• Inside the Chaos: The Untold Story of As I Lay Dying
    Nov 12 2024

    Episode Summary:


    In this episode, the hosts discuss the transition from Halloween to the holiday season, sharing thoughts on Thanksgiving and Christmas music. They also reflect on heavy topics and the contributions of their designer, Stanley, who creates graphics for the podcast. The conversation includes insights about the band As I Lay Dying and their musical evolution, as well as personal anecdotes from the hosts.


    Key Topics:


    • Transitioning from Halloween to Christmas episodes
    • The lack of Thanksgiving music topics
    • Shout out to Stanley, the podcast's designer
    • Discussion of As I Lay Dying's album and musical talent
    • Personal stories and memories shared by the hosts
    • Mention of other podcasts and projects by the hosts

    Featured Music:


    • As I Lay Dying's latest album (details to be inserted)
    • Discussion of popular Christmas songs (e.g., "All I Want for Christmas Is You")

    Sponsor Messages:


    • Bose Coffee Company: Use discount code MUSICSPEAKS for 10% off your order at BonesCoffee.com
    • Better Help: Visit BetterHelp.com/MUSICSPEAKS for 10% off your first month of therapy


    Social Media Links:


    • Follow us on Facebook, X, Instagram, and TikTok: @WhenWordsFailMusicSpeaks


    Contact Information:


    • Email: James@WhenWordsFailMusicSpeaks.com
    • Email: Blake@WhenWordsFailMusicSpeaks.com
    • Email: Amanda@WhenWordsFailMusicSpeaks.com

    Additional Notes:


    • Don't forget to subscribe and leave a rating/review on Apple Podcasts or your favorite platform!
    • Check out our YouTube channel for interviews, music video reactions, and more at YouTube.com/WhenWordsFailMusicSpeaks


    Closing Remarks:

    Thank you for listening! Remember, when words fail, music speaks.

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    1 hr and 33 mins
  • Steph Carse Discusses Faith, Media, and Musical Storytelling
    Nov 11 2024

    Show Notes


    Belief in Greater Intelligence

    • Steph Carse's belief in a creator and greater intelligence
    • Mention of life's purpose beyond current perceptions
    • Gradual acknowledgment by science

    Personal Growth and Spirituality

    • Importance of spiritual presence and gratitude
    • Connection between worship, gratitude, and revelation

    Media and Misinformation

    • Concerns about negative influence of media
    • Critique of lack of genuine journalism and online misinformation

    Living Without Cable

    • Steph and his wife's decision to opt-out of cable
    • Use of VidAngel app to filter content

    Time of Great Deception

    • Belief in the current era of significant deception
    • Opportunities to witness God's promises

    Creative Process and Influences

    • Blending various influences in music
    • Focus on storytelling and positive messages
    • Using music for advocacy, such as Special Olympics and anti-bullying

    Steph Carse on Inspiration and Message

    • Influence of self-perception in music
    • Biblical parallels in messages of empowerment
    • Emphasis on overcoming obstacles

    Musical Preferences

    • Steph's draw to powerful endings and theatrical songs
    • Discussion of personal musical taste evolution

    Power of Music

    • Uplifting and transformative nature of music
    • Reference to biblical stories illustrating music's impact

    Genre Exploration and Personal Projects

    • Satisfaction with current work, big dramatic songs
    • Christmas movie project with wife

    Personal Beliefs and Celebrations

    • Views on Halloween and personal faith
    • Importance of individual faith relationships

    Future Aspirations and Projects

    • Fundraising for upcoming projects
    • Personal goals of starting a family
    • Aspiration to produce impactful true story films

    Musical Influences and Preferences

    • Variety of musical influences
    • Focus on impactful songs, mentioning "Gratitude"

    Stephanie's Personal Projects and Beliefs

    • Website stephcars.com for updates
    • No longer selling merchandise

    Steph's Film and Media Projects

    • "The True Miracle of Christmas" on Amazon
    • James Cox's appreciation and collaboration invitations

    Concluding Discussion on Music and Emotions

    • Music as expression and affirmation
    • Steph's deeper personal revelations and openness

    Personal Stories and Advocacy Work

    • Special Olympics background and personal experiences
    • Anti-bullying advocacy through "Why I Count" program

