The Soul Enchilada

By: Laura Busse and Christine Ruth M.Div. MS LMFT
  • Summary

  • Are you a hot mess? Well, welcome to the club! We asked over 500 women for questions they would ask a therapist, and were blown away by their responses. They asked about everything... pretty much "the whole enchilada" of the issues women are facing today. So welcome to "The Soul Enchilada," where we'll talk about anything... Your $hitshow is our $hitshow, and NOTHING is off limits. Thanks for listening! Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this. Learn more about Laura and The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call: https://www.3oclockwakeup.com/ Learn more about Christine Ruth: http://www.christineruth.com/ Learn more about Laura’s Faith Studies: https://www.3oclockwakeup.com/bible-studies Download the free 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call App: https://subsplash.com/the3oclockwakeupc/app
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Episodes
  • SE 106: Don't Judge Me, Don't Fix Me
    Apr 15 2025

    This Week’s Listener Question:

    I appreciate your podcast because, to be honest, I’m afraid to share the real details of my life. When I do share with my Christian friends, I feel judged, and they usually try to fix me. How do I find a safe community of Christians like the Soul Enchilada?

    SOUL Group Questions:

    Ask each other these questions to build a stronger connection with a friend or in your Soul Group.

    1. How would you describe a safe faith community? Have you found one?

    2. When someone shares messy details about their lives with you, do you have fixer parts that jump into action?

    3. How does it make you feel when someone tries to control or fix your problems?

    4. What about Christine and Laura’s conversation about Jesus resonated, fascinated, or perplexed you?

    5. What traditions or practices strengthen your faith or draw you closer to God during Holy Week?

    You Are Invited!

    Good Friday Prayer Walk

    Friday, April 18th, 3:00 p.m. (MT)

    Wanaka Lake, Lafayette, CO, or wherever you live

    Register to receive the Prayer Walk Guide – REGISTER BY 4/18/25

    Connect with Laura & Christine:

    Have a question for us? Please send them to questions@soulenchilada.com.

    To sign up for one-on-one grief and/or faith support with Laura, visit griefandhope.org

    To ask Laura to speak at your event – laurabusse.com

    Learn more about Laura’s ministry, The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call – HERE

    Learn more about Christine Ruth, counseling practice, and future retreats – HERE

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    31 mins
  • SE 105: Dealing With Adultery, Part 2
    Apr 1 2025

    This Week’s Listener Question:

    My sister found out that her husband had an affair and he is promising to stop and wants to save the marriage. Can people truly get over an affair?

    SOUL Group Questions:

    To build connection with a friend or in your Soul Group, ask each other these questions.

    1. When has triangulation effected one of your relationships?

    2. What boundaries or expectations do you have in your most intimate relationship?

    3. Think of a time when you were able to rebuild trust or reconcile a relationship. What were the steps you took?

    4. How could you become a “better student” and learn more about your key relationships?

    5. What is a relationship “master class” you’d like to take with someone you love? How could your invite them to lean in and learn with you?

    Resources:

    The State of Affairs by Esther Perel Book

    Connect with Laura & Christine:

    Have a question for us? Send it to questions@soulenchilada.com

    To sign up for one-on-one grief and/or faith support with Laura, visit griefandhope.org

    To ask Laura to speak at your event – laurabusse.com

    Learn more about Laura’s ministry The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call – HERE

    Learn more about Christine Ruth, counseling practice, and future retreats – HERE

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    30 mins
  • SE 104: Affairs of the Heart
    Mar 18 2025

    This Week’s Listener Question:

    My sister found out that her husband had an affair and he is promising to stop and wants to save the marriage. Can people truly get over an affair?

    SOUL Group Questions:

    To build connection with a friend or in your Soul Group, ask each other these questions.

    1. How would you define someone having a physical affair?

    2. What crosses the line for you and indicates someone is having an emotional affair?

    3. Would you be more upset if your partner had an emotional or physical affair?

    4. Why do you think some people emphasis sexual sin more than other sins like greed, pride, or lying?

    5. How can we express compassion and grace for ourselves or people we know in this situation?

    Resources:

    The State of Affairs by Esther Perel Book

    Connect with Laura & Christine:

    Have a question for us? Send it to questions@soulenchilada.com

    To sign up for one-on-one grief and/or faith support with Laura, visit griefandhope.org

    To ask Laura to speak at your event – laurabusse.com

    Learn more about Laura’s ministry The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call – HERE

    Learn more about Christine Ruth, counseling practice, and future retreats – HERE

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    30 mins
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