
The Performing Heart
How to Escape the Trap of Relentless Performing and Enter the Security of God's Rest
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Alisa Daley
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Susan Bowman
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Are you tired of performing for acceptance? Sick of being an approval junkie and people pleaser? Exhausted from carrying everyone's burdens while ignoring your own needs? Sounds like you are ready for the freedom and rest found in The Performing Heart. Journey with Susan Bowman, minister of inner healing and deliverance, as she skillfully guides you on an exploration of the secrets hidden within your heart. You will discover the reasons behind performance-based behaviors and how to escape their grip. Step-by-step and prayerful instructions will gently lead you into God's promised rest. You can be free. You can rest.
©2023 Susan Bowman (P)2023 Susan BowmanListeners also enjoyed...
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Critic reviews
"This valuable and useful book is for those seeking emotional healing as well as for ministers wanting to add more tools to their belts. The last chapter teaches forgiveness in a way that is profound and accessible to those who struggle to forgive." (Kimberlee Herman, MSW, LCPC, best-selling author and Christian counselor, Phoenix, AZ)
"Insightful and practical, tough and tender, The Performing Heart offers a comprehensive roadmap to freedom." (Niamh Jackson, M.I.A.C.P., Dublin, Ireland)
"Read this life-changing book! Keep it close and use it on a regular basis. Allow God to free you from what is keeping you from entering His rest." (Rev. Lori Maxey, founder and executive director, The House Tuscaloosa, Tuscaloosa, AL)