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Skip. Read Hobbes and Locke instead.

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3 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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1 out of 5 stars

Reviewed: 11-09-23

This guy is supposed to be one of the main three social contract theorists alongside Locke and Hobbes. But, now I understand why nobody can seem to explain his viewpoints in online lectures. They’re complete nonsense. Circular logic the whole way through.

His idea that everybody should belong to everybody else was played out to it’s fullest in a Brave New World by Alexander Huxley. What a horrible idea. Feels like another bedrock of socialism.

One good line, “man is born free and yet everywhere he is in chains” Amen to that brother.

*caveat I did not read the whole book. Maybe like 5 chapters? That was enough for me to understand the thesis, which is pure bullshit. Go read Hobbes and then Locke. Much better source material.

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Lessons about Tact

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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Reviewed: 08-19-23

I wouldn’t be surprised if the author had a background in intelligence. This is the ONLY book I’ve ever read that includes practical lessons regarding tact.

“You’ve been resisting for so long, I don’t think you know how to stop”

And then at one point the main character says something like, “if I continue pushing the subject he’ll get suspicious. For now, I’ve planted the seed so that when I broach the subject later he’ll think what I want him to think.”

“Better to wait”

These aren’t direct quotes. They’re from memory. But, for me, a person with no tact whatsoever, these are invaluable lessons on how, when, and why someone might want to function with a bit more subtlety.

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Love the spectrum

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5 out of 5 stars
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Reviewed: 05-17-23

Dr. Malkin talks about how narcissism is a spectrum and too little narcissism is just as bad as too much. I agree. In a way, the book gave me permission to enjoy public speaking and to continue having the desire to be an influencer. While, at the same time, it provided me guidance on how to avoid harming others with my desire to feel special. We’re all special. And I can be special in my own way without stealing the spotlight or putting someone else down to retain my need to be special. I can allow other people to hold the spotlight and be special without it ruining my self image.

I’m not an extreme narcissist, but I would say my narcissistic traits are higher than normal. I’d probably be a 7 on his scale. I’m not quite healthy. I still have things to work on. But, I was grateful Dr. Malkin didn’t say that all narcissism was bad. I was feeling like I needed to either throw caution to the wind and embrace being an extreme narcissist or give up my career aspirations as unhealthy fantasies. It’s nice to know that I can strive for a healthy medium and keep finding joy in my career goals without harming others.

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