If you're currently single and not dating . . .

If you have a desire in your heart to meet the love of your life, yet you're not taking action . . .

Why is that? 

You want something, yet you need to do something in the direction of your desire. 

We often come up with some good reasons for doing something other than what we want. 

We can wholeheartedly believe that these are the real reasons. They're very rational and logical and make sense. 

Yet, underneath usually lies something else.

If we don't examine and question it, we can allow these "reasons" (justifications and excuses) for not living the life we want, and why we don't go after our dreams, thus keeping us in the same place.

That's why I created this new episode #78, “Why you aren’t dating,” to explore what's happening and how to shift it.

In this week's episode, you're about to discover:

✨ How we can have both success and love at the same time

✨ What's holding us back from creating what we want in our personal life

✨ Why our attempts to change our circumstances don't get us different results

✨ The most powerful questions to ask yourself in order to take new actions

✨ How to get started dating in the way that guarantees you find love

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

"The first sign that you're actually making progress and moving forward is that it is uncomfortable—and okay."

"What you can change is how you think about it. Because when you start looking at everything from the perspective of "does it serve me to think and believe this?" This can change everything for you, beginning with how you feel, what actions you take, and what results you create in your love life."

"When a woman says, "I'm not dating because there are no quality men out there,” for her, in HER reality, she's right. For her, there aren't. When she goes to places, she won't even see men. Because of her thinking, her belief is there are no quality men out there. Her brain looks for confirmation bias—what's familiar and what it already knows."

—Polina

P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!