this is balance to me; allowing myself to be comfortable AND uncomfortable, allowing the masculine in my softness to knock you out if you aren't respecting my words, allowing my feminine to just not care about what i do not respect from hurtful energy, allowing myself to be freely and protecting my peace.

Do you hear me? PROTECT YOUR PEACE.

It's not so serious! It makes sense to me to turn my pretty little rings and gems towards a physical advance I do not want because I'll show them what a pretty feminine like me will not accept. I don't normalize violence, but I do normalize the attention that softness deserves. Softness is not weak, frail, nor fragile. Softness is a person with layers and layers and layers of protection, so let that fist land, let them talk, let them know the power it takes to be soft.

My kitty girls, it is hot when we can love freely and detach freely, allow that masculine within you to show up for you, knowing it doesn't make you any less feminine, yet it shows your BALANCE. I encourage feminines to learn to scrap, learn to walk away, and learn to enjoy their lives feeling secure. Whatever this means for ANYONE, not just people with dominant feminine energy, I encourage your peace to be safe. That starts with you, that starts with giving yourself the care and compassion you've always deserved because that is how worthy YOU are of it.

Allow yourself to show up to sweeten or to sour, don't let them tell you what it is they cannot control because those feelings are there to tell you more about the situation and whether or not it is aligned with you.

If that's someone crying home to mommy because the pretty soul that loves nature, animals, and silk was put in a position to show their claws?!?!?! SO BE IT.

Not your responsibility when you voice your boundaries; they either respect them or get sat outside of them.

i love you!

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there is balance, and we can remain compassionate and understanding for others without walls by taking accountability, having self-awareness, and trusting ourselves more than other's opinions on what the truth really is. muah, also, call me in, put me in the ringer, i love flaunting my new gel set or manicure!