    Complexity of Life and Divine Perception

    • Discussion on life's complexity and divine understanding

    Impact of Song "Awesome"

    • Song's message of self-worth and resilience
    • Program "Why I Count" inspired by the song

    Dr. Emoto's Study Reference

    • Influence of words on water molecules and human health

    Host Introduction and Guest Background

    • Brief introduction of podcast and guest Steph Carse

    Religious Views and Challenges

    • Discussion on modern religious views and challenges

    Personal Struggles and Insights

    • Overcoming personal difficulties
    • The impact of struggles on personal growth and music philosophy


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    56 mins
  • Episode 370 - Shalaine Stebner on Family, Music, and Mental Health Awareness
    Nov 9 2024

    Show Notes:


    Compassion and Understanding:

    • Emphasis on compassion related to people's behavior.

    • Connection between outbursts and long-term personal issues.

    • Potential societal improvements through increased compassion.

    Men’s Mental Health:

    • Discussion on the stigma surrounding men's mental health.

    • Need for acceptance of emotional expression among men.

    • Reference to returning soldiers with PTSD.

    • Shalaine's song tackling societal expectations about men's emotions.

    Songwriting and Personal Expression:

    • Shalaine's song about her husband hypothetically committing suicide.

    • Importance of authenticity in songwriting for musicians.

    • Shalaine's independent songwriting process.

    • Balancing personal vulnerability with broader themes in her music.

    Performance Dynamics:

    • Unique dynamic created by performing with her father as her drummer.

    • Emotional impact of on-stage performances, leading to personal moments.

    • Shalaine's father stepping back from active drumming.

    Musical Background and Growth:

    • Shalaine's journey from musical theater, dance, and choral music to country music.

    • Early performance experiences influencing her stage presence.

    • Inheritance of her grandfather’s guitar sparking a renewed passion for music.

    Musical Preferences and Influences:

    • Shalaine's strong roots in country music and lack of interest in genre shifting.

    • Influences from Allison Krauss, Carolyn Dawn Johnson, and others.

    • Comparison of music streaming payouts, preference for Apple Music over Spotify.

    Song Release and Genre Evolution:

    • Upcoming release of "Dirt Road Race Remix 1."

    • Original recording of "Dirt Road Race" with revisions to remove jazz elements.

    • Collaboration with Sound Foundation and advice from Michael Botte to achieve a modern country rock style.

    Inter-generational Musical Connections:

    • Nostalgia for Backstreet Boys and NSYNC.

    • Exposure of Shalaine’s children to 90s music like "I Want It That Way."

    • Discussion on the nature of "guilty pleasure" songs from the past.

    Community and Personal Connection:

    • Shalaine’s participation with "the Amigos" group.

    • Building confidence through community and family-oriented performances.

    • Relationship management and emotional themes in songwriting, like "Ghost in This House."

    Online Presence and Merchandise:

    • Shalaine's presence on social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok.

    • Challenges and learning curve with TikTok for those over 30.

    • Merchandise availability and personal production for fan interactions.

    Financial Aspects of Music:

    • Challenges associated with low streaming royalties.

    • Discussion on making excessive money and its impact on enjoyment.

    Support and Recognition:

    • Introduction of Shalaine by Kayden Gordon to the podcast.

    • Participation and success at the International Singers Songwriters Association Awards.

    Personal Influence and Legacy:

    • Influence of Shalaine's grandfather on her musical passion.

    • Writing of "Silver and Gold" in tribute to her grandfather.

    Closing Remarks:

    • Appreciation for Shalaine's guest appearance.

    • Finishing the episode with the ethos: "when words fail, music speaks."

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    42 mins
  • Episode 369 - Rodeo Rhythms and Rebel Ballads: The Hunter Stiles Story
    Nov 4 2024

    Main Theme:

    Join us as we explore the traditional country music world of Hunter Stiles, a Nashville recording artist whose work is steeped in storytelling and influenced by country legends like Waylon Jennings and Johnny Cash.


