When I was single and dating, my slogan on my online dating profile was, "30 seconds and we both know." 

But 100+ dates later, I still needed to find out.

The way our brain works is that it searches for familiar, repetitive patterns. It loves to repeat the same patterns. If you think about it, our brain thinks the same thoughts day in and out. 🧠 ⭕

The same thing happens with dating and choosing men. 

Our brain wants to keep us from making new decisions that require a lot of energy and effort.

It wants us to continue making the same decisions and choices. It wants us to create the same results repeatedly—even when they don't serve us. 

You may think you know exactly who you're looking for.

And what I want to offer you is this: your current thoughts are the reason you are where you are. 

This is such a powerful concept that I devoted a new podcast, #79, “What you think you know that you don’t,” to explore the realm of what you think you know that you don't.

In this week's episode you're about to discover:

✨ Why the "I'll just know when I meet him" mindset keeps women single

✨ What I realized after going through 100+ dates and how it changed everything

✨ How to rewire your brain's patterns and get different results in dating

✨ What to do when you aren't attracted to different types of men

✨ The litmus test to know when you have met your person and can stop searching

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

"When you step into your type, being authentically yourself and showing up in this powerful way, you will have very new and different experiences in dating."

"Your brain looks for the familiar, and your brain looks for all or nothing. “I'm either attracted immediately, or I'm not attracted at all." 

"Be prepared to have initial resistance with the type of man who is perfect for you."

"If you are not sure, use what I call the "kiss test."

"Being with your dual type of man works magically. It works on every level."

—Polina

P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!