Today’s episode is personal. On my son Joe’s birthday, I reflect on the question that’s shaped my life: Who are you becoming through adversity?

Adversity doesn’t wait for permission—it strips away everything except the truth of who we are. When I lost Joe, I was faced with that truth. And in the middle of heartbreak, I heard a quiet whisper: You’re not done.

In this episode, I share how love, leadership, and legacy are built in life’s hardest moments. If you’re walking through grief, transition, or challenge, this is for you. You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And you’re not finished.

In honor of Joe’s heart for serving others, you’ll find a link in the show notes if you’d like to support the Louisville Coalition for the Homeless, where he dedicated his work and compassion. Donate Here: https://louhomeless.org/how-you-can-help/makeagift/

When things go wrong, it’s easy to look around and point fingers. But what if the real path to growth starts with looking in the mirror? In this episode of Leadership ER, Julia gets honest about the blame trap, shares a personal story of what happens when leadership gets messy, and walks you through the questions that lead to real change. Whether you're leading others or just trying to lead yourself better, this one’s for you. Gentle, honest, and powerfully grounding.