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In this enlightening episode of the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath dive deep into the core reasons and behaviors that make a relationship happy for a lifetime. Rabbi Bernath passionately argues that trust is the bedrock of any lasting relationship, though it’s not always identifiable at the start. Trust must be built over time through small, consistent acts that demonstrate reliability and integrity.

Aleeza brings a unique perspective, suggesting that kindness, while important, could be replaced by another crucial element. She highlights the importance of giving, noting that love flourishes when partners engage in selfless acts, leading to a deeper understanding and connection. Both Aleeza and Rabbi Bernath agree that curiosity is essential for continuous growth and learning in a relationship, as staying curious about each other fosters a dynamic and evolving bond.

Join Aleeza and Rabbi Bernath as they explore these foundational elements of a happy, lifelong partnership. They invite you to share your thoughts on what you think the root of trust is by sending a voice note on their socials or dropping a message on their website.

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Tune in for a mix of wisdom, wit, and practical advice that will help you navigate the journey of love and relationships.

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