
The Complete Mistress Manual
The Ultimate Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $6.95
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Audrey Lusk
-
By:
-
Mistress Dede
About this listen
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, and you start to get some ideas that you want to try on your man. As women, we have all been there, but being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man. The idea of being a dominatrix is often seen as a sexual and social taboo, and many women are afraid of what society would say, what our family and friends would think, and in general, we feel that it isn't the position of a woman to take the stance of power and control. Women are seen naturally as the weaker sex, the one to be protected by a man, and the man in the relationship is often seen to be in control, the leader, the strong and dominant one. Social norms often dictate how we feel about ourselves, and sometimes, it can hinder who we really are inside.
Take heed, ladies. We are women. We are strong. We are powerful. We are fierce. We are romantic. We are dynamic. We are caring. We are fighters. We are lovers. We are women!
This manual will give you an inside look on what being a Mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a Mistress. Being a Mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go. It will give you insight into a new you, the one who has been trapped behind the social norms for far too long.
Ladies, welcome your inner Mistress!
©2015 Mistress Dede (P)2015 Mistress DedeListeners also enjoyed...
-
The Dominatrix Manual
- A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, and that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, you'll start to get some ideas that you'd like to try on your man. As women, we have all been there. But being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man.
-
-
Not what I was looking for
- By Anna M on 11-12-16
By: Mistress Dede
-
The Mistress Manual
- The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Lorelei Powers
- Narrated by: Elizabeth Hart
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, the classic is available once more, in an updated new edition.
-
-
Insight on Pleasure and Pain 🎭
- By Mandymay💄👠👛 on 07-16-17
-
The Mistress Manual Part III
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This manual will give you an inside look on what being a mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a mistress. Being a mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go.
By: Mistress Dede
-
Feminization: Affirmations for Sissy Boys by Mistress Dede
- Male to Female Transformation
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Male to female transformation has always been somewhat of a confusing subject. Yet, for those men who are embarking on a feminization journey or those who embrace feminization fantasies, the need for this transformation is very real. I believe that you should have the tools at your disposal to accomplish your goals and realize your dreams. That’s why I wrote this book.
-
-
I'm Blossoming So Beautifully
- By SissyGurl on 02-08-15
By: Mistress Dede
-
The Mistress Manual, Part II
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This manual will give you an inside look on what being a mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a mistress. Being a mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It's a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It's a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go.
-
-
Dumb voice, over the top. They keep telling what a mistress is not. Absolutely no substance. Disappointed.
- By Bethanie on 11-18-15
By: Mistress Dede
-
Female Dominatrix Manual for Beginners
- Sissy Boy Feminization Training
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you usually aggressive in the bedroom? Ever considered becoming a dominatrix? Do you want to really feel the thrill of dominating a man in the bedroom? Have you ever considered making a living out of it? Or maybe you have always been submissive and would like to take control? This book is your complete guide to female dominance.
-
-
Garbage
- By Asha Ember on 05-23-19
By: Mistress Dede
-
The Dominatrix Manual
- A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, and that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, you'll start to get some ideas that you'd like to try on your man. As women, we have all been there. But being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man.
-
-
Not what I was looking for
- By Anna M on 11-12-16
By: Mistress Dede
-
The Mistress Manual
- The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Lorelei Powers
- Narrated by: Elizabeth Hart
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, the classic is available once more, in an updated new edition.
-
-
Insight on Pleasure and Pain 🎭
- By Mandymay💄👠👛 on 07-16-17
-
The Mistress Manual Part III
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This manual will give you an inside look on what being a mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a mistress. Being a mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go.
By: Mistress Dede
-
Feminization: Affirmations for Sissy Boys by Mistress Dede
- Male to Female Transformation
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Male to female transformation has always been somewhat of a confusing subject. Yet, for those men who are embarking on a feminization journey or those who embrace feminization fantasies, the need for this transformation is very real. I believe that you should have the tools at your disposal to accomplish your goals and realize your dreams. That’s why I wrote this book.
-
-
I'm Blossoming So Beautifully
- By SissyGurl on 02-08-15
By: Mistress Dede
-
The Mistress Manual, Part II
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This manual will give you an inside look on what being a mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a mistress. Being a mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It's a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It's a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go.
-
-
Dumb voice, over the top. They keep telling what a mistress is not. Absolutely no substance. Disappointed.
- By Bethanie on 11-18-15
By: Mistress Dede
-
Female Dominatrix Manual for Beginners
- Sissy Boy Feminization Training
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Audrey Lusk
- Length: 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you usually aggressive in the bedroom? Ever considered becoming a dominatrix? Do you want to really feel the thrill of dominating a man in the bedroom? Have you ever considered making a living out of it? Or maybe you have always been submissive and would like to take control? This book is your complete guide to female dominance.
