In this episode, Tom and Adam explore what it truly means to evolve as a business owner—emotionally, mentally, and strategically. Starting with a nostalgic nod to Nas and how music takes on new meaning as you grow, they unpack the transformative journey of moving from being an accidental CEO to an intentional CEO.

They share candid stories and insights about how learning the “language” of business—just like learning a foreign language—requires immersion, repetition, and resilience. Whether you’re a solopreneur or scaling a company, the mindset shift from simply generating income to building a sustainable business is both confronting and empowering.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• Music & Perspective: How revisiting the lyrics of Nas through the lens of fatherhood and entrepreneurship reflects deeper truths about mindset and maturity.
• Hearing vs. Listening: Many entrepreneurs hear advice, but only listen when they’re ready. Growth phases dictate when lessons truly land.
• Business as a Language: Running a business is like learning a new language. When stress hits, most default back to their “native language” — old habits, fears, and limiting beliefs.
• No Such Thing as Timing: Growth isn’t about timing, it’s about readiness and translation. You’ve probably heard what you need before—it just didn’t click until now.
• Intensity Over Comfort: Too many new business owners get soft after early success. Adam reminds listeners: building a business requires relentless intensity and “violent” commitment.
• Celebrate, Then Move On: Wins and losses both require short-term memory. Be a “goldfish”—acknowledge it, then move forward with purpose.
• Vision and Intention: Success stems from a clear vision and intentional decisions. Your strategy must align with whether you’re building a lifestyle business or a scalable company.

💬 Notable Quotes:

“You don’t need to hear something new—you just need to hear it in a new way.” — Adam Hurd

“Stress makes you default to your native language. If that language is self-doubt or sabotage, you won’t grow your business.” — Tom Marino

“If you’re getting soft after a few wins, you’re in trouble. Business takes aggression and clarity every day.” — Adam Hurd

🚀 Resources Mentioned:

• 🎓 Accidental CEO Interactive Workshop – Join Tom & Adam live to work through your current business challenges and start learning the real language of leadership.
• Explore their brand-new, revamped website to learn more about the programs and mindset tools that help entrepreneurs thrive.

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Hosts: Tom Marino & Adam Hurd

Presented by: Atomic Business Coaching

🔍 Episode Summary:

Tom and Adam reveal how they—and many of their clients—became accidental CEOs: people who never planned to run a business but ended up building one. They share personal stories, client examples, and insights into how they coach entrepreneurs through chaos to clarity by focusing on both business strategy and personal growth.

🔑 Highlights:

• What is an Accidental CEO?

Skilled professionals who turn their craft into a business without realizing the full scope of being a CEO.

• The Dual Approach:

Adam focuses on business systems; Tom helps with mindset and personal development. Together, they support clients holistically.

• From Chaos to Clarity:

Most struggle due to lack of systems and self-awareness. Atomic helps simplify and stabilize both business and life.

• Mindset Shift Required:

Growth means becoming the person capable of running a successful, million-dollar business—not just building one.

• No More Band-Aids:

Clients often stack temporary fixes. Tom and Adam guide them to rebuild with solid foundations.

• You Can’t Do It Alone:

True growth comes with the right support—be it a partner, coach, or team.

• Health, Relationships & Harmony:

Success requires attention to physical health, relationships, and personal well-being—not just profits.

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Quote of the Episode:

“Becoming the CEO is not just about growing the business—it’s about growing you.”

In this heartfelt and empowering episode, Tom Marino and Adam Hurd dive deep into what it really means to face the end of one chapter—and how to embrace the beginning of the next. Using the emotional close of Tom’s son’s high school baseball season as a launching point, the duo draws profound parallels between sports, life, and entrepreneurship.

This episode explores how business owners often hit plateaus, experience burnout, or feel stuck after achieving a milestone. The key message: your “ending” is never the end—it’s the beginning of your next opportunity. Whether you’re shifting from solo operations to building a team or struggling with letting go of control, Tom and Adam offer a blueprint for sustainable growth, mindset transformation, and scaling through smart decisions and strategic help.

