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Why Don't We Talk About This?

Why Don't We Talk About This?

By: Paula McMillan-Perez LCSW
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You already know that there are a bunch of things people talk about in pockets or completely avoid. Things that may be controversial or uncomfortable but we need to get them off our chest. During "Why Don’t We Talk About This?", licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist, Paula McMillan-Perez speaks with folks whose learned experiences and/or professions give way to a diverse knowledge of topics that we just aren't talking about...but should be!

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Episodes
  • Talking about Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors with Jose Alvear, LCSW
    May 13 2025

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    Jose speaks about his personal and professional experience with body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) like hair pulling and skin picking. He highlights 4-5% of the population suffers from BFRBs, with nail biting affecting 20-30%. Alviar emphasized the importance of reducing shame and increasing awareness, noting that BFRBs are now recognized in the DSM-5 for the first time. Jose also shares his experience transitioning from patient to clinician and the role of peer support in recovery as well as the scarcity of trained clinicians, with only a few hundred in the U.S. He encourages those affected to seek help and join supportive communities, a driving factor in starting his own podcast about BFRBs.


    In this episode, you will hear:
    + impact of BFRBs on various domains
    + confusion between BFRBs Self-Harm
    + peer support and recovery
    + challenges associated with revealing BFRBs to loved ones
    + accessibility of support and treatment


    Guest Bio:

    Jose Alvear is a licensed clinical social worker in NYC who treats people with all types of body-focused repetitive behaviors. Jose went from a skin picking patient to BFRB advocate to clinician in order to help raise awareness of these disorders. He currently co-hosts the BFRB Podcast.


    Contact:
    Website - http://www.bfrbpodcast.com
    Podcast - http://www.bfrbpodcast.com


    Follow us on Instagram @whydontwetalkabouthispod

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    50 mins
  • Talking about the Power of Pets
    May 6 2025

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    Paula shares some the mental health benefits of owning or engaging with pets, highlighting Mental Health Awareness Month. She shares her personal experience with her rescue service dog, Fonzie, a tripawed cancer survivor, highlighting how pets can improve mood, reduce anxiety, and increase daily exercise. As well as some additional ways that animals have the ability to uplift us. establish routines, provide unconditional love, and foster social connections. She also addresses the practical aspects of pet ownership, including financial and time commitments, and suggests alternative ways to engage with pets, such as volunteering at shelters or fostering to soak up the benefits that animals have to offer.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    + physical and mental benefits of pets
    + establishing routines and bonding
    + mindfulness and presence
    + stress relief and social connection
    + unconditional love and companionship
    + cultural and practical considerations

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    27 mins
  • Talking about Embracing Accountability and Increasing Authenticity with Stephanie Piazza, MSW(c)
    Apr 29 2025

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    Stephanie, a Nuyorican (a Puerto Rican located in New York City-in this case, The Bronx), trauma-born Capricorn, mother of three and first year MSW student/intern, discuss her journey from being a soldier in the U.S Army from deployment in Iraq and beyond to today. She highlights the pivotal role of therapy in her recovery and speaks of her struggles associated with self-sabotage. She emphasizes the importance of resilience and accountability noting the lack of support available for veteran transitioning to civilian life. Stephanie uplifts the need for more peer support and representation in mental health services, especially for women of color.


    In this episode, you will hear:

    + challenges access mental health services in the military
    + resilience and accountability in mental health
    + combined experiences of military life with a mental health diagnosis
    + impact of deployment on veterans
    + role of social work in supporting veterans
    + importance of representation and authenticity in social work

    Guest Bio:

    Stephanie Piazza is a dedicated Social Work Intern, Veteran, and proud Mother who brings a unique, trauma-informed perspective to her practice. A Capricorn by nature, Stephanie is grounded, resilient, and deeply curious about human behavior—consistently exploring how people act, feel, and think. With humor as a vital tool in her work and life, she strives to build authentic connections with others. Stephanie is committed to using her lived experience and empathic abilities to empower individuals, helping them recognize their inherent strength, beauty, and potential.

    Contact/Socials
    Instagram:@madamep82
    Facebook: Stephanie Lee Piazza (tread carefully)
    Email: stphnpiazza@gmail.com

    Follow us on Instagram @whydontwetalkabouthispod

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    46 mins
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