• Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

  • By: Heather Tingle
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Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

By: Heather Tingle
  • Summary

  • In this podcast, Heather will teach you what really works, and what doesn't, to successfully declutter your home - as when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic, it isn't just a case of hiring a skip and having a big sort out - it's not that easy!

    Heather is an expert in working with families that live in chaos, and all the challenges that brings. She is Autistic and has ADHD so knows all about how neurodiversity links to clutter. As a naturally messy person herself, she can show you how to live in a clean, clutter free and organised home regardless of the issues you face. She thrives on creating strategies and systems that work for real families. Transforming your cluttered homes to calm, safe spaces can also improve your mental, physical and financial health, learn all about it in this podcast.

    Heather Tingle has been a member of The Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers since 2016. She and her family have had hoarding tendencies, living in messy homes, stuck in that never ending, exhausting cycle of chores and tidying. She decluttered her home and found a new, calmer and more content way to live. She now supports clients in person and online to achieve the same outcome in their own homes - and now you can learn how she does it through this podcast too!

    © 2025 Heather Tingle trading as Untangled by Tingle
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Episodes
  • 078 - The Truth About Notebooks: Why You Don’t Need Another One!
    Apr 18 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the common issue of accumulating notebooks that often go unused. She discusses the psychological allure of stationery, the importance of decluttering these items, and offers practical advice on how to effectively use or replace notebooks with alternatives. Heather emphasises the need to rethink the purpose of notebooks and encourages listeners to let go of unnecessary items while finding more efficient ways to organise their thoughts and tasks.


    Takeaways

    • Notebooks often accumulate without being used effectively.
    • The allure of new stationery can lead to repeated cycles of purchase and neglect.
    • Perfectionism can hinder the use of notebooks, leading to stress over mistakes.
    • Many notes in notebooks are rarely revisited and can be let go.
    • Writing in notebooks is more about learning than referencing later.
    • Shredding or burning old notes can be cathartic and freeing.
    • Consider the actual need for each notebook before keeping it.
    • Alternatives like diaries and post-it notes can be more effective for organisation.
    • Technology can provide useful tools for note-taking and organisation.
    • Remarkable - digital alternative to notebooks (affiliate link)
    • Using what you already have can prevent unnecessary purchases.


    Chapters

    00:00
    The Notebook Dilemma

    02:52
    Understanding Our Attachment to Notebooks

    06:08
    Rethinking the Purpose of Notebooks

    08:57
    Alternatives to Traditional Notebooks

    Support the show

    If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    11 mins
  • 077 - Is clutter keeping you safe?
    Apr 11 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the complex relationship between clutter and the sense of safety it provides. She discusses how clutter can create a false sense of security, the emotional connections people have with their belongings, and the importance of finding safety beyond physical items. Heather emphasizes the need for self-trust and the role of routines and therapy in creating a safe environment without relying on clutter.

    Takeaways

    • Your clutter does not keep you safe.
    • Clutter can create a false sense of protection.
    • Living in clutter is often a loss of control.
    • Emotional connections to objects can hinder decluttering.
    • Letting go of items can feel like losing part of yourself.
    • Clutter can be a protective mechanism against emotional discomfort.
    • Self-trust is essential in the decluttering process.
    • Finding safety can come from routines and boundaries.
    • It's important to acknowledge the emotional aspect of clutter.
    • You are not alone in your decluttering journey.


    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to Clutter and Safety

    02:48
    The Illusion of Clutter as Protection

    06:08
    Emotional Connections to Clutter

    09:00
    Finding Safety Beyond Clutter


    Support the show

    If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    11 mins
  • 076 - Stop Waiting, Start Enjoying: Why "Perfect" is Holding You Back
    Apr 4 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the importance of taking immediate action in decluttering and organising your space. She shares cautionary tales from her clients who waited for the perfect moment to put items in their place, leading to unnecessary stress and clutter. Heather emphasises that 'done is better than perfect' and encourages listeners to enjoy their items now rather than waiting for ideal circumstances.


    Takeaways

    • Waiting for perfection can lead to more stress.
    • Immediate action can alleviate clutter and anxiety.
    • Items can deteriorate while waiting to be used.
    • Enjoy your items now instead of waiting for the perfect moment.
    • Perfectionism can hinder progress in decluttering.
    • It's easier to adjust items later than to wait for perfection.
    • Decluttering should be a fluid process, not a rigid one.
    • Neurodivergent tendencies can influence our desire for perfection.
    • Small actions can lead to significant progress in organization.
    • Be kind to yourself during the decluttering journey.


    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to Decluttering Mindset

    02:45
    The Importance of Immediate Action

    05:37
    Overcoming Perfectionism in Decluttering


    Support the show

    If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    7 mins
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I finally feel understood!

This podcast has made a big change in my life. Now I see why all these other declutter systems have not worked for me. As soon as I “zoned” which was very scary I started to feel relief. Thank you for making this podcast available Heather!

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