    Highlights:

    1. Influences & Style:
    2. Hunter Stiles draws inspiration from iconic artists, incorporating the storytelling prowess of Johnny Cash and the straightforward style of George Strait into his music. His sound blends classic country with rock elements, exemplified in his cover of Bob Dylan’s “Knockin’ on Heaven’s Door.”
    3. Original Music & Popular Tracks:
    4. With songs available on platforms like Apple Music, “Wanted Man” and “52 Cadillac” stand out, the latter being his most popular track. Styles attributes the success of “Wanted Man” to its strong storytelling elements.
    5. Performance & Audience Connection:
    6. Performing at venues across the Northwest, including festivals and rodeos, Stiles values the heartfelt connections he makes with his audience, particularly through interactions with military personnel.
    7. Covers & Future Projects:
    8. Stiles is considering releasing a covers album or a tribute to influential musicians like Hank Williams. His performances of both originals and covers allow him to connect deeply with his audience.
    9. Music as Comfort & Inspiration:
    10. He sees music as a source of comfort for those facing challenges such as PTSD and depression, drawing parallels between his blue-collar background in welding and the hard work themes in classic country songs.
    11. Ambitions & Collaborations:
    12. Excited about future projects, Stiles plans to release new music and return to Nashville in the winter. He expresses a desire to have his music featured in TV shows like “Yellowstone” and dreams of collaborating with Johnny Cash.
    13. Upcoming Projects & Merchandise:
    14. Stay tuned for new releases and performances from Stiles. His dedication to his craft is evident in his music and merchandise offerings.


    Join us for an insightful conversation that celebrates the enduring legacy of country music and Hunter Stiles’ contributions to the genre.

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    31 mins
  • Episode 368 - Cover Wars | London dungeon (To Die Elsewhere vs Lifting Curses)
    Oct 31 2024

    Main Theme:

    In this episode, we delve into the multifaceted world of music and artists, emphasizing the critical role of supporting musicians through tangible merchandise like CDs and vinyl rather than relying solely on streaming platforms. We explore music’s powerful influence in combating depression with our returning guest, Garrett Kirk.


    Key Topics:

    1. Supporting Artists:
    • The importance of purchasing physical merchandise to support artists.
    • How tangible sales benefit artists more than streaming.
    1. Music’s Role in Mental Health:
    • Discussion on how music serves as a tool against depression.
    1. Featured Collaborations and Artists:
    • Recent collaborations with artist I Am Critchy.
    • Exploration of the Misfits’ impact, particularly their horror punk style and the song “London Dungeon.”
    • A look at the Misfits’ history, founded by Glenn Danzig, with Jerry Only as a constant member despite lineup changes.
    1. Spotlight on Bands:
    • Introduction to To Die Elsewhere from Salem, Oregon, known for introspective lyrics and a compelling YouTube presence.
    • Insight into Lifting Curses, celebrated for their energetic and nihilistic performances.
    1. Challenges in Music:
    • Discussing the complexities of covering songs while retaining originality.
    • Preferences for different vocal styles and cover versions, with plans to seek insights from Blake and Jeff.
    1. Engagement and Listener Support:
    • The speaker’s passion for their nearly five-year-old show and future plans to engage more with the audience through live video.
    • Acknowledgment of listener support from individuals like Pat Tracy and Levi.
    1. Exciting Upcoming Projects:
    • Announcement of the album “Stardust” releasing on December 1st and the song “Drifter.”
    • Organizing an online pool tournament to connect musicians among listeners.
    1. Celebrity Encounters and Future Aspirations:
    • Discussion of potential meetings with Misfits members and past celebrity encounters.
    • An optimistic outlook on future collaborations.


    Join us as we explore the depth of the music world and its ability to inspire and connect people, with a focus on nurturing a supportive community for artists and listeners alike.

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    46 mins
  • Episode 367 - Abracadabra Cover Wars (Sugar Ray VS Eagles of Death Metal)
    Oct 30 2024

    Join host James Cox and guest Jeff Whisnant for an engaging conversation that weaves through tales of friendship, haunted attractions, and the world of music. This episode explores the duo’s shared experiences and diverse tastes, touching on everything from eerie encounters to iconic tunes.


