Pamela Henkelman is a certified Empty Nest Coach, speaker, writer, and host of the Midlife Momma Podcast. With her bright smile and enthusiastic personality, she is passionate about encouraging women, particularly the often-forgotten group of moms with adult children. She has much wisdom for those whose adult children have cut off connection with them.

I loved this quote on Pamela’s Instagram: “Talk less and pray more! Lead with love!”

Pam’s Resources:

• Learn more about Pamela: https://www.pamelahenkelman.com/
• Listen to Pam’s Podcast: https://www.pamelahenkelman.com/podcast
• 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Children(and 5 Ways to Stop Yourself from Saying Them). Free resource: https://wandering-union-986.myflodesk.com/atrt8t373z

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• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
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This might be the most helpful episode we’ve done on this podcast.

Loving a prodigal can be like a roller coaster—the ups and downs, the unexpected turns. The dashed hopes.

In our last episode we looked at our persistent enemy—a roaring lion we know as Satan. This week we will look at what an opportunist he is, and ways we can resist him.

Judy’s Resources:

• Read The Ways of the Enemy: Opportunist: https://bit.ly/4jT5UiI
• Read The Ways of the Enemy: Counterfeit-The Way: https://bit.ly/44MzGBn
• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
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When you love a prodigal, you get used to the lion stalking.

Sometimes it seems that, no matter what you do to rescue your prodigal, to win her heart, to capture his mind, nothing works. Even when your prodigal is seeking to change patterns, to make better choices, to turn things around, they can’t catch a break.

Someone is opposing them.

His name is Satan.

Judy’s Resources:

• Read Can You See the Lion Stalking?: https://bit.ly/42fNe73
• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
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• Purchase a copy of the When You Love a Prodigal book for you or a loved one here: https://amzn.to/3RuiUx9

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One of the hardest parts of living with and loving a prodigal is the waiting, isn’t it. I have said many times: I thought it was time! Isn’t it time, Lord? Are we doing this again? How long, Lord?

We hate the uncertainty, fear the possibilities. And grow wearing in the waiting….

Judy’s Resources:

• Read Fragile Hope: https://bit.ly/41RMwwt
• Read Waiting with Hope: https://bit.ly/3VlMolg
• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
• Sign up for Judy’s monthly newsletter here: https://bit.ly/39TBlYt
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Jill Baughan radiates joy! In my several conversations with her, joy flows from her. I can't help but smile when I'm with her. But more than that, she is able to share, even slosh, that joy with you and me. Joy even for hard days with a prodigal.

Jill’s Resources:

BIG NEWS! Hey friends, my book is available for PRE-ORDER on Amazon!

The release date is April 1, 2025. (Yes! April Fools' Day, which I find TOTALLY delightful!) I'll be telling you more about it in the coming days, but just know I am so excited to offer you this devotional that I hope will bring you joy while you read it, and hope for joy after you put it down.

You can pre-order here: https://a.co/d/9i864E5

• Podcast (Find Joy...No Matter What): https://jillbaughan.com/podcast/
• Make a Joy Box for Someone You Care About: https://jillbaughan.com/joy-box
• Website: https://jillbaughan.com
• Enter for a chance to win Jill’s new book: https://judydouglass.com/bookgiveaway

Judy’s Resources:

• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
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• Purchase a copy of the When You Love a Prodigal book for you or a loved one here: https://amzn.to/3RuiUx9

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In my conversations with those who love a prodigal, or with someone going through hard times, with anyone in an uncertain time, I usually end up at the same place, with four words that can make a real difference, even bring transformation in a prodigal, and in our own lives.

These words are filled with encouragement and hope. When I remember them and choose to believe what God says to me about them, I am changed. Sometimes my circumstances change. And often I see new ways that God is answering my prayer

Judy’s Resources:

• Read Living Out Love: https://bit.ly/3F3c9l4
• Read Immersed in His Love: https://bit.ly/3R3Nvnf
• Read Scandalous Grace: https://bit.ly/4i2wxkX
• Read Turning Scripture into Blessing: https://bit.ly/4hZdRTd
• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
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• Purchase a copy of the When You Love a Prodigal book for you or a loved one here: https://amzn.to/3RuiUx9

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Casey has much to offer as she shares her journey to become a counselor and her passion to encourage healthy families. She talks about the pain experienced by parents and by the children. And the conversations that can lead to healing.

Casey Lewis is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist living in Chattanooga, TN. She worked with Cru for three years out of college before spending five years at the University of Alabama. From there, she attended Richmont Graduate University. She has worked for 11 years in private practice and has over 20 years of experience working with teenagers.

Casey’s Resources:

• Casey’s Blog: https://www.forwhatitsworthblog.com
• https://www.attachmentproject.com/

Judy’s Resources:

• Read Home: The Most Significant Place in the World: https://bit.ly/3Qo3FYg
• Read Joy and Pain Over Generations: https://bit.ly/4hGNt0b
• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
• Sign up for Judy’s monthly newsletter here: https://bit.ly/39TBlYt
• Purchase a copy of the When You Love a Prodigal book for you or a loved one here: https://amzn.to/3RuiUx9

Stay connected:

• Website: judydouglass.com/podcast
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The prophet Isaiah repeatedly mocks them for carving idols to worship out of half a log, and cooking dinner with the other half. How could anyone think that “god” could save them?

We read in 1 Samuel that rebellion is like the sin of witchcraft, and arrogance like the evil of idolatry (1 Samuel 15:23).

Wow! I need to examine my rebellious tendencies.

God understands our struggles, but He gives us every reason not to rebel.

Judy’s Resources:

• Read Words of My Life 4: Surrender: https://bit.ly/4aMx4o0
• Read My Rebellion, My Idols: https://bit.ly/40ZdDFi
• Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
• Sign up for Judy’s monthly newsletter here: https://bit.ly/39TBlYt
• Purchase a copy of the When You Love a Prodigal book for you or a loved one here: https://amzn.to/3RuiUx9

Stay connected:

• Website: judydouglass.com/podcast
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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JudyDouglass