Let's talk about something that often stays hidden in the shadows of our lives – pain/trauma. It's that deep, unsettling experience that sneaks up on us when we're looking the other way. It's sly, making us think what we went through was just 'normal,' or it doesn't matter because someone else 'had it worse.' But here's the thing: pain isn't about comparisons. It's personal, and if it's stuck with you, it matters.

Now, imagine this: there's a force, a higher power out there that's looking at the broken pieces of your life right now, saying, 'I can make this new again.' Not 'new' as in starting from scratch, but 'new' as in restored, with character and depth. Think about it. Scars can be reminders, not of defeat, but of victory and resilience.

I want to leave you with this thought – we're like prisoners of hope, bound to the belief that what's been lost can be doubled in its return. It's about looking at the empty spaces and the wreckage and still being able to say, 'Something good is going to come out of this.' Because, according to ancient promises, like a road in the wilderness or a river in the desert, healing and new beginnings are not just possible; they're on the horizon."

And with that, let's start this conversation. Where do you feel broken, and how can you begin to see that brokenness as the first step towards a new dawn in your life? Let's dive in.

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Welcome back subscribers! In this episode we talk about service, selflessness, and "The Golden Rule" and investigate the motives we may or may not be hiding behind it AND how we can dramatically grow in our journey to becoming better men by seeking to serve first instead of ask first.

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Have you got a man that you can confide in and also call you up when needed into being a better version of yourself? In this continuation of the book reading of "Disciplines for Men" by Vince Miller, we discuss Brotherhood and its importance in our lives. To see more of Vince's materials, go to his website beresolute.org and see his materials, resources, and daily devotional content.

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In this episode we work through the second part of Vince Miller's "Disciplines for Men" book and discuss Scripture and how to approach it and implement it as a daily discipline...and why it's important to us as men. Check out Vince's website and other resources at his website beresolute.org

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In this episode we go through Part 1 of Vince Miller's book "Disciplines for Men: A Handbook for Him" which can be ordered from his site beresolute.org

The first discipline we cover is prayer. Do you ever pray? Or on the rare occasion you do, it's when you're at the end of the rope and throwing a Hail Mary towards the end zone? Give this episode a listen and hear what Vince shares in his book about creating this discipline in a simple way.

Men, have you ever thought about the ramifications of choosing your wife outside of "I'm happy. She's hot. She puts up with me."?? In this subscriber-only episode we talk about the 7 ways that choosing our wives well can impact our lives and the lives of those around us.

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2. Waite, L. J., & Gallagher, M. (2000). The case for marriage: Why married people are happier, healthier, and better off financially. New York: Doubleday. Link
3. Chapman, G. (2015). The 5 love languages: The secret to love that lasts. Chicago: Northfield Publishing. Link
4. Finkel, E. J. (2017). The all-or-nothing marriage: How the best marriages work. New York: Dutton. Link
5. Popenoe, D., & Whitehead, B. D. (2004). The state of our unions: The social health of marriage in America. New Brunswick, NJ: National Marriage Project. Link