
Reinvent Ideal
What to Do When You're Depressed & No One Cares Because You're Not a Chick
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Cairo Copeland
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Cairo Copeland
About this listen
Are you a man with a limited social/fun life?
Does it bother you how few people you can call "real" friends?
Do you wake up next to a woman you don't love and who doesn't love you?
Are you trapped in a job you hate because you have kids to pay for?
Or are you just afraid of becoming this guy?
Who Should Read
Men who are
- Tired of constantly giving to make others happy while no one does the same for him.
- Afraid that their social life will evaporate if they stop putting up the effort to keep it alive.
- In relationships often marred with drama.
- Tired of the advice "Happy wife, happy life," because it doesn't work.
Many guys wish their lives turned out to be like Kevin Hart's from "The Wedding Ringer", but many of them end up like Kevin Spacey in "American Beauty" at best or like Joaquin Phoenix in "Joker" at worst.
What went wrong in their lives? How do you fix it? How do you prevent it?
This is the missing manual to life as a male.
What if the advice you're told on how to live your life is outdated and will only make you miserable?
"Go to school, get good grades, so you can get a good job, so you can attract a 'quality' woman, so you can marry her and have kids."
Despite the evidence it doesn't work, it still gets pushed as the ideal to strive for.
It's time to reinvent what is the ideal life for a male.
In this book, you will discover how to:
- Improve or get out of a loveless relationship with a fat, unpleasant woman
- Rid yourself of the pressures to follow the expected script of your life to get married and sacrifice dreams for a woman
- Instantly become content with your life just by thinking
- Become the type of man that both women are attracted to and the world rewards
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- M.
- 03-12-25
Go Cairo!
the only regret I have about this body of work is that I did not have it some 20 to 30 years ago! Mr copeland, keep doing what you're doing, the revolution will not be televised!
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