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What happens when war follows you home? When the training that kept you alive in combat becomes the very thing destroying your marriage? Justin and Jen's story peels back the layers of military trauma, revealing the raw aftermath of Justin's deployment to Iraq—where suicide bombers, mass casualties, and daily firefights rewired his brain for a battle that wouldn't end when he returned home.

"Your body comes home long before your mind does," Justin explains, capturing the essence of PTSD that military families understand all too well. His nervous system remained locked in Ramadi long after his boots touched American soil. Hypervigilance, emotional numbness, and rage replaced the connection and intimacy their marriage once knew. The drinking escalated. Walls in their home bore witness to outbursts. Eventually, an affair and divorce papers threatened to end everything.

But what makes this story different isn't the brokenness—it's what happened in the space between destruction and redemption. Jen doesn't portray herself as a saint with perfect, peaceful responses. Instead, she reveals her angry, tear-soaked prayers for vengeance and justice. Yet in that painful separation, God worked in ways neither could have anticipated.

"I was praying for a hit job on my husband," Jen admits, "while God was redeeming his soul." This raw confession leafs us to how healing often begins not when our circumstances change, but when we surrender our demand to control the outcome. For anyone walking through trauma, addiction, betrayal, or the slow erosion of connection—this conversation offers hope without glossing over reality.

The redemption they experienced wasn't instantaneous or perfect, but it was real. Their story reminds us that God meets us in our messiness, not despite it—and sometimes the greatest transformations happen when we stop trying to fix our pain and simply allow God to meet us there.

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What happens when war follows you home—and into your marriage? In this raw and redemptive episode of Theo-Psych, Jennifer and Justin share their personal story of surviving infidelity, combat trauma, and soul-deep grief. As a Christian counselor and Army chaplain, they take you inside the real spiritual and psychological warfare that tore their marriage apart—and the grace that rebuilt it.

This episode isn’t theory. It’s testimony. It’s for anyone walking through the devastation of an affair, carrying the weight of PTSD, or struggling to reconcile faith with trauma.

You’ll hear about:

• The emotional aftermath of war and deployment
• How PTSD affected their identity, intimacy, and communication
• The impact of betrayal, shame, and deep grief
• What forgiveness actually looked like in real time
• How Jesus met them in the wreckage and began a new work

If you've ever asked, “Can we come back from this?”—this episode was made for you.

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Welcome to Theo-Psych, where theology and psychology come together in the pursuit of healing, truth, and transformation. This isn't just another podcast; it's a movement hosted by a theologian and a traumatologist. We boldly explore the raw and often hidden aspects of the human soul: trauma, identity, survival, spirituality, codependency, moral injury, religious abuse, attachment, and everything in between.

We believe Jesus is not only the redeemer of our souls but also the restorer of our minds. From the battlefield to the therapy room, from broken homes to shattered altars, we are uniting biblical wisdom with psychologically grounded evidence to address fragmentation and walk the path of redemption. You'll hear real stories, tough questions, unfiltered truths, and, most importantly, hope. It's a person—and His name is Jesus.

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Need counseling? Click the Contact Us for Counseling tab.
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We’re here to walk with you—mind, soul, and spirit.