What if you achieved your dream of becoming something like a fighter pilot? What boy doesn’t? Then you achieve your BHAG of being accepted into Top Gun school. But in an instant the dream turned reality comes crashing down. Not only are you not able to enter Top Gun school training but ultimately, the Navy kicks you out because of your handicap. What do you do then? Meet this week’s guest John Ramstead. He was a chubby, bullied kid that watched Top Gun the movie and was hooked. He was going to be a fighter pilot. But he had to overcome self doubt to take the first step. Not only did he become a U.S. Navy combat pilot, he was approved to enter Top Gun training. It was all lining up until one incident ended it all. You want to listen to this episode as he shares the challenges he had to overcome before, during, and after his Navy career. https://www.beyondinfluence.com Eternal Leadership podcast https://eternalleadership.com/305-2/ Book: On Purpose with Purpose: Discovering how to live your best life https://www.beyondinfluence.com/book/ Key Takeaways: Realism of Top Gun Maverick Dad’s advice. “Bet on yourself” 1 out of 10,000 applicants make it into flight school Dad’s words of wisdom that put him at the head of the class Don’t let what you do become your identity Jobless and 45, married with kids Mentorship is crucial for personal and professional growth. Finding someone who has achieved what you want to achieve and learning from their experiences can be invaluable. Creating a safe space for communication is essential in any relationship. It allows for open and honest conversations that can lead to growth and improvement. Mindset plays a significant role in success. Adopting a growth mindset and reframing failures as learning opportunities can lead to personal and professional growth. Balancing work and personal life is essential for overall well-being and success. Prioritizing relationships and setting boundaries can lead to greater fulfillment in all areas of life. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:23 Realism of the Movie Top Gun 03:49 John's Journey to Becoming a Fighter Pilot 06:24 The Importance of Mentorship 09:57 Recognizing the Need for Relationship Improvement 13:16 Creating a Safe Space for Communication 18:16 Dealing with Conflict at Home and Professionally 21:36 John's Transition from Fighter Pilot to Executive Coach 30:48 John's Work as an Executive Coach John Ramstead is not your ordinary keynote speaker and trainer. He’s a former combat Navy fighter pilot, a transformative executive coach, the compelling voice behind the international podcast "Eternal Leadership", and the bestselling author of "On Purpose with Purpose—Discovering How to Live Your Best Life." Notably, Inc. Magazine lauded him as one of "The Top 12 Podcasts Leaders Need to Listen To." But beyond accolades and achievements, John's mission is to uplift individuals, enterprises, and government entities to their pinnacle of potential. Success to significant A decade ago, as John soared professionally, destiny threw a wrench in his path. A harrowing, near-fatal accident challenged his physical limits with twenty-three surgeries and almost two years of intensive medical rehabilitation and led him to a profound spiritual awakening. John experienced an in-person encounter with God at this life-altering junction, assuring him of his survival. This intimate rendezvous with the Divine didn't just save his life; it reshaped its very essence. The encounter with the living God imprinted upon John a vital message he feels compelled to share with the world. With an electrifying presence, John captivates audiences from varied backgrounds. His life story, reminiscent of an edge-of-your-seat Hollywood tale, offers hope, renewal, and transformation. But John is more than a storyteller; he's a catalyst for change. Fueled by his encounter with God and unyielding passion, he emboldens others to discover their authentic purpose. Join him on this journey, and prepare to receive a blueprint to live daily with fervor, intention, and divine purpose. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Need to create more time to dedicate to your marriage? Download this free guide. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/boundaries Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
