This podcast episode features Certified Professional Coach Mary Ann Palmer who shares her struggles with denial about the severity of her son’s addiction and how she overcame it. She addresses misconceptions about addiction and stresses the importance of family support in the recovery process. Mary Ann emphasizes the need for patience and persistence due to the long-term nature of recovery. She also provides insights on managing a child's cravings, identifying triggers, and the benefits of community support. She advises working with a professional coach and continuous self-education. Chris and Mary Ann challenge the idea of waiting for a loved one to reach their lowest point before considering stepping in to help.

Episode Highlights

• The story of her mother's addiction and her brother suffering from alcohol use disorder and eventually passing sober
• The notable moment when she found her son's backpack full of empty beer bottles and had her first acceptance of the fact that there was something wrong
• The assumption and denial stage in which most parents are in when they seek out help
• The final time her son went to rehab was his path to sobriety, as he did so after finding out that his girlfriend was pregnant
• Her son's momentary relapse after a year of sobriety when she found him drunk in their kitchen
• How she strategized her response to her son's relapse using the CRAFT methodology and displayed calmness instead of anger, resulting in a constructive conversation
• The usefulness of the term "influence" in managing addictive behavior
• The exercise she uses to explain what addiction feels like to the person suffering from it
• What drew her to peer coaching and how she decided to help parents going through what she went through in dealing with a child suffering addiction
• How you can start preparing a plan and potentially writing a contract for relapse situations
• The importance of positively reinforcing good behaviors

Links and Resources from this Episode

• https://whyintervention.com/
• https://twitter.com/whyintervention
• https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/
• https://www.maryanncpalmer.com/
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-ann-c-palmer  

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Chris and Danny provide a walkthrough of what to expect during a professionally led family intervention process.

Episode Highlights

• Danny shares a recent case of a concerned mother and father whose adult son is facing alcoholism
• The need to have professionally guided conversations when talking about issues of addiction or treatment
• The methodology of leading with love and concern in interventions
• How a problematic behavior is caused by addiction or alcoholism
• The issue of families confronting addiction on a surface level, rather than a deeper, more meaningful level
• Reinforcing the importance of seeking professional guidance in conducting interventions
• How interventions are not about ambushing or deceiving the person suffering from addiction, but are aimed at creating a directed, loving, and caring conversation to encourage them to agree to get help
• Common beliefs families endure, like waiting for their loved one to hit rock bottom before they can get help

Links and Resources from this Episode

• https://whyintervention.com/
• https://twitter.com/whyintervention
• https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
• https://www.amazon.com/Intervention-Help-Someone-Doesnt-Want/dp/0935908315
• https://www.amazon.com/Love-First-Familys-Guide-Intervention/dp/1592856616  

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Chris had guest Brinn Flagg to discuss her personal and professional experience with handling other people's addictions. She shares her knowledge on addiction and codependency. She suggests clear communication and boundary setting and stresses the need for individual recovery work. The decision to leave an addicted partner is complex and personal, and continuing personal growth after leaving is crucial to prevent repeating toxic patterns. 

Episode Highlights

• How Brinn Flagg got into the field
• Her experience dating someone with an active addiction to prescription drugs which differed from her sister's heroin addiction
• The importance of learning about addiction to navigate its challenges and lend compassion towards loved ones in the throes of addiction
• Her relationship experience as a codependent partner to someone addicted to substances
• The nature of her partner’s addiction
• The benefits of recovering on her own and how seeking a coach led her to recognize harmful tendencies in relationships
• The complexities of dealing with family addiction, particularly concerning the high level of focus and concern on the addict
• Negative impacts of codependency on mental and physical health

Links and Resources from this Episode

• https://whyintervention.com/
• https://twitter.com/whyintervention
• https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
• Connect with Brinn Flagg
• brinn@joinawen.com
• https://www.brinnflagg.com/
• https://www.brinnflagg.com/work-with-me
• https://www.instagram.com/brinnflagg/  

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