Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

By: Emily & Johnny Spigelmire | Christian Marriage Recovery Coaches
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  • ***Top 1.5% Global Podcast*** Dear Betrayed, Are you in shock? Confused, devastated, hurt, angry and feeling like you are not enough? Do you feel like it must be your fault, like you should have somehow seen the signs? Are you grieving the death of the marriage you thought you had? Dear Betrayer, Have you been believing the lie that if people knew what was really in your heart and mind, they would turn their back on you? Have you been convinced that your wife and family would leave you and you would lose everything if/when you came clean? Beloved, do you both feel like your marriage is over? Well, you’re right. That marriage full of secrets and lies IS over. But now there is hope for an honest and transparent marriage - one full of trust, safety, connection, forgiveness, acceptance, and intimacy that you’ve never known before. Bold statement, right? You may be thinking, “No way!” That’s okay. We understand… Hi, we are Johnny and Emily Spigelmire and we have been where you are... As a result of adultery fueled by pornography, the marriage vows we had exchanged as starry-eyed newlyweds and had worked so hard to keep were eventually shattered. We’ve been through hell and back. But we are here, together, to let you know that this devastation we experienced was actually a gift. Of course, we didn’t see it that way at first and you probably don’t either. But, through a commitment to recovery, our faith in God, and our hope for redemption, we set out on a journey of healing, and we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned with you. We now have a marriage that continually blows our minds, and we give God all the glory! So, if you’re ready to move from heartbreak and pain to hope and healing, grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and join us on a journey of faith as we talk through difficult questions like; Is there hope for our marriage? Can I fix all the damage I’ve done? Can I ever trust again? Is true intimacy even possible? We will also do deep dives into the topics of: * Isolation * Guilt and Shame * Anger * Rejection * Addiction * Trauma * Body Image * Triggers * Communication * And more… Our story, like yours, is a messy one. But, with God’s help, it is possible to recover what was lost, stolen, or given away. We know this because God has turned the ashes of our lives into something beautiful and we believe he can do that for you too. You can connect with us at: support@beyondbrokenvows.com https://insider.beyondbrokenvows.com/ https://coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com/ We would love to be part of your journey to healing and wholeness!
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Episodes
  • 78 | Forgiving the “Other Woman” - A Path to Peace After Sexual Betrayal Trauma

    78 | Forgiving the “Other Woman” - A Path to Peace After Sexual Betrayal Trauma
    Nov 4 2024

    On this show, we have often talked about forgiveness - the need for extending forgiveness and how to walk out forgiveness. It has been in the context of forgiving your spouse for sexual betrayal, but what about the other woman? Or women? There are many different scenarios and every marriage has a unique story of brokenness. But there is a common thread of knowing there are those outside of your marriage who contributed to and/or participated in your spouse’s sexual sin. How do you forgive these people who you may not even know?

    In this episode, we discuss the difficult topic of forgiving the “other women” involved in a marriage infidelity. Emily shares her personal journey of forgiveness, detailing the challenges and steps she took to forgive not only Johnny, who had a long history of pornography and extramarital affairs, but also the women involved. She describes how she navigated her emotions and found empathy and compassion for those she once resented.

    Join us for this frank discussion on forgiveness and then share it with someone you know needs to hear it.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, https://beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 11. Freedom and Healing: 4 Keys to Unlocking Forgiveness After Sexual Betrayal

    Episode 61. Is Joy Possible After Sexual Betrayal?

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    29 mins
  • 77 | 4 Practical Steps for Vigilance in Recovery from Porn-Fueled Infidelity

    77 | 4 Practical Steps for Vigilance in Recovery from Porn-Fueled Infidelity
    Oct 28 2024

    Have you ever found yourself in a situation that totally surprised you, leaving you unsure of how to react? It happens to all of us!

    When we’re on the journey to recovering from sex addiction, those unexpected moments can be particularly challenging. It’s important to be aware and not let our guard down, as staying vigilant plays a crucial role in our recovery.

    We’d love for you to join us today as we chat about the importance of staying watchful throughout our recovery process and how it can positively impact our relationships with our wives.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, https://beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

    💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe

    RESOURCES:

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

    (Paid affiliate links may be included. We earn a commission from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.)

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    ✔️FOLLOW so you don’t miss a show!

    ✔️Leave a 5-star rating & written review on Apple Podcast.

    ✔️ You can connect with us at support@beyondbrokenvows.com.

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    37 mins
  • 76 | What Do You Mean You Don't Regret Your Sexual Betrayal??

    76 | What Do You Mean You Don't Regret Your Sexual Betrayal??
    Oct 21 2024

    When you hear the statement, "I do not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it". What thoughts and/or emotions surface immediately? Our experience has shown us that the initial reaction from a betrayed spouse will likely differ from that of the one who has broken faith. The former will react in a posture of, "You better regret your past!". And the latter will feel that they are “supposed to” regret their past actions.

    Join us today as we navigate our way through this potentially triggering statement on The Beyond Broken Vows Podcast.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, https://beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

    💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe

    RESOURCES:

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

    (Paid affiliate links may be included. We earn a commission from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.)

    Twelve Promises - from AA & SAA

    1. If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through.

    2. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.

    3. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.

    4. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace.

    5. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others.

    6. That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear.

    7. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows.

    8. Self-seeking will slip away.

    9. Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change.

    10. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us.

    11. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us.

    12. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves

    Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us - sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them.

    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 25 | Persistent Sexual Integrity Issues in Marriage. Do Recovery Programs Really Work?

    Episode 11. Freedom and Healing: 4 Keys to Unlocking Forgiveness After Sexual Betrayal

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    ✔️FOLLOW so you don’t miss a show!

    ✔️Leave a 5-star rating & written review on Apple Podcast.

    ✔️ You can connect with us at support@beyondbrokenvows.com.
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    35 mins

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Thank you for this! Much needed and helpful information. They give the details of both sides of the affair and addiction which helps to understand it as a whole. This has come at the perfect time too, I really appreciate this podcast.

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