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My Father's Wake

By: Kevin Toolis
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An intimate, lyrical look at the ancient rite of the Irish wake - and the Irish way of overcoming our fear of death

Death is a whisper for most of us. Instinctively we feel we should dim the lights, pull the curtains, and speak softly. But on a remote island off the coast of Ireland's County Mayo, death has a louder voice. Each day, along with reports of incoming Atlantic storms, the local radio runs a daily roll call of the recently departed. The islanders go in great numbers, young and old alike, to be with their dead. They keep vigil with the corpse and the bereaved company through the long hours of the night. They dig the grave with their own hands and carry the coffin on their own shoulders. The islanders cherish the dead - and amid the sorrow, they celebrate life, too.

In My Father's Wake, acclaimed author and award-winning filmmaker Kevin Toolis unforgettably describes his own father's wake and explores the wider history and significance of this ancient and eternal Irish ritual. Perhaps we, too, can all find a better way to deal with our mortality - by living and loving as the Irish do.

©2018 Kevin Toolis (P)2018 Hachette Audio Feel-Good Heartfelt Inspiring

Critic reviews

"A heartwarming and very personal account of a life well-lived." (Irish Times)

"The windswept Irish island of My Father's Wake is one of the final remote outposts of true death engagement in the Western world. Toolis's book is both memoir and anthropology, and serves as a refreshing counterpoint to the industrialized, for-profit death industry we've come to wrongly believe is our only option." (Caitlin Doughty, author of the New York Times best sellers Smoke Gets in Your Eyes and From Here to Eternity)

"A long meditation on death, dying, and our attitudes to mortality - our own and others'.... Toolis posits an acceptance of the inevitable which, while it does not banish the pain of grief, invests it with a resignation and a grace that is, in essence, healing and somehow life-affirming." (The Guardian)
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I purchased this book interested in the Irish Wake. I was unprepared for the graphic, gut-spilling descriptions of decapitating bodies and such. This author is a credible witness to the war torn horrific ways of cruel death. He walks his reader into places you would hopefully never be, yet you will be unable to erase the mental imagery of his experience and writing.. This book is well written and unfortunately will leave most readers disturbed with the knowledge that no matter how bad you imagine world suffering to be, it is worse.

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