    Key Themes:

    1. Haunted House Adventures:
    2. Dive into James’ and Jeff’s thrilling visits to haunted attractions such as Broken Toys and Scream Makers.
    3. Hear firsthand accounts of spine-tingling experiences and the allure of these eerie escapades.
    4. Musical Journeys and Influences:
    5. Analyze the impact of “Abracadabra” by the Steve Miller Band, discussing its chart-topping success and influence on artists like Eminem.
    6. Explore the transformation of Sugar Ray from their early funk and metal roots to mainstream success with hits like “Fly,” and their 2019 album “Little Yachty.”
    7. Band Dynamics and Tragedy:
    8. Delve into the history of Eagles of Death Metal, co-founded by Jesse Hughes and Josh Homme, and the irony behind their name.
    9. Reflect on the tragic 2015 Paris concert attack, remembering victims like Nick Alexander and the resilience of the band members who survived.
    10. Cover Song Critique:
    11. Discuss the challenges and creativity involved in producing successful cover songs.
    12. Compare Sugar Ray’s rendition of “Abracadabra” to that of Eagles of Death Metal, expressing a preference for Sugar Ray’s version.

    Listener Engagement:

    1. Encourage listeners to share their favorite songs for future episodes.
    2. Promote podcast merchandise, offering discounts on coffee and therapy services to enhance the listener experience.


    Closing Remarks:


    Tune in for a mix of haunting tales and musical insights as James and Jeff navigate the worlds of haunted attractions and the ever-evolving music scene. Don’t miss this captivating episode!

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    49 mins
  • Episode 366 - Matt Greiner: Rhythms of Resilience
    Oct 28 2024

    Episode Highlights:

    • Introduction to Better Help:
    • Overview of Better Help’s affordable mental health services.
    • Emphasis on flexible communication methods and easy therapist switching.
    • Main Theme: The Healing Power of Music
    • Exploration of music as a therapeutic tool for mental health.
    • Interviews with musicians like Matt Greiner, drummer of August Burns Red.
    • Featured Guest: Matt Greiner
    • Insights into his homeschooling and its influence on his drumming career.
    • Balancing the pressures of a music career with the peace of farming.
    • Overcoming personal challenges such as stuttering to promote empathy and positivity in music.
    • The band’s evolution over 20 years and a pivotal incident in Australia that led to reevaluating their purpose.
    • Greiner’s Drumming Journey and Influences:
    • Inspiration from drummers like Aaron Spears.
    • Co-hosting “Holy Ghost Notes” podcast, blending faith with drumming.
    • Navigating the label of a “Christian metal band” and fostering positive messages.
    • Community and Belonging:
    • Greiner’s longing for belonging both on tour and at home.
    • Importance of balancing connections within and outside the Christian community.
    • Advocacy for exposure to diverse beliefs and fostering understanding.
    • Intersection of Music and Mental Health:
    • Discussions on music’s role in coping with difficult times.
    • Personal stories from guests and hosts on dealing with depression.
    • Emphasis on reducing isolation through shared musical experiences.
    • Podcast Goals:
    • Encouraging self-care and connection.
    • Aiming to make a positive impact through the universal language of music.


    Join hosts Blake Mosley and James Cox as they delve into these topics, offering a platform where words may fail, but music speaks volumes.

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    45 mins
  • Episode 365 - Halloween Traditions and Haunted Studios
    Oct 22 2024

    Episode Highlights:

    • Halloween Traditions & Personal Stories:
    • The hosts share their favorite Halloween memories, including Amanda’s unforgettable Flintstones-themed celebration.
    • A humorous dive into costume experiences and family traditions.
    • Innovative Ideas:
    • Introducing “Amanda the Builder,” a proposed show aimed at challenging gender norms in construction.
    • Milestones & Music Insights:
    • Celebrating 1,000 Instagram followers and planning a reaction to a song from “Terrifier 3.”
    • Discussion on Patrick Galante’s amicable departure from Ice Nine Kills and the band’s journey.
    • Spooky Studios & Technical Troubles:
    • Eerie tales of haunted music studios, including Slipknot and My Chemical Romance’s chilling experiences.
    • Strange happenings at Rick Rubin’s studio, formerly Errol Flynn’s mansion, and the Foo Fighters’ unsettling recording sessions.
    • Cultural & Historical Conversations:
    • Differences in humor between UK and American TV shows.
    • Reflections on historical European buildings and Jane Seymour’s career.
    • Mental Health & Streaming Struggles:
    • The importance of concise communication for mental health.
    • Personal anecdotes about family health challenges.
    • Final Thoughts & Favorite Tunes:
    • Emphasis on connections for mental well-being.
    • Sharing a favorite Halloween track, “Dig Up Her Bones” by Misfits.


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    1 hr and 25 mins