gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show

By: Steve Bennet-Martin
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  • Summary

  • gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.

    If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero!

    This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone.

    This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts.

    Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives:

    · How do I get and stay sober in the queer community?

    · Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer?

    · What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like?

    · Where do sober gay and queer people hang out?

    · How can I have good sex sober?

    · What are tips and tricks for early sobriety?

    · How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery?

    · How will my life change if I get sober?

    · Can you be queer and sober and happy?

    · How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?
    © 2024 gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
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  • Steve on RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay!

    Steve on RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay!
    Nov 21 2024

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    Check out my guest appearance on RealClearTalk this week, and check out the show wherever you find this podcast!!

    Show notes from the episode:

    Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show.
    Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy, and sober life.
    He is forever grateful for his sober family, his podcasting community, and kinksters like you!
    #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay
    Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]
    Instagram: @gayapodcast
    Instagram: @juststevesrq
    All podcast platforms:
    gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
    #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay
    Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]
    Recorded on 17th October 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:
    https://youtu.be/Q0aY-8QvW6U
    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    54 mins
  • Stay Connected, Stay Sober ft. Richard D

    Stay Connected, Stay Sober ft. Richard D
    Nov 14 2024

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    In this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, host Sober Steve welcomes Richard Dean, a fellow sober friend, to share his inspiring journey through addiction, recovery, and the exploration of codependence. Richard opens up about the challenges he faced in early sobriety, the lessons he learned from relapse, and the powerful transformation he experienced through programs like Alcoholics Anonymous and Codependents Anonymous. Together, they discuss the unique aspects of queer sobriety, the importance of finding balance in relationships, and the pivotal role of fellowship in maintaining sobriety.

    Topics Covered:

    • Richard’s journey from addiction to recovery, including relapses and the turning points that inspired lasting change.
    • Navigating queer identity in sobriety and the importance of community connection.
    • The impact of codependency in relationships and how Codependents Anonymous helped Richard find balance.
    • Staying close to program practices, the role of daily routines, and how meditation, prayer, and fellowship play into Richard’s recovery.
    • Richard’s advice on staying connected and finding joy in the present, along with embracing authenticity and freedom in life.

    What's Next? Hear the full episode to dive into Richard’s story and gain valuable insights into navigating recovery and codependence as part of the queer sober community. Make sure to follow Gay A on your favorite podcast platform to catch new episodes every Thursday!

    Follow Richard Dean: Instagram: @richarddean326

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  • Blank Spaces, Brave Faces, and Swift Steps ft. Julianne Griffin

    Blank Spaces, Brave Faces, and Swift Steps ft. Julianne Griffin
    Nov 7 2024

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    In this episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, Sober Steve welcomes back Julianne Griffin, aka Jewels, the founder of Swift Steps—a unique sober community for Swifties in recovery. They dive deep into the therapeutic power of journaling, finding balance in sobriety, and the challenges of staying accountable in recovery. Jules shares how the love for Taylor Swift’s music, lyrics, and journey has become a powerful anchor for Swift Steps members to connect, support each other, and grow.

    What’s Covered in This Episode:

    • Swift Steps 101: For those unfamiliar with Swift Steps, Jules provides an overview of this inspiring recovery community for Swifties.
    • Journaling with Taylor: Discover how the Swift Steps course, Blank Spaces and Brave Faces, uses Taylor Swift's music and lyrics as a journaling framework, encouraging members to explore their recovery journeys, release shame, and embrace self-compassion.
    • Personal Growth and Accountability: Jules reflects on the challenges of showing up for herself, balancing self-care with the demands of community leadership, and the importance of support networks in recovery.
    • Navigating Family Triggers: From co-dependency to challenging family relationships, Jules opens up about the struggles of setting boundaries and seeking personal growth within recovery.
    • The Power of Swift Steps Community: Hear how Swift Steps members inspire each other, keep each other accountable, and bring a shared purpose that continues to enrich Jules’ own journey in sobriety.

    What’s Next?
    Curious to learn more about Swift Steps or join this vibrant community? Head over to their social media @swiftsteps13 or check out swiftsteps.org to join the mailing list and receive all the details.

    Tune in for insights, laughs, and a whole lot of Taylor-inspired recovery wisdom, and don’t forget to hit "follow" so you never miss an episode of gAy A! 🌈✨

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Made a different for me

I’m returning to a sober lifestyle after 2 years trying to make it work. Being gay in the south in my 30s, I’ve found that feeling welcome and connected was tough. Having this podcast and relating to so many in my community that suffer from my disease has really made me have hope again, be excited about my journey, and feel connected. Thank you Steve

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