In this vulnerable and transformational solo episode, Mike Elliott shares his personal journey through pornography, substance use, shame, and the path to sacred masculine maturity.

He unpacks how these often-hidden coping mechanisms:

• Sabotage intimacy and emotional availability

• Keep men stuck in immaturity and isolation

• Block the deeper soul gifts of love, leadership, and purpose
  

You’ll also hear about his upcoming community for men: The Initiated Man.

🕒 Episode Chapters:

00:00 – Welcome to the Podcast 00:54 – Episode Introduction and Apologies

01:36 – Exploring the Impact of Porn and Substance Abuse

04:19 – The Root Causes of Coping Strategies

12:02 – Personal Journey and Early Exposure

20:42 – The Role of Shame and Emotional Needs

22:49 – Substance Abuse and Emotional Regulation

28:08 – The Importance of Co-Regulation and Mature Relationships

34:45 – Healing and Moving Forward

40:14 – Understanding Dysfunction in Relationships

40:36 – Core Roots and Emotional Needs

41:20 – Self-Soothing and Addictions

42:39 – Inner Child Work and Healing

43:47 – Building Safe Connections 46:22 – Directing Energy Towards Partners

47:41 – Embracing Vulnerability in Relationships

49:01 – Personal Growth and Fulfillment

50:47 – Overcoming Coping Strategies

53:00 – Finding Purpose and Mission

01:07:21 – The Initiated Man Community

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