In this episode, I’m breaking down the key differences between coaching and therapy—a topic that often confuses people. While both provide emotional support, they serve very different purposes. Coaching is action-oriented, focused on shifting your mindset, regulating emotions, and taking steps toward real change, whereas therapy tends to focus more on deep emotional processing and past traumas.

If you’ve ever wondered whether coaching is right for you or how it differs from therapy, this episode will give you the clarity you need!

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[00:00] - Introduction

• Why I felt called to record this episode.
• The common misunderstanding between coaching and therapy.

[02:15] - Why People Seek Coaching & How It Compares to Therapy

• Many women come to coaching feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or emotionally dysregulated.
• Coaching is not cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), though they have some overlaps.

[05:30] - What Coaching Looks Like in Practice

• The first step in coaching is creating emotional safety.
• I help clients regulate their nervous system so they can start thinking more clearly.
• Simple tools like breathwork, movement, sensory engagement, and scheduling self-care.

[09:45] - The Shift from Emotional Regulation to Thought Work

• Coaching helps you change how you think—not just what you think.
• We begin questioning deeply ingrained beliefs that are keeping you stuck.
• The difference between coaching and therapy: coaching is solution-focused and actionable.

[14:00] - How Social Conditioning Holds Women Back

• Many of us have been taught to prioritize others’ needs over our own.
• People-pleasing, overworking, and feeling like life is a performance rather than something you truly live.
• How coaching helps you break free from these patterns and create a life that feels aligned.

[18:30] - Why Questioning Your Thoughts Is the Key to Transformation

• Most of us believe our thoughts are absolute truths, but they’re just perspectives.
• When we start questioning what we think is “right” or “necessary,” we unlock real change.
• Coaching teaches you to reshape your mindset so you can take control of your life.

[22:00] - Closing Thoughts & Next Steps

• The power of coaching in shifting your mindset and daily experience.
• Want to dive deeper? Join my upcoming masterclass for just $10 at joinamanda.ca.
• Connect with me on Instagram & TikTok (@TheAmandaHess) or book a free consult at amandahess.ca/bookacall.

In this episode, I dive into the topic of self-worth, something I surprisingly haven’t covered in depth before—despite this being my 245th episode! I reflect on my podcast journey and how over 130,000 listeners have tuned in, which is incredible.

We often feel like we’re not enough, whether in relationships, careers, or personal growth. But the truth is, self-worth is intrinsic—it’s something we are born with, not something we have to earn. The challenge is not about proving our worth but learning how to navigate fear, self-doubt, and emotions so they don’t hold us back.

I share how shifting our perspective on self-worth can transform our confidence and overall experience of life. Instead of trying to “feel good enough,” we should focus on processing emotions, balancing our inner world, and taking action despite fear.

If this resonates with you, I’m hosting a confidence masterclass on February 11th to go even deeper into these ideas. You can register at joinamanda.ca. Let’s build the life we truly want—without questioning our worth.

Tune in and let’s talk self-worth!

• Amanda reflects on reaching 245 podcast episodes and how over 130,000 people have listened.
• She realizes she’s never done a full episode on self-worth before, which surprises her.
• Welcomes both new and returning listeners.

• Many women struggle with feeling “not good enough.”
• Self-worth influences confidence, happiness, and fulfillment in life.
• A common belief: “I don’t feel like I have self-worth” → This thinking keeps us stuck.

• Self-worth is intrinsic—it’s not something we earn, prove, or lose.
• Example: A newborn baby has full worth despite doing nothing—why wouldn’t that be true for adults?
• Key takeaway: We don’t have to search for or create self-worth—it’s already there.

• Many people chase self-worth through:
  • Productivity & success
  • Relationships & approval
  • Physical appearance & achievements
• But when is it ever enough? The cycle never ends because we’re looking in the wrong place.

• People often say, “I’m not starting because I don’t feel good enough.”
• The real issue is fear of failure, rejection, or uncertainty.
• Example: Dating fears → It’s not about self-worth but about learning to navigate emotions like fear and uncertainty.

• You don’t need more self-worth—you need to get comfortable with discomfort.
• Confidence comes from:
  • Feeling fear and taking action anyway.
  • Learning to regulate emotions.
  • Trusting yourself to handle challenges.
• The key is not avoiding fear but learning to process it.

• Feeling “not enough” leads to feeling powerless.
• Instead of trying to feel worthy, ask: “What do I actually want, and how do I get there?”
• Learning to navigate emotions like fear, frustration, and overwhelm leads to real confidence.

• You already have self-worth—you don’t need to prove it.
• The real work is learning how to navigate emotions and take action despite fear.
• If this resonates, join the Confidence Masterclass on February 11th to dive deeper.
  • Register at: joinamanda.ca
  • Time: 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
  • Cost: $9.95 USD
• Final message: You are already enough—now, let’s focus on creating the life you want.

Have you ever felt stuck because of the labels you or others have placed on you? In this episode, we’re taking a deep dive into how labels shape our lives—for better or worse.

Labels can offer clarity, community, and tools for growth, but they can also hold us back when we use them to justify staying stuck. Together, we’ll unpack why our brains love labels, how to recognize when they’re helping versus hurting, and the steps you can take to break free from limiting beliefs.

This episode is packed with actionable insights to help you shift your mindset, regulate your emotions, and create a life that feels fulfilling and aligned—no matter what challenges or labels you’re navigating. Whether it’s ADHD, dyslexia, or the dreaded “people pleaser” identity, I’ll show you how to turn your labels into stepping stones instead of roadblocks.

💡 Ready to dive deeper? Join me for my masterclass on January 30th to learn how to build confidence, self-esteem, and emotional resilience. Grab your spot at joinamanda.ca.

📞 Or book a free discovery call with me at amandahess.ca/bookacall.

Let’s rewrite your story—one empowering step at a time.

[00:01] Introduction

• Why labels are such a significant topic and how they often impact my clients’ results.
• The invitation to listen with an open heart and curiosity.

[02:45] The Human Brain’s Need for Efficiency

• How our brains naturally create and use labels to categorize information.
• Understanding subconscious vs. conscious brain activity.

[07:10] How Labels Serve Us

• Labels as tools for understanding ourselves and finding community.
• Examples: ADHD, ASD, and dyslexia—what they reveal and how they can guide us.

[14:30] When Labels Hold Us Back

• The dangers of over-identifying with labels and how they limit potential.
• Why “I can’t do this because of [label]” is a thought, not a fact.

[21:00] Emotional Responsibility and Regulation

• The importance of taking charge of your emotional well-being.
• Practical tips for handling overwhelm, procrastination, and executive dysfunction.

[28:45] Rewriting the Narrative

• Shifting from “this is just how I am” to “this is something I can work with.”
• Personal examples of how I’ve navigated labels like sensitivity and depression.

[34:20] Individuality Beyond Labels

• Why no two people are exactly the same, even within shared labels.
• How to embrace your unique personality while working through challenges.

[38:55] Practical Coaching Insights

• How to dissect specific struggles (e.g., procrastination, people-pleasing) for tailored solutions.
• The importance of nervous system regulation and intentional self-coaching.

[47:10] Final Thoughts and Encouragement

• Why nothing about you is permanent and everything is figureoutable.
• A reminder to use labels as tools for empowerment, not barriers to success.

[50:30] Ways to Work With Me

• Masterclass: Join me on January 30th at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST for an interactive session on building confidence and self-esteem. Sign up at joinamanda.ca.
• Discovery Calls: Book a free call at amandahess.ca/bookacall to explore personalized coaching options.

Let’s break free from limiting labels and create a life that truly reflects your potential.

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