The Dominatrix Manual
A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
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Audrey Lusk
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Mistress Dede
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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, and that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, you'll start to get some ideas that you'd like to try on your man. As women, we have all been there. But being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man. The idea of being a dominatrix is often seen as a sexual and social taboo. Many women are afraid of what society would say, what our family and friends would think, and in general we feel that it isn't the position of a woman to take the stance of power and control. Women are seen naturally as the weaker sex, the one to be protected by men, and the man in the relationship is often seen to be the leader. Social norms often dictate how we feel about ourselves, and sometimes it can hinder who we really are inside.
Take heed, ladies. We are women. We are strong. We are powerful. We are fierce. We are romantic. We are dynamic. We are caring. We are fighters. We are lovers. We are women!
This manual will give you an inside look on what being a mistress is really all about, and will give you insight on how to be a mistress. Being a mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner in which you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go. It will give you insight into a new you, the one that has been trapped behind the social norms for far too long.
Ladies, welcome your inner mistress!
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- Tony (Leia)
- 03-05-20
Desperately incubating well the children must check every hour.
I am a wher’oman, Working to fix a CD birth and all those other fun parts since six years ago adjusting from life since 10 years old. That said I definitely would have wrote a review much much sooner but your writings and those similar to them help me so much in learning myself and releasing the bonds that kept me from becoming aware that I existed and so I can very easily imagine finding some state of settlement whatever that would mean of course job is never done however I can see myself quite studiously explaining how the psychological effects of my confidence word kept in good health due to him the strength of direction and the sensibility loving the neighbor and caring about others as a matter of caring about yourself so as not to take anything away from yourself by hurting someone that you yourself enjoy their company and in that I see love I’ll be at love for yourself it is certainly felt by those around you and so I did put three stars and overall although I could’ve put six I didn’t know which way to go the reasoning for the three stars I’m gonna go ahead and put five but I’m just going to mention this then was the very intelligent and in mature way that traumas of our youth were prioritized to be protected and placed back where we keep those dramas in that it’s less intrusive and at the very least identifies something that to people who care about each other I will run headlong into anyway so I was respecting that however I just am trying to minimize very dominant personality that of its remnants maintains a constant sentry position in my security as well as I am my ability to take risks engaging the safety and him validity of the rest whether I’m escaping reality or I am experiencing life I think you and I will be looking at some of your books and I daydream about being in the cabinet although the sissy boy kind of rubs me the wrong energy and so I stick this essay and so I’d like to do I already ordered whatever however many psychological levels you can go but the sister and however if as in some of the very exotic porn clips they refer to women as faggots or fags as it were in the light of those intimate romantic wild times and so that for whatever reason is in politics it can be lies to alleviate insecurities so I may take at those of you yours that I had deemed as possible energies that would be in touch addition to my efforts and as I struggle so great way with unnecessary desperation and sensitive lately it’s now thank you so much great book
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- aisbeforeyou
- 02-05-16
Same Book Different Title
This is the same book as The Mistress Manual 1, but does not specify that. it's inexpensive, but I still feel ripped off, I thought that it would have a different subject, I.e. professional dominatrix, as the title leads on(compared to Mistress), but its the same book under a different name
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- Lili
- 07-02-16
this "guide" sucked
everything on here is common sense
the narrator sounds like she's taking a good dump
the whole time
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- full figured woman
- 12-04-15
great help flight information enjoyed it very much
need help to find out if you're a mistress read it will be able to find I enjoyed is very much
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- Anna M
- 11-12-16
Not what I was looking for
I'm looking for the mindset of a dominatrix or how to embody her.
What does she do that makes her so desirable.
How do you create the self confidence.
Other than that, the book was pretty basic and probably better for very timid women
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