interaction and dating experience to build confidence and reduce sensitivity to rejection.

    🔄 Breaking the "One-itis" Cycle: Chuck explains how fixating on one woman can lead to disappointment and why having multiple dating prospects is a healthier approach.
    🚑 Resuscitating the Friend Zone: Explore strategies for turning a friend-zone situation around, including specific text message approaches.

    🤔 Is Asking for Feedback a Good Idea?: We discuss the pros and cons of asking women for feedback after a rejection.

    This episode is packed with actionable advice for men seeking to improve their dating skills, build attraction, and avoid the dreaded friend zone. Whether you're single or married, the principles of creating tension, showing leadership, and continually working on your "dating muscles" are essential for a fulfilling romantic life.

    Don't forget to:

    👍 Like this video if you found it helpful!
    ✅ Subscribe to our channel for more real talk on dating and relationships.
    📺 Check out our episode on "When Women Flake" for a companion to this topic.

    Connect with us:

    Subscribe to the Nice Guy Show newsletter to get tips and insights on how to lead a high-value life
    https://niceguyshow.com/

    Connect with Faisal Khokhar:
    https://masculine.co/
    https://instagram.com/coachfaisalk
    https://youtube.com/@coachfaisalk

    Connect with Chuck Chapman:
    https://chuckchapman.com/
    https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/

    Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
    https://drarigraff.com/
    https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]
    https://youtube.com/@AriGraff

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    1 hr and 5 mins
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