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Dr. Juli Slattery
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Is ______ok in the bedroom?
If I'm single, how far is too far?
How do I get past my shame?
Whether you are married or single, having great sex or no sex, your sexuality is inseparable from your spirituality. Sadly, most churches are silent on the subject.
Dr. Juli Slattery is breaking the silence.
In 25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask about Love, Sex, and Intimacy, she tackles the most common and critical questions women ask her about sexuality, like:
- What if I don't like sex?
- Can I be single and sexual?
- Is masturbation a sin?
- How do I make time to make love?
- What if I want sex more than my husband does?
Candid, wise, and practically minded, Dr. Slattery addresses matters like sexual abuse, pornography, betrayal in marriage, intimacy in the bedroom, singleness, and more, calling women to think biblically about all areas of their sexuality.
Find answers to your questions, liberation from your fears, and freedom to explore God's good gifts of love, sex, and intimacy.
©2015 Dr. Juli Slattery (P)2016 Dr. Juli SlatteryListeners also enjoyed...
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- Hannah Sullivan
- 08-09-18
Lots of Questions answered
as a Christian woman I was struggling in my view of sexuality and how that related to my walk with God. I had been inundated with purity culture growing up, and as a result felt lots of unwarranted sex shame and dirtiness in my sex life, even as a married woman. Just hearing these questions talked about out loud have helped me start my journey of healing.
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- Kendra Nason
- 10-31-16
Every woman should know these truths!
Loved the truths demonstrated in this book. Really touched on things I had thought about but didn't know what was right.
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- K.Vance
- 01-20-21
Much needed and right on time
I really enjoyed this book, it was right on time for me. I learned a lot. It helped me to see what intimacy looks like to my husband.
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- Lois
- 08-19-17
Best book on sex
Although I guess most books on sex are intriguing, this book is deep, rounded, and multi-dimensional. It is from a Christian perspective, but is far from legalistic or glibly trite. Juli quickly moves from author to genuine friend and says what is "unsayable" in many circles. I liked the tone she used--as if the reader is intelligent and worthy of respect. For follow-up, she mentioned having a website which I am anxious to visit.
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- Donna Guider
- 10-25-18
Wow, Great and Relavant!!
I attended a conference with Juli Slattery, this book, her content and ministry are awesome. She addressed many hard topics with detail and grace. I highly recommend this book! Narrator was amazing.
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- Jena
- 02-15-22
Give it a Listen
I like her approach and what the author had to say in regards to sex before marriage to the topic of masturbation. Those were topics that I struggled with and because of a lot of Christian culture and teachings I feared sex and things of that nature. This book shines Biblical application to those topics and brings words of comfort.
Don’t get me wrong, we live in a sinful world and struggle between the flesh and the spirit. There are things my flesh wants to do that my spirit does not agree with. Although I may hear things that disagree with my flesh, I must listen to the spirit that seeks to please God.
I hope and pray that this book helps you find answers to the questions you might have.
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- Cecilia
- 02-21-18
Wisdom of Love, Sex, and intimacy.
I am not really known for reading but this book was very well put easy to understand and answered great questions about the topics.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-18-23
Great book!!!
This book is inspiring, informative and answers all of the tough intimacy questions!!
Greatly recommend to all of my girlfriends ♥️
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- Sunflower seed
- 09-02-21
Judgemental bullshit
This book is for Christians who are narrow minded. It’s not even about sex it’s just about how you must do what god says in the Bible in a dictatorship way.
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