-
-
Garbage
- By Asha Ember on 05-23-19
By: Mistress Dede
-
Bow Down
- Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want
- By: Lindsay Goldwert
- Narrated by: Lisa Flanagan, Linsday Goldwert - introduction
- Length: 7 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Imagine a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize - and enjoy - control. This is the quickly-mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) - and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Popular podcaster and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert has traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture. In Bow Down, these Alpha women show how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want.
-
-
Not a book on the BDSM lifestyle
- By Gary Haddock on 06-03-21
By: Lindsay Goldwert
-
Ho Tactics
- How to MindF**k a Man into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring
- By: G. L. Lambert
- Narrated by: Patrick Stevens
- Length: 9 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I have discovered a group of women who refuse to be exploited, are immune to manipulation, and who never settle in the name of love. These ladies know what they want and take what they want by beating men at their own game. Utilizing the secrets exposed in this book, these women gain power, money, and status. Men call them gold diggers, women call them hos, but they call themselves winners. This is the book that society doesn't want you to listen to….
-
-
I spent $24,000 in 4 months
- By B.M. on 10-06-18
By: G. L. Lambert
-
Female Led Relationship Guide
- How to Be a Femdom and Have the Perfect Female Domination Domestic Discipline Marriage or Relationship
- By: Conner Hayden
- Narrated by: Ali Rizvi
- Length: 3 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The number one thing men secretly desire of women, yet typically won’t admit it. Are you the one who likes to be in control, especially when it comes to making decisions for you and your partner? Because women are quickly becoming more and more aware of the influence they can have on the world and thus breaking out of their shells, female led relationships are becoming increasingly popular in today’s modern times, and for a good reason.
-
-
don't need to hear this mansplaining
- By bandaid831 on 06-21-21
By: Conner Hayden
-
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
- By: Lucy Fairbourne
- Narrated by: Tabitha Honeywood
- Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Male chastity: The practice of securing a consenting adult male by means of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent. Keyholder: The one who holds the above male’s key.
-
-
Excellent Insight
- By Drew on 01-05-24
By: Lucy Fairbourne
-
Surrender, Submit, Serve Her
- The Definitive Guide to Enacting Female Leadership and Embracing the Female Dominated Household
- By: Key Barrett MSc
- Narrated by: Wendy Tremont King
- Length: 4 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What is "Female Leadership?" It's accepting that "She knows best" in all matters. From the finances to the household to how things get done. It's trusting in her judgement to run things. This doesn't make the man weak, just the opposite, because men are the best at "getting things done."
-
-
I found this book to be rather enlightening
- By Fatmanonabike on 05-24-22
By: Key Barrett MSc
-
Existential Kink
- Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't
- By: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Narrated by: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality - the “other,” the shadow side - is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impulses - our “existential kink.” Our existential kink also drives the dark or negative repeating patterns in our life: always choosing the abusive partner or boss, settling for less, thinking that we’re undeserving, not worthy. But it also is the source of our greatest power.
-
-
Personal Experience Based Pseudoscience
- By The Humble Housewife on 11-02-21
What listeners say about The Complete Mistress Manual
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- busy1
- 11-23-16
Look it up on Wikipedia
I am not sure what I was expecting exactly but i was definitely hoping for something more than a lengthy definition of what a mistress is. I could have looked that one up on Wikipedia. So disappointed I was really hoping for something a little more fun.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
2 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- HPatt
- 11-07-21
Superficial and sickeningly sweet
The narrator sounds like she is speaking to little children .There are many better books on the topic
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Kyle G.
- 04-18-17
Great information for a beginner
I really enjoyed the flow of this book. It's empowering message was just what I needed.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
1 person found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Sarah
- 07-26-19
Hncredibly boring and heteronormative
Spends forever undermining women and stating that we're naturally submissive. It feels a lot like someone who negs you first then gives you advice. Gee thanks, thanks for telling me it's so unnatural for me to be dominant. How boring.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Charlie Dubou
- 04-10-21
Do You Want to be a Mistress, but.....
...you've never heard of a dildo and need a break down on sex toys and lubes? Then this book is for you. You'll find it is also a great white elephant gift for the jocular church-going woman who likes to hide her staid reality with a patina of modernity. She'll most appreciate the breathy vocal performance that varies between comedy and kindergarten teacher.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
1 person found this helpful