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The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man Show

By: Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information. Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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  • Empowering Change: The Magic of Yes, No, and Personal Growth
    Jun 5 2025

    Episode #988

    What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things?

    Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They’ve built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you’ll hear how one man’s struggle to say “no” led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit.

    In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark Smith, and David Mason as they explore what happens when you stop hiding behind productivity and finally start honoring what you really want. They unpack how unresolved childhood trauma shows up in your “yes,” how saying no can feel dangerous when you were never taught it was safe—and how learning to say “yes” without a “but” can radically shift your business, marriage, and life.

    You’ll also hear how David went from working 90-hour weeks to taking 3-day weekends—without losing momentum. And the surprising shift that made his business more successful while he finally felt at peace, connected, and fully alive.

    If you’re ready to stop chasing validation and start leading with purpose, this is your episode.

    Listen now. Your “yes” might be waiting.

    Feel like you're doing everything right but still drifting from your wife?
    This free book will show you how to reconnect—without long talks or therapy.
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    Think you're showing up—but not sure it's enough?
    Take the free Hidden Motions in Marriage assessment to find out where you're really at.
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    34 mins
  • The Journey of Self-Discovery: Unveiling the Power of Love
    Jun 3 2025

    Episode #986

    What if the key to stronger connection isn’t about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are?

    Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka “The Love Power”—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters.

    They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You’ll hear how something as simple as saying “I love you” can completely shift a relationship—even in the middle of a heated disagreement.

    In this episode, they talk about how knowing yourself can expose hidden triggers, like emotional eating, and how those subtle shifts can create massive change. They reflect on why real connection often gets lost in the day-to-day grind—and how men can reclaim it by owning their truth and leading from love.

    This is one of those conversations that reminds you: the work isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest. With yourself first. Then with the people who matter most.

    👉 Feeling disconnected in your marriage?

    Watch this free training to learn what’s really missing—and how to lead with love, clarity, and confidence.

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    31 mins
  • Revisit: Beyond the Affair: How to Move Forward When She Can't Forget
    May 31 2025

    Episode #986

    You’re trying to move forward. You’ve apologized. You’ve changed. But the past keeps showing up in your marriage like it just happened yesterday. Every time things start to feel good again, she brings up the affair, the betrayal, or whatever broke the trust—and it knocks the wind out of both of you.

    In this episode, Doug walks through exactly why that keeps happening and what you can do about it. Not with quick fixes or guilt trips, but with real tools that help her feel safe again. You’ll learn how to create the kind of emotional safety that allows her to finally exhale—and how to stay grounded when the past gets brought up, again.

    This isn’t about defending yourself. It’s about leading the relationship forward, even if you're the one who caused the pain. If you're serious about rebuilding connection, this conversation is where you start.

    Want to rebuild trust and stop living in the shadow of the past? Grab the free book and learn how to fix your marriage—starting with emotional safety and real connection.
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    20 mins
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Tim and Doug are extremely entertaining. They have amazing insights in how to perform better in many facets of your life, starting with work on self. Highly recommended if you're a male business leader who finds other things in your life (like your relationship with your wife or significant other) falling by the wayside.

Extremely helpful

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The Powerful Man Show" with Doug Holt and Tim Matthews has been a game-changer for me. Each episode is filled with meaningful discussions and actionable advice on personal and professional growth. Doug and Tim's authenticity and depth make the podcast both engaging and educational. They cover a broad spectrum of life's challenges with empathy and expertise, making every listener feel understood and inspired. If you're looking to improve your life in a holistic way, this is the podcast for you. Thanks, Doug and Tim, for such a motivational and insightful show!

Transformative and engaging -highly recommended

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Doug,Tim and the TPM team are a gift to men truly trying to navigate their world. The insights from living their message and the action they inspire create the road map for living your best life. So grateful to be a part of this community. Listen then dive in, the water is cold, just how it should be!

The way for men to lead and live their best life

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Love this show and love participating too. These great men have created such enormous value for men who are somewhat lost in relationships. This movement is changing the world. There is work to be done....watch this space.

We need men like this

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So much to learn about how men are missing the mark in today’s modern relationships with themselves, their spouse and their children.

Perfect for men looking to make a healthy change!

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