If you’ve ever messed up—again—and thought, “Am I even doing this faith thing right?” I've got you, you’re not alone.

In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, join me, Tonya Lee, as we talk about the difference between struggling with sin and surrendering to it.

We’re diving into guilt, grace, and why struggling isn’t a sign of failure, it’s a sign that you’re still in the fight.

Does love just mean good vibes and butterflies—or is there something deeper?

In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, Tonya Lee cuts through the confusion surrounding love in a culture obsessed with feelings and filters. From philia to eros, storge to agape, she breaks down the four kinds of love—and how mixing them up can leave us empty, burned out, and wondering if love is even worth the risk.

Tonya shares her own story of heartbreak, healing, and what finally grounded her in real, lasting love—the kind that isn’t earned or performative, but rooted in Christ. Whether you’re single, married, ghosted, or just tired of swiping, this conversation will remind you: you’re not too broken for love—and God’s love isn’t just a theory. It’s personal.

Listen now and then explore more at tonyaelee.com

Is every bad day a spiritual attack? Is Satan hiding in your Wi-Fi router—or are we just overthinking it? In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, we’re cutting through the weird and getting to the real about spiritual warfare. Yes, it’s biblical. Yes, it’s real. But no, it’s not always a demon behind every corner.

Tonya Lee unpacks what the Bible actually says about spiritual warfare, how to recognize the enemy’s tactics, and how to stand firm using God’s truth. If you've ever wondered what’s “of God” and what’s just a bad burrito on a Tuesday night, this one's for you.

Because the battle is real—but so is the victory.

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