🧠 What You’ll Learn

• The Agony of Defeat as a Launchpad: Tom reflects on his son’s final school baseball game and relates the emotional weight of endings to the natural seasons of business ownership.
• Every Sales Call Is a New Beginning: Adam highlights how no one knows your past failures—each client interaction is a fresh start.
• From Skillset to CEO Mindset: Discover how most entrepreneurs start businesses based on one core skill and why scaling requires stepping beyond that initial comfort zone.
• Why C-Students Make Great CEOs: An unexpected insight into how knowing your limits and hiring the right people can be more powerful than trying to master everything.
• Revenue, Development, and Delegation: Learn the two primary roles of a CEO and how to structure your business for growth without burnout.
• Investment vs. Expense: Understand the mindset shift required to see hiring as a necessary investment, not a financial burden.
• The Power of Partnerships: Tom and Adam share how their complementary strengths created Atomic Business Coaching—and how others can build similar synergy.
• Mastermind Collaboration: A call to tap into the power of community, like their F1R$T M Club, where peer feedback and shared experiences fuel exponential growth.

🔥 Quote of the Episode

“Do you want to be a business owner—or did you just create a high-paying job for yourself?”

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In this powerful, no-nonsense episode, Tom and Adam pull back the curtain on the real reason behind all the business-building activities like podcasting, content creation, and networking. They tackle a question every entrepreneur eventually asks themselves: "Why am I doing all this?"

From social media posts to podcast episodes, newsletters, and networking events, this episode explores what actually moves the needle in business—and what doesn't. Spoiler alert: It’s not just about the content. It’s about consistency, connection, and authenticity.

Topics Covered

• The Real Role of Content in Business

o Why content is NOT your lead magnet but your trust library

o How it supports the buyer journey before and after the sale

o Why new content creators often mistake visibility for authority

• The Power of Intentional Networking

o Why meeting people must come before creating content

o How First M Club fosters genuine connection through purposeful questions

o The difference between performing at networking events vs. showing up authentically

• Building a Trustworthy Brand

o Why consistency across platforms and in-person interactions is essential

o How being the same person in all spaces builds long-term credibility

o The pitfalls of having “multiple brands” for different settings

• Newsletter Strategy That Works

o How providing value without selling builds top-of-mind awareness

o Why their newsletter is pitch-free—and more effective because of it

• Creating From Experience, Not Just Ideas

o Why content must come from real work and life experiences

o The fear of being “phony” in content and how to overcome it

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💬 Key Quotes

“Content supports your authority—it doesn’t create it.”

“Your first 100 pieces of content will suck. And that’s okay.”

“Consistency builds trust. And trust builds your business.”

“Networking is about being intentional. Help first. Always.”

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🤝 The First M Club

This episode is also a deep dive into the First M Club—a mastermind and networking community built for business owners striving for their first million. Tom and Adam break down:

• Why it’s different from traditional networking groups

• How it fosters authenticity and collaboration

• The intentional framework that makes it simple yet powerful

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🚀 Take Action

🎯 Ask yourself:

What’s your real intention when creating content or attending networking events?

If you don’t have one, start with this: “How can I help someone today?”

🌐 Explore First M Club:

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or join the community—online or in person on Long Island.

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If today’s episode resonated with you, share it with someone who’s grinding it out, wondering what the hell it’s all for. Help them find clarity, community, and purpose.

In this deeply insightful and candid episode, Tom and Adam explore the emotional and strategic challenges entrepreneurs face when standing at the threshold of “what’s next.” The conversation organically weaves through the realities of coaching, the trust-building process, how hesitation and fear block business moves, and why intuitive action is often more powerful than rigid planning.

They share how the First M Club is designed to support entrepreneurs navigating pivotal transitions, offering not just tactical advice but also emotional grounding and peer validation. You’ll hear real stories and reflections that will encourage you to listen more deeply to your intuition, embrace micro-movements over massive leaps, and most importantly, take that next step with confidence.

🗝️ Key Takeaways

1. Coaching Isn’t Always Linear—And That’s the Magic

• Real coaching happens when you meet people where they are, not just where your program is going.
• Listening and adjusting in real-time leads to more powerful breakthroughs than sticking to rigid agendas.

2. Emotional Baggage Delays Action

• Many entrepreneurs carry invisible weight—especially emotional burdens that were never released.
• Men in particular struggle with emotional release, which can delay business progress.

3. The Fishbone Approach to Root Cause Analysis

• Coaching is like a fishbone diagram: the “main spine” is the core goal, but all the smaller contributing factors (the “bones”) must be explored and resolved.
• This perspective allows clients to understand that seemingly unrelated issues are all connected to the larger goal.

4. The Fear of Messing Up Either Side

• Many clients delay their next move because they fear disrupting what’s working and fear failure with the new idea.
• The solution? Take small, intentional actions—“one more thing” at a time.

5. Business Moves Unlock Life Moves

• Most people wait for the business to improve before changing their life. But it’s often the other way around.
• Helping clients make incremental business moves can radically enhance their life quality.

6. Validation Comes from Community

• The First M Club provides a mastermind-like environment where people feel seen, heard, and validated.
• That validation builds trust—not just in others, but in themselves.

7. Trust Over Evidence

• High performers often seek evidence before acting, but many decisions must be based on intuition and trust.
• Action builds clarity. Clarity doesn’t always precede action.

8. You Already Know the Answer

• Clients often come knowing deep down what to do—they just need support, space, and permission to act.
• Success is not only about what you’re doing, but about who you are becoming.

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🛠️ Resources Mentioned

• Fishbone Diagram – A visual tool from quality management used for identifying root causes.
• PDSA Cycle – Plan, Do, Study, Act method for implementing small, strategic changes.

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💬 Memorable Quotes

“Information comes from action, not the other way around.”

“You don’t need a new idea—you need the courage to trust the one already inside you.”

“Coaching is the art of listening, not programming.”

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In a world full of change, how do we evolve with intention—and not get swept up in noise? In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, Tom Marino and Adam Thomas Hurd (yes, he’s officially using his full name now!) take you inside the journey of transformation that led to the launch of the First M Club.

They share how superficial networking and unintentional business moves are holding entrepreneurs back, and reveal the formula they’ve discovered for cultivating authentic relationships, real momentum, and sustainable growth. Whether you’re trying to reach your first million in revenue or just crave deeper connections with like-minded go-getters, this episode is for you.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why opportunity often follows change, but how to become ready for both.
• The morning meeting model: 3 powerful questions that unlock connection and collaboration.
• Why most communities fail—and how the First M Club is structured to stay small in execution but big in value.
• How intentional networking beats transactional encounters (and why it leads to better clients and collaborators).
• The mindset shift from chasing leads to attracting the right ones through service.
• Why authenticity, vulnerability, and shared experiences are the secret weapons to growth.
• How limiting beliefs and saboteurs like the restless saboteur block business potential—and what to do about it.
• Adam’s transition from “Adam Thomas” to “Adam Thomas Hurd” and what it symbolizes for the journey ahead.

Key Quotes:

“You have to start to change to see the opportunities.”

“It’s not about networking for the sake of networking—it’s about networking with intention.”

“A club thrives when people show up authentically and want to help each other.”

“We’re not building a community. We’re building a club—because clubs have standards and real connection.”

“I’m not excited. I’m nervous. And that means it matters.”

What Is the First M Club?

The First M Club is a private club for business owners and entrepreneurs working toward their first million dollars in revenue. Rooted in collaboration over competition, the club brings together small groups (8 or fewer) for meaningful networking, peer coaching, and real-time support. It’s about belonging, growth, and building business momentum—together.

You’ll be part of:

• Monthly Morning Meetings asking: What’s going right? What’s going wrong? What do you need help with?
• Targeted intentional networking sessions with immediate, actionable results.
• A vetted network of business owners serious about helping and supporting one another.
• A culture of service-first, where leads are attracted, not chased.

Resources & Mentions:

• Free Crash Course on improving networking, prospecting, and defeating limiting beliefs
• Success stories from Project 2740 and pilot members of the First M Club

Join the Movement:

If you’re done with empty networking and want to be part of a high-trust, high-impact environment, the First M Club may be your new business home.

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In this episode, Adam and Tom dive deep into the fogginess that entrepreneurs experience when they lose clarity in their businesses. They explore how to clear that fog — not with Benadryl, but with truth, intention, and aligned action. The conversation is a powerful reflection on the importance of letting go of excuses, embracing reality, and fully stepping into who you are right now, rather than waiting for the “perfect moment.”

🔑 Key Takeaways

🌫️ 1. Business Allergies and the Fog of Confusion

• Just like seasonal allergies, entrepreneurs often go through “foggy” seasons in business.
• Lack of clarity stems from resistance to change or trying to force solutions that don’t fit.
• The remedy? A dose of honest reflection and intentional action, not more noise or tactics.

🧭 2. Submit to Your Reality

• Success lies in recognizing what actually works for you, not what’s trending or “supposed to work.”
• Adam shares their journey of discovering that relationship-building, not advertising, is their strength.
• For many relationship-style businesses (like coaching or consulting), personal connection is the foundation, not flashy marketing.

❌ 3. Stop Making Excuses

• Excuses become self-imposed obstacles. The more you repeat them, the more you believe them.
• Instead of blaming external conditions, face the reality: if something isn’t working, fix it or change it.
• Tom emphasizes that success requires iteration, not perfection.

🔁 4. Shift From Have-Do-Be → Be-Do-Have

• Common mindset trap: “Once I have money, I’ll do more work, and then I’ll be successful.”
• New approach: “Be the productive, helpful person now, do the work, and you will have the results.”
• Flip the script — identity first, then action, then outcomes.

🔥 5. Be the Coach — Even Without the Client

• Waiting for sales before stepping into your role keeps you stuck.
• Don’t wait to be the coach, creator, or service provider — start being it now.
• Genuinely help people first; the business will follow naturally.

🧠 6. Set the Right Intention Based on Who You Are

• Intentions change based on the role you choose to embody: coach vs. salesperson.
• Focus on the main thing you want to be, even if you wear multiple hats.
• Your roles should serve your purpose — not distract from it.

🌟 7. Live and Express Your Purpose

• Tom shares how his life purpose (helping others live better lives) has stayed consistent, even as his roles have changed.
• Purpose fuels intention, and intention drives results.
• When you veer away from your purpose, you lose energy and clarity.

💬 Quote of the Episode

“Be your purpose. Because if you be your purpose, you will be the intention. You will be the result of everything that you're trying to do.” – Tom

🔄 Next Steps for Listeners

• Reflect: What role are you trying to be in your business right now?
• Identify: What excuses are keeping you stuck?
• Act: Choose one way you can be the person you want to become — today.

In this episode, Tom and Adam dive deep into what really makes sales happen — and it’s not just slick tactics or great networking. It’s about consistency, mindset, and mastering the simple selling system that turns casual conversations into paying clients.

You’ll hear stories from their 5WH program, real client breakthroughs, and how combining execution strategy with mindset mastery is the game-changer for business owners. Whether you're overwhelmed by follow-ups, frustrated with unproductive networking, or struggling with sabotaging behaviors — this episode has the tools, mindset shifts, and clarity to help you close more deals with less stress.

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Key Takeaways:

• ✅ Follow-up is everything. If you’re not following up consistently, you’re leaving money on the table.

• 🧠 Your consistency doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Define your version and stick with it.

• 💬 Conversations that close are built by asking the right questions. When done correctly, prospects will literally tell you how to close them.

• 🔄 Sales success isn’t just tactical—it’s internal. Saboteurs, limiting beliefs, and disempowering self-talk can crush your ability to execute.

• 📅 Networking without a system is a waste of time. The stack of business cards means nothing if you don’t have a plan to engage the right people.

• 💥 The ‘People Pleaser’ trap is real. Learn to set boundaries and say no to the wrong people so you can say yes to the right ones.

• 🔁 Repetition makes it real. Like golf, the awkwardness of new techniques fades with practice and the system becomes second nature.

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Links & Resources:

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• Identify your 5Ws

• Master follow-up strategy

• Ask powerful, closing questions

• Manage your mindset & saboteurs

• Network with precision & intention

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Quote of the Episode:

“You're not being pushy — you just know you have the solution to their problem. When you ask the right questions, they'll tell you exactly how to close them.”

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