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Keep looking at all the successes - it’s still a life and love in progress

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Reviewed: 03-05-25

Years ago as a young musician performing holiday music for residents in a nursing home, I had the experience of being violently screamed at and physically threatened by an elderly man. Caregivers quickly intervened to soothe his distress and explained to me that he was suffering from dementia. From their understanding, he'd never been a violent person and aside from these periodic outbursts, was considered kind, loving, and non-violent. The disparity between who he appeared to be in that moment and who he had been made me curious about how dementia (and aging, in general) affected those on both sides... the individual and those they love as well as the loving ones that provide for their care. At the time, all pathways of that mental exploration seemed to lead to loss, heartache, and fear of the future.

"The Nurse" helped me to undertand that the heart and mind could be opened to new ways of navigating change, that it is still a life and love in progress, and how important it is to "keep looking at all the successes still occurring." Those lessons apply whether dementia is involved or not and since I need the reminder, I'm already listening again.

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Exquisite

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Reviewed: 08-23-20

Beyond the title, I cannot define or describe what I have just heard. By curiosity, accident, or recommendation you got this far...bring your spirit trumpet.

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