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The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man Show

By: Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information. Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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  • Revisit: The Hidden Harm of Invalidation: Building a Safe Space for Your Wife
    Jul 5 2025

    Episode #1001

    Most guys have good intentions. You want to be supportive. You want to lift her up. But what if the way you respond is actually doing the opposite of what you think?

    In this episode, Doug sits down with Brad Holt to talk about something subtle but powerful: invalidation. It’s one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships—especially when it comes to trying to help, fix, or reassure.

    From phrases like “You look great” to trying to talk her out of what she’s feeling, you might be accidentally sending the message that you don’t really hear her. And when that happens often enough, she stops opening up.

    They break down how this plays out, how to spot it in real time, and what to do when you realize you've already said the wrong thing. This one’s a wake-up call—and it’s all about showing up with more awareness, not perfection.

    If you want a stronger connection with your wife, this is where to start.

    Not sure how you're showing up in your relationship?
    If you want to know where things really stand—and where you're unintentionally missing the mark—take the free Married Businessman Assessment.

    It only takes a few minutes, and it’ll give you clear insight on how your actions are landing with your wife… and what to do next.

    👉 Start the free assessment here

    This is your first step to building a safer, more connected relationship. Don’t guess. Get clear. Then take action.

    Hungry for more?

    Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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    14 mins
  • 1000 Episodes Later: Top Relationship Questions Answered
    Jul 3 2025

    Episode #1000

    After 1,000 episodes, we’re still getting the same core questions from men: “Why won’t my wife forgive me?”, “Why doesn’t she feel safe?”, and “Why is nothing I do ever enough?” In this episode, we’re cutting the fluff and giving you direct, honest answers.

    Doug and Tim reflect on what’s really going on in your relationship—and how to start fixing it without trying harder or doing more of the wrong things. Whether your marriage feels stuck, your wife feels distant, or you're just tired of trying to guess what she needs, this episode is for you.

    It’s not about chasing her approval. It’s about learning to lead again—from a place of calm, grounded strength.

    Grab a beer (we did), press play, and let’s talk man-to-man about what actually works.

    Want to know where things really stand in your marriage—and what to do about it?
    Start with a quick gut check: take the free Married Businessman Assessment to get clear on what’s working, what’s not, and what to do next.

    👉 Take the free assessment here

    Then, if you're ready to dive deeper, grab the book that’s helped thousands of men turn things around—without begging, over-explaining, or trying harder.

    👉 Get your free copy of the book here

    Just cover shipping. No fluff—just real tools that work.

    Hungry for more?

    Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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    1 hr and 16 mins
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Tim and Doug are extremely entertaining. They have amazing insights in how to perform better in many facets of your life, starting with work on self. Highly recommended if you're a male business leader who finds other things in your life (like your relationship with your wife or significant other) falling by the wayside.

Extremely helpful

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The Powerful Man Show" with Doug Holt and Tim Matthews has been a game-changer for me. Each episode is filled with meaningful discussions and actionable advice on personal and professional growth. Doug and Tim's authenticity and depth make the podcast both engaging and educational. They cover a broad spectrum of life's challenges with empathy and expertise, making every listener feel understood and inspired. If you're looking to improve your life in a holistic way, this is the podcast for you. Thanks, Doug and Tim, for such a motivational and insightful show!

Transformative and engaging -highly recommended

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Doug,Tim and the TPM team are a gift to men truly trying to navigate their world. The insights from living their message and the action they inspire create the road map for living your best life. So grateful to be a part of this community. Listen then dive in, the water is cold, just how it should be!

The way for men to lead and live their best life

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Love this show and love participating too. These great men have created such enormous value for men who are somewhat lost in relationships. This movement is changing the world. There is work to be done....watch this space.

We need men like this

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So much to learn about how men are missing the mark in today’s modern relationships with themselves, their spouse and their children.

Perfect for men looking to make a healthy change!

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