In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful idea of being both competent and dangerous—and why this combination is essential to living a meaningful, impactful life.

We’ll explore what it means to embrace strength, discipline, and the capacity for action while understanding that true power comes from choosing when to use it.

Being dangerous doesn’t mean being harmful—it means being capable, confident, and controlled. If you’re tired of playing small, this episode is your wake-up call.

Key Takeaways:

1. Weakness is not virtue.

• Virtue requires strength, capability, and discipline. Weakness is simply the inability to act.

• Being dangerous means having the skills and capacity to handle life’s challenges without needing to dominate or destroy.

• Build your mind, body, and skillset to become an unshakable force in the world.

• The ability to wield power but keep it under control is where true virtue and influence lie.

• Stop shrinking to fit the world’s expectations. Step into your strength and claim your space.

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Let’s be dangerous, competent, & UnFuckable

In this episode, I dive into the reality of seeing red in my bank account, just like seeing dead people in a thriller movie!

I share my process of creating a financial checklist for anyone feeling the financial pinch, especially with the holidays coming up.

Whether you have a business bank account or not, these are actionable, real-world steps to help you start moving forward and exploring new income avenues. Plus, I’ll introduce some resources and side hustles to get you on track faster.

Key Takeaways in this Episode:

1. Start with a Financial Checklist: Actionable steps to assess your current situation, prioritize expenses, and identify immediate savings or income potential.
2. Explore Side Hustles for Quick Cash Flow: Ideas for getting started on side gigs that can add some extra income quickly, perfect for holiday expenses or rainy days.
3. Resources to Help You Thrive: Insight into my upcoming books and guides as resources that offer sustainable solutions, financial empowerment, and tips to help you build long-term security.
4. DON’T GET DEPRESSED, GET A PLAN, CREATE A PLAYLIST OF MUSIC THAT GETS YOU HYPED AND GO FOT IT - CREATE THAT KILLER SERVICE OR PRODUCT.

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UnFuckable isn’t just a brand; it’s a mindset. Add Unfuckable to your lifestyle, and watch the knowledge I’m sharing transform the way you approach success.

In This Episode:

In this episode, I’m diving deep into the art of setting boundaries—a powerful tool for protecting your mental peace and preserving your energy.

I unpack what boundaries really are, why they’re essential for self-respect, and how they’re not about pushing people away but creating space for what truly serves you.

You'll discover practical strategies to identify and set boundaries in different areas of your life, how to communicate them effectively, and the transformative power of saying "no" to protect your peace.

Whether you struggle with people-pleasing or just need a reminder to put yourself first, this episode is packed with insights to help you lock it down and guard your energy.

Key Takeaways:

1. Boundaries Are Self-Respect in Action: Boundaries aren't about creating distance for its own sake; they’re about choosing yourself. They ensure that your energy is only invested in people, activities, and experiences that uplift you.
2. Energy is a Bank Account—Protect It: Every interaction and obligation takes from your energy "bank." Without boundaries, you risk overdraft, leading to burnout and exhaustion. Boundaries preserve your fuel for what truly matters.
3. Get Clear on Your Energy Leaks: Start by identifying where you feel most drained—whether it’s work, social media, or specific relationships. Recognize these “energy leaks” and set boundaries that limit their impact on you.
4. Communicate Your Boundaries Firmly and Calmly: People aren’t mind readers. To ensure your boundaries are respected, be direct and clear with others about what you will and won’t accept.
5. Self-Boundaries Are the Game-Changer: Sometimes, the person you need boundaries with is yourself. This means saying “no” to habits and thoughts that don’t align with your purpose. Self-boundaries are essential for accountability and growth.

If this episode resonated with you, take a few minutes today to reflect on areas where you need stronger boundaries. Identify one area of your life where your energy feels stretched thin and make a plan to set a simple boundary around it. Start small—remember, even one "no" is a powerful first step.

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Thanks for tuning in, and remember: setting boundaries is one of the most empowering gifts you can give yourself. Stay intentional, protect your peace, and keep thriving!