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Psicóloga comportamental formada em Harvard e Diretora de Ciência do Relacionamento no aplicativo de namoro Hinge, Logan Ury vai ajudar você a buscar, construir e manter o relacionamento íntimo que deseja.
Um relacionamento saudável e duradouro não acontece num passe de mágica, mas é o resultado de uma série de decisões, incluindo onde procurar, o que esperar, quem namorar e quando se comprometer.
Apresentando um ótimo resumo do que a psicologia já sabe sobre nossos padrões de comportamento, Logan Ury mostra como podemos nos conhecer melhor e evitar os erros básicos que cometemos na busca do relacionamento que queremos construir.
Com base em seu vasto conhecimento e experiência, ela oferece ensinamentos práticos, estudos de casos, exercícios e testes para você identificar suas reais necessidades quando o assunto é amor e descobrir, entre outras coisas:
• O que impede você de encontrar a pessoa “certa” (e como quebrar esse padrão)
• O que realmente importa em um parceiro de longo prazo (e o que não importa)
• Como evitar expectativas irreais sobre como seu namoro deve ser (e como apreciá-lo pelo que ele é de verdade)
• Como superar as armadilhas dos aplicativos de namoro (e criar um perfil mais atraente e eficaz)
• Como tornar os encontros interessantes e promissores (e menos parecidos com uma entrevista de emprego)
• Como identificar um relacionamento que não tem futuro (e terminar da maneira mais suave possível)
• Como parar de esperar um conto de fadas e entender que o amor precisa ser cultivado de forma consciente todos os dias (e que a recompensa vale todo o esforço).
OBSERVAÇÃO: Quando comprar este título, o PDF que o acompanha estará disponível em sua Biblioteca Audible junto com o áudio.
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"Logan Ury reúne pesquisas sobre os erros que as pessoas cometem quando procuram o amor. Se você precisa mudar de perspectiva, leia este livro."–Lori Gottlieb, autora de Talvez você deva conversar com alguém
“Este livro nos lembra que encontrar e manter o amor não é um presente divino e misterioso, e sim uma habilidade que pode ser aprendida e praticada por todos nós.”–Alain de Botton, The School of Life
“Por que você não encontrou o amor? Este livro fala as verdades que seus amigos não falam. Com uma voz única que traz clareza, ação e resultados, Logan Ury oferece um guia definitivo para uma geração que navega nas águas turvas do amor moderno.”—ESTHER PEREL, autora de Sexo no cativeiro
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