When we feel cared for, our cortisol levels drop, we feel safe, and we handle stress better. Dacher leads a meditation to help us focus on the people who make us feel supported.

How To Do This Practice:

1. Get Comfortable: Find a quiet spot. Sit or stand in a relaxed position. Take a few deep breaths to settle your body and mind.
2. Think of a Friend: Picture a friend who has supported you. Notice how it feels to remember their care. What have they given you? Kindness, courage, laughter?
3. Think of a Family Member: Now think of someone in your family (or chosen family) who’s helped you. What moment comes to mind? How did they support you? Name what they gave you.
4. Think of a Mentor: Bring to mind a mentor or guide—someone who’s taught or encouraged you. How did they help you grow? What gift did they offer? Wisdom, strength, direction?
5. Feel the Support: Picture all three people around you. Let yourself feel supported and held. Breathe in that sense of connection.

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We're sharing a new show from our friends at Higher Ground, hosted by Michelle Obama, called IMO. You know that on The Science of Happiness we have conversations things like compassion, resilience and empathy, and we share research-backed strategies for a more fulfilled life. Similarly on IMO, Michelle and her big brother Craig Robinson bring candid perspectives to the everyday questions shaping our lives, relationships and the world around us. In this episode, Michelle and Craig are joined by actor and writer Issa Rae for a hilarious and heartfelt conversation about friendship.

Each week, they’re joined by a guest to tackle real questions from real people just like you offering practical advice, personal storytelling, and plenty of laughs. Topics range from dating and relationships, to family and faith. Michelle and Craig share stories about being there for each other throughout their lives, from first crushes and fraught college years, to landing at the White House, to losing their mom. For six decades they’ve been each others’ most trusted counsel—and now, they want to be that counsel for you.

You can find more episodes of IMO at https://lnk.to/imomichellecrai...

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What happens when we replace sky-gazing with screen-scrolling? Discover how digital life impacts happiness and what Gen Z can teach us about reclaiming control over our well-being.

Summary: Smartphones have become our constant companions, but at what cost? This episode of The Science of Happiness explores how our digital lives are reshaping how we think, feel, and connect. From social media’s pull to the decline of face-to-face connection, we look at what we lose—and what we can regain—by stepping away from screens and into nature, quiet, and deeper connections.

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Ways To Do A Digital Detox:

1. Turn off your phone before bed to improve sleep and create space from screens.
2. Wait to turn it on in the morning, noticing how you feel and stretching that screen-free time.
3. Do meaningful work before going online to protect your focus and creativity.
4. Keep notifications silenced unless you're expecting something urgent.
5. Turn off WiFi and browsers when you need to concentrate deeply.
6. Take regular breaks from screens to let ideas simmer and rest your mind.
7. Practice reading books again and notice your attention span strengthen over time.
8. Pause when you crave scrolling, and consider reaching out to a friend instead.
9. Create your own digital detox plan or adapt one that works for you. Be sure to clearly write out your specific intentions, including how and when you'll follow through.

Today’s Guests:

ADAM BECKER is an astrophysicist and author of the book, More Everything Forever: AI Overlords, Space Empires, and Silicon Valley’s Crusade To Control The Fate Of Humanity.

Learn more about Adam Becker here: http://freelanceastrophysicist.com/

JEAN TWENGE is a psychologist and best-selling author. She’s spent years studying how the digital world shapes our minds and bodies, and the way different generations experience life.

Learn more about Jean Twenge here: https://www.jeantwenge.com/

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