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Your Utmost Life

Your Utmost Life

By: Misty Celli
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Do you feel invisible, overwhelmed, or disconnected from the woman you once were beyond your role as mom? You're not alone. Many women struggle with maintaining self-worth, finding balance, and rediscovering joy while taking care of everyone else.


Your Utmost Life offers practical tools and transformative strategies to help you reclaim your identity, rebuild your confidence, and create a life that excites and fulfills you. Each week, Misty guides you through actionable topics like self-discovery, personal growth, boundary setting, time management, relationship transformation, and purposeful living.


Because you're not just a mom—you're a woman with untapped potential, waiting to live your utmost life.

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Episodes
  • Ghost in Your Own Home? It's Not What You Think
    Jun 26 2025

    Who You Are Never Disappeared (She's Just Been Waiting) - The Message I Wish Someone Had Told Me

    Do you feel invisible in your own life—like you're only seen when someone needs something from you? If you're a mom experiencing that overwhelming sense of being lost in the endless cycle of caring for everyone else, this deeply vulnerable episode will show you that feeling invisible isn't a character flaw but a signal that something needs to change.

    Join host Misty Chelley as she shares her most personal story yet: the moment she stood in her kitchen and realized she had become a ghost in her own life. "If I disappeared right now," she wondered, "how long would it take anyone to notice I was gone—not what I do for them, but who I am as a person?" This raw revelation exposed how she'd trained herself to take up as little space as possible, becoming invisible even to herself.

    When you feel invisible, it's often because you've lost touch with who you are outside of what you do for other people. Research shows that women who primarily identify through caregiving roles experience "identity foreclosure"—we build our entire sense of self around being needed, then feel lost when that dynamic shifts. But here's the truth: you don't have to stay invisible.

    In this transformative episode, you'll discover:

    • Why so many moms feel invisible and disconnected from their true selves
    • The three devastating lies we tell ourselves that keep us trapped in invisibility
    • How "This is just how life is when you're a mom" became the biggest myth stealing women's identities
    • Why feeling guilty for wanting more is actually a sign you're ready to change
    • The exact moment Misty's journey shifted and how to recognize your own turning point
    • A simple but powerful practice for reconnecting with who you are beneath all the roles
    • Why it's never too late to step out of invisibility and into your next chapter

    Key insights for women who feel invisible:

    • Understanding why you feel invisible isn't about being ungrateful or selfish
    • How to stop being defined solely by your function as a caregiver
    • Breaking free from inherited thoughts that keep you small and unseen
    • The difference between performing happiness and actually living it
    • Why taking up space in conversations leads to taking up space in your life
    • How to challenge the voice that tells you nobody wants to hear what you have to say

    This episode is essential listening for any woman who has ever wondered when she became the supporting character in her own story. Whether you feel invisible to your family, your friends, or most importantly, to yourself, this conversation will remind you that the woman you used to be—with dreams, passions, and opinions that matter—never actually disappeared. She's just been waiting patiently for you to remember she exists.

    Stop feeling invisible and start reclaiming your identity. Download Misty's free guide, 10 Signs You're Ready to Create Your Next Chapter, at yourutmostself.com/nextchapter and join thousands of women who are learning they don't have to stay invisible anymore.

    Your voice matters, your dreams matter, and you matter. It's time to stop being a ghost in your own life and start being seen—beginning with seeing yourself.

    📲 Share this episode with a friend who needs to know she’s not broken—just buried. Let her know she’s not alone.

    🔗 Follow along on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes heart-to-hearts: @yourutmostself

    🎧 Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss a conversation that reminds you who you are.

    Continue your journey at Your Utmost Self - free resources, articles, and more.

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    17 mins
  • From Invisible to Invincible
    Jun 23 2025

    Who You Are Never Disappeared (She's Just Been Waiting) - The Message I Wish Someone Had Told Me

    Do you ever feel like a ghost in your own life—visible only when someone needs something from you? If you're struggling with that overwhelming sense of disconnection from who you truly are, this deeply personal episode will help you understand you're not alone and it's not something you have to accept as "just part of being a mom."

    Join host Misty Chelley as she shares the raw moment standing in her kitchen when she realized: "If I disappeared, would anyone notice ME—not what I do, but who I am?" This jarring revelation showed how she'd become defined solely by her function, seamlessly woven into the background as the woman who makes everything work. She'd become invisible to herself.

    Research confirms this experience is common—women who primarily identify through caregiving roles experience what researchers call "identity foreclosure" during midlife transitions. This isn't a midlife crisis; it's an identity crisis. And there's a way through.

    In this transformative episode, you'll discover:

    • The three destructive lies that keep us trapped in cycles of invisibility and how to break free from them
    • Why "This is just how life is when you're a mom" is a myth—motherhood doesn't require self-erasure
    • How gratitude without action becomes just another form of resignation
    • Why taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's sustainable and necessary
    • The simple practice that transformed everything: paying attention to your thoughts about yourself
    • How small changes create ripple effects that reclaim your entire identity
    • Why the restlessness you feel isn't a problem to fix but your soul telling you you're ready for your next chapter

    Key topics covered:

    • Rediscovering your identity beyond caregiving roles
    • Overcoming feeling invisible in your own life
    • Understanding identity foreclosure and midlife transitions
    • Breaking free from inherited thoughts that keep you small
    • Practical steps for reconnecting with who you are
    • Creating your next chapter without starting over
    • The difference between selfishness and sustainable self-care

    Whether you're wondering "who am I anymore?" or feeling guilty for wanting more than just being someone's everything, this conversation will remind you that who you are never disappeared—she's just been waiting for you to notice her again. You're not too late; you're right on time.

    Ready to reclaim your identity? Grab Misty's free guide, 10 Signs You're Ready to Create Your Next Chapter, at yourutmostself.com/nextchapter and join thousands of women who are remembering they matter too.

    Remember: You are not alone, you are not broken, and your story isn't over—the best chapters are yet to be written.

    📲 Share this episode with a friend who needs to know she’s not broken—just buried. Let her know she’s not alone.

    🔗 Follow along on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes heart-to-hearts: @yourutmostself

    🎧 Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss a conversation that reminds you who you are.

    Continue your journey at Your Utmost Self - free resources, articles, and more.

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    17 mins
  • Why 'Finding Yourself' After Motherhood is Actually Impossible
    Jun 16 2025

    I spent three years desperately trying to 'find myself' and ended up feeling more lost than ever. Sound familiar?

    If you've been following all the advice to discover your passion, try new hobbies, or reinvent yourself after motherhood—and you're STILL feeling disconnected—this episode will change everything.

    Here's the truth no one's telling you: You can't find what was never lost.

    That exhaustion you feel from constantly searching? It's because you've been treating yourself like a stranger you need to meet, instead of a friend you need to reconnect with.

    In this episode, you'll discover:

    • Why the entire 'find yourself' industry has it backwards (and why this keeps you stuck)
    • The moment everything shifted for me—sitting in my car after another failed attempt to become someone new
    • Three simple techniques you can use THIS WEEK to reconnect with who you really are
    • How to do this in just 5 minutes a day without adding overwhelm to your life
    • Why your kids actually feel MORE secure when you know who you are

    Your sense of humor, your values, your way of seeing the world—they didn't disappear when you became a mom. They're just buried.

    And buried things? They can be uncovered.

    Stop searching for the new you. It's time to come home to the real you who's been there all along.

    📲 Share this episode with a friend who needs to know she’s not broken—just buried. Let her know she’s not alone.

    🔗 Follow along on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes heart-to-hearts: @yourutmostself

    🎧 Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss a conversation that reminds you who you are.

    Continue your journey at Your Utmost Self - free resources, articles, and more.

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    11 mins
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