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  • Barry Sonnenfeld, Call Your Mother

  • Memoirs of a Neurotic Filmmaker
  • By: Barry Sonnenfeld
  • Narrated by: Barry Sonnenfeld
  • Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (533 ratings)

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Barry Sonnenfeld, Call Your Mother

By: Barry Sonnenfeld
Narrated by: Barry Sonnenfeld
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Publisher's summary

This outrageous and hilarious memoir follows a film and television director’s life, from his idiosyncratic upbringing to his unexpected career as the director behind such huge film franchises as The Addams Family and Men in Black.

Barry Sonnenfeld's philosophy is, "Regret the Past. Fear the Present. Dread the Future." Told in his unmistakable voice, Barry Sonnenfeld, Call Your Mother is a laugh-out-loud memoir about coming of age. Constantly threatened with suicide by his over-protective mother, disillusioned by the father he worshiped, and abused by a demonic relative, Sonnenfeld somehow went on to become one of Hollywood's most successful producers and directors.

Written with poignant insight and real-life irony, the book follows Sonnenfeld from childhood as a French horn player through graduate film school at NYU, where he developed his talent for cinematography. His first job after graduating was shooting nine feature length pornos in nine days. From that humble entrée, he went on to form a friendship with the Coen Brothers, launching his career shooting their first three films.

Though Sonnenfeld had no ambition to direct, Scott Rudin convinced him to be the director of The Addams Family. It was a successful career move. He went on to direct many more films and television shows. Will Smith once joked that he wanted to take Sonnenfeld to Philadelphia public schools and say, "If this guy could end up as a successful film director on big budget films, anyone can." This book is a fascinating and hilarious roadmap for anyone who thinks they can't succeed in life because of a rough beginning.

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Critic reviews

"[Sonnenfeld's] moments of self-effacement...make him an ideal tour guide through the vagaries and hypocrisies of the entertainment industry.... He catalogs his own anxieties at length, sometimes to exorcise them and sometimes to fetishize them.... It is thrilling to ride shotgun."—David Itzkoff, The New York Times

"If I went to prison, and I saw that Barry Sonnenfeld was going to be my cellmate, I would think, 'Oh, this will be a breeze.'"—Jerry Seinfeld

"The extraordinary thing about Barry is how many truly strange and amazing chapters he's had in his life."—Neil Patrick Harris

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From french horn to Hollywood
"This title really speaks to me. Not only because Barry Sonnenfeld has directed some of the biggest comedies of the 90s and 2000s (The Addams Family, the Men in Black trilogy, and Get Shorty), but because I myself can recall at least half a dozen times in my childhood when an announcement came over a speaker system for me to call my mother followed by a deafening laughter from my peers that knocked me down a few spots in the social standings. There was this one time when it was raining at camp and I didn’t have any boots so—you know what, this isn’t about me. My point is, even though Barry Sonnenfeld has a legendary career in film and has worked with some of the biggest names in Hollywood, his story is proof that all of the embarrassing or terrifying or downright heartbreaking moments of our lives are what get us to where we’re supposed to be. Barry Sonnenfeld, Call Your Mother is exactly everything a good memoir should be."—Aaron S., Audible Editor

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Laughed, cried, laughed some more

As a southerner, I’ve never met a neurotic Jew. I wish I had. I loved this man, his story, his love story, his journey, and his friendships. God bless him for the childhood he endured but I am forever grateful for the adult that it produced. Barry is hilarious, kind, introspective, & brilliant. I’m pissed that his mother killed Jimmy Hendrix yet intrigued by her cooking techniques & drama. I will probably listen to this again as it is one of those pieces that you will catch something new each time. Thank you for your life, your struggle, your experience. Blessed to know you sir. Gracias
Thank you Kelly Ripa for suggesting this amazing read!

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So surprised he still has a sense of humor

This poor guy has certainly had an interesting life. After all his adventures its good to see that he can still enjoy life and smile. Great book.

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loved it!

This book is so funny, interesting, as well as touching. I really loved it!

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An Excellent Audiobook.

Being more than a bit neurotic myself, I really did enjoy this book. Frankly, I was sorry when it ended. Sonnenfeld is an engaging bundle of quirks and neuroses. And his narration made the book highly entertaining. Try it. You’ll like it!

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Hilarious, honest and inspiring

Plus, gets you out of the vortex of wondering what to watch tonight. Just watch something Sonnenfeld shot or directed and you’ll be happy.

Don’t be afraid to listen at 1.3x

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Brilliant, but for…

This was an extremely entertaining book with a lot of “inside baseball” Hollywood stories, and life lessons sprinkled throughout. I respect and delight in the tales of “Ba’s” professional candor (wont that I had ever had the intestinal fortitude to stand my ground in similar (corporate, non-film situations).

“Creative differences” here (not that I have any creativity whatsoever), but really wish (if it had to be part of the book) there’d been a “this next chapter is so stomach-churning that it will turn you off porn forever, and runs for the next xx minutes - you may want to skip it”, and similarly with the later chapter on CM the CM…though I had learned my lesson by that time and just skipped through most of the latter. I got it, a traumatic experience no one should EVER have go through. BTW, I don’t watch horror films either…

Mr Sonnenfeld is a phenomenal story teller, and his narration beyond perfect. I wish it had been longer; his story makes me realize how many truly fascinating people there are out in the world.

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Very similar mother, very many points in common

Borderline mothers...
This book could be an introduction to really getting in contact with what happened to many of us.
A very elevated sense of humor that you'll get after listening to the book; not a LOL but a series of painful chuckles throughout, with the overall sense that it helps, and the sure effect of sarcasm or laughter when it actually happens again (for those that still have their "mother" around).
I thank you, Barry.
Cristian Fernandez Falcon, San Antonio TX

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Terrific showbiz memoir of a very singular artist.

One of my favorite film directors has written a wonderful, painful, improbable and very, very funny memoir. Moving at a brisk pace with as many hair-raising twists and turns as his best movies, Barry Sonnenfeld, Call Your Mother is filled with rich details (and, in the case of the hilarious/cringeworthy porno chapter, too many details) about his childhood and his film career. As written, you feel like the whole book was written with a perfectly center framed wide angle lens, and Sonnenfeld himself reads his own words with his inimitable voice and his trademark dry, matter-of-fact wit. A must for fans of film and Hollywood lore, and particularly of Barry Sonnenfeld‘s work.

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Nothing important except read the book

When you read or when one has the luxury to read more than most you get opinions. You have opinions about why or what or how works or doesn’t work. Best reader important. Book and layered for anyone interested you get your money back because you can think you get something listen over and enjoy more not less

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The Kosher Cowboy Rides Again

What a fun read! As a fellow Jewish person, I felt like I was listening to stories told to me by a cool uncle. Barry Sonnenfeld has been involved in so many of my favorite films and television shows that I couldn’t pass up an opportunity to learn more about the stories behind the scenes. If you want to take a peek into Hollywood’s backstage through a neurotic and witty lens, this is the book for you.

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