
What to Do When He Won't Change
Saving Your Marriage When He Is Angry, Selfish, Unhappy, or Avoids You
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Jack Ito
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Has your partner become an angry, selfish, unhappy, or avoidant person?
Does he refuse to go to counseling or work on your relationship?
Would you like a way to make things better without having to end your relationship or threaten to?
In What To Do When He Won’t Change, you will learn the four major motivations that drive men’s behavior in relationships.
You can then use the down to earth examples and win-win interventions to work with your partner’s motivations rather than against them.
The result?
Faster change with less conflict.
For more than two decades, psychologist, relationship coach, and intervention specialist, Jack Ito PhD has been coaching people to save their “on the brink” relationships.
For the first time, you have a diagnostic quiz, checklists, and step by step examples for doing these interventions on your own.
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