In this episode: Have you ever felt completely frozen, staring at your project, knowing exactly what needs to get done — but physically unable to begin? It’s not procrastination — it’s ADHD Paralysis — and there are three kinds: mental paralysis, analysis paralysis, and task paralysis, all of which can lead to shutdowns. It’s a neurological issue (executive functions not functioning) as well as an emotional one (a trauma response). Whether you're ADHD or AuDHD, this episode helps you understand that you don’t need more willpower — you need more compassion. You’re overwhelmed, and you deserve support. Special Patreon Offer! 25% off of your first month OR an entire annual membership! CLICK HERE TO CLAIM and use code: 90FFB.

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SOURCES USED FOR THIS EPISODE:

ADHD Paralysis: Mental Health

ADHD Paralysis is Real: ADDA

What is ADHD Shutdown? Calm

Understanding ADHD Paralysis: The Dorm

Complex PTSD Pete Walker

In this episode: Jen talks about how ADHD shows up at work — from time blindness to burnout — and breaks down what your rights are under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). She walks you through real-world accommodations that can make a huge difference (including remote work), how to actually ask for them without overexplaining, and also rethinks the whole concept of why we even have to ask for things like this on our own in the first place.

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SOURCES USED FOR THIS EPISODE:

Why “Workplace Accommodations” Are Archaic - Lindsey Mackereth

How People Can Ask For Accommodations At Work - ChADD

How Protected Are People Under The ADA? - ADDitude Magazine

The Trump Admin Demands Returning To Office

Profile Of The 2023 Workforce

Rights Under the ADA Explained - ACLU

Signs Of A Neurodivergent Inclusive Workplace - ADDitude Magazine

ADHD Accommodations At Work - The ADDA

The ADHD Guide To Asserting Yourself

Head Heart Hands Check-In Method

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You Don’t Lack “Follow Through” - Heidi Priebe